had a nice offer
from
an
‘adult novelty catalog company’
to advertise
on my blog
and i smiled
and thanked them
when
i
turned them down
and
thought about
what
my posts
are
really
all about
nature, animals, philosophy, humor, zen, children, travel, art. life, family, love, compassion, adventure
not so much about dancing girls
and their costumes
and their toys
and their boys
not to say
they
can’t be
about
art or love or zen or adventure
too
for they are all
a part of life
and we all
share the same planet
and
i don’t judge
and
i like to dance
and
wear costumes
and
all the rest
but i figured
chances are
the company
has never really read my blog
and has no idea
who my audience
really
is
your audience gives you everything you need. they tell you.
there is no director who can direct you like an audience.
– fanny brice
—
image credits: library of congress, dobrador.com
I like dancing and costumes! That may be my favorite line here
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thanks, roy )
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Exactly! And I love those themes, as they are similar to ones I hold dear. Lovely post.
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thanks, beth )
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Hmmm, it seems to be a fact of life that we inevitably attract the attention that we do not want first, before we get the attention we do want. There are perhaps good solid above board companies whose advertizing funds you might accept – after all monetizing a blog is indeed a difficult undertaking and helping others to source good solid useful products that you personally like and/or enjoy would be a bonus. pehaps that will come – this may very well be the start of a long line of companies who show an interest in your blog. May the force be with you.
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great points, paul – we shall see )
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Good for you. You KNOW it’s all about THEM, not you. Sigh. 😮
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thanks, and it really is –
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~(*_~)~~
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Boy, would have made my shopping easier…😉
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so sorry, mark. perhaps i should have considered you before turning it down. now, you’ll just have to continue going to that store in the mall in disguise –
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Haha!
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Stewart was a smart guy.
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he was, indeed –
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James Stewart is my favorite actor and was one of my favorite human beings. Good call on your decision around the offer. The brand you’ve built is worth far more than whatever you’d have gotten from them to dilute or diminish it–financially and otherwise. That’s not to be a judgment either way about adult novelties.
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he’s one of my favs too, and think they were just looking at numbers and not content, not a good match –
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OMG…Just say NO! Love the doggie:)
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i thought my blog was a pretty funny choice, but that’s the way life is sometimes – )
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Love this, Beth! I am totally about writing to amuse and entertain my readers. By the way, did they have any “cat-‘o-nine-tails” in the catalog? I’ve been trying to find one for a friend. Good post, thanks.;-)
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thanks, ermine and i see you get it. yes, i do believe the catalog had those for sale, hopefully you can find one for your friend in time for the holidays )
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Love this! It’s interesting writing for a mostly unseen audience, knowing that I write for myself, but loving the connection that comes when a reader takes the time to share themselves too. You never know who may be out there…
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yes, lucia, i love the connections too, and the fact that they are made with all kinds of people, never knowing the whole story –
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Adult novelty and your blog. How do you spell oxymoron.
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yes )
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I think your blog was a great choice….because it’s got lots of TLC and happy customers….But I agree with David, your blog doesn’t suit the category. And yes, Jimmy Stewart was awesome, and so are you!
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thanks, for all of that, and probably not a good fit, but a fun offer for sure )
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I am sure that we all appreciate that we may indulge in some of those fantasies (or hope for it to come to life in a reality in our life) but don’t think the advertising is a plus, in most cases! I love costumes and all the adult accessories, but have become one who still clings to the romantic idea of a dark room and just candles… Funny post, it had me chuckling! Your audience is diverse, they certainly made me laugh at the thought of what diverse ads they may have put beside this nice post!!
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hey, like you, i’m an open minded woman, but just had to laugh at the matchup )
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That dog picture is too much! And good for you on the other thing too. 🙂
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thanks, happy you enjoyed the pic and the humor )
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I love that Zen-like pooch. Yes, I do wonder if some advertisers think about the audience they hope to attract when they try to link to a blog. Funny stuff, Beth. 😉
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he does look quite peaceful, and i think they are simply going for numbers, not really looking for demographics )
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Like you, I don’t judge, I dance with my children, I put on a costume or two, so while the offer is funny to me, they have clearly not taken a good look at your blog, if they had, they would have gone elsewhere 🙂
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i think it was purely a numbers game, and content was irrelevant –
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