after working hard all day
without taking a break to eat
tired and hungry and looking for the easy way out
i decided to just drive through the closest place
to get food to eat on my way home
trying to eat something healthy
was a quite a challenge based on the menu
ordered a small wrap without sauce and unsweetened iced tea
they repeated my order to me
i confirmed it and paid
got my order
slipped back into traffic and headed off
only to quickly discover
much to my dismay
they had actually
added extra sauce, a sugary fake honey mustard sort of thing to my wrap
and poured me a fully-sugared iced tea
was this a trick?
had i asked for my order in some other language that i was unaware of ?
did yes actually mean no?
was i a horrible communicator?
did i appear to need a sugar boost?
too tired and too much traffic to go back
but one of us in the equation was clearly confused
and perhaps both.
—
“the single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.”
-george bernard shaw
—
image credit: pinterest
Pingback: wha? — I didn’t have my glasses on…. – shoptodayblog
Perhaps it was meant to be? I say munching a bar of chocolate the cupboard gave me without me asking. 😀
LikeLiked by 3 people
hahahaha –
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’ve said of a couple of places of employment: “We have no communication problem here. We have no communication to have a problem with.”
LikeLiked by 2 people
so good –
LikeLike
The lost art of listening. Very frustrating.
LikeLiked by 3 people
ah, yes. the art of listening.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I think the person who filled your order gave you what SHE wanted, not what you wanted. And I think that’s what happens a lot in communication. People hear what THEY WANT TO HEAR, not what is expressed….
LikeLiked by 4 people
i think you may just be right –
LikeLike
Agreed.
LikeLike
Fast food, slow to get the order right, Beth. Baaaaaa!
LikeLiked by 1 person
yes, it seems so –
LikeLike
Lol. Spot on
>
LikeLiked by 1 person
isn’t it though ?
LikeLike
Just ask Joe Pesci’s character in Lethal Weapon 2 about drive thru’s! So true!!
LikeLiked by 1 person
ha! yes )
LikeLike
One of the tantalising aspects of blogging is that it brings you into contact with people whose thoughts and values seem so very interesting to you, and you wish you actually knew them in person. You are one of those people for me, and I always love reading your posts 🙂
LikeLiked by 3 people
thanks so much, peter. it is a mutual fascination.
LikeLike
I agree with tric…the mistake was meant to be. Everything happens for a reason 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
)
LikeLike
My Grandma used to tell us all the time things happen for a reason and if you change one thing you change it all
LikeLiked by 1 person
the butterfly effect –
LikeLike
The joys of carry-out if you like surprises:) Love the quote.
LikeLiked by 1 person
yes, you never know, kind of like when you used to get a ‘happy meal’ as a child, you never knew what the toy would be, or even if there would be one in there )
LikeLike
I just don’t think a lot of staff cares or takes pride in what they’re doing anymore.Not just in fast food places. 😦
LikeLiked by 2 people
There is always a huge range in every situation
LikeLiked by 1 person
So many people in the work force today take no pride in their work. They just don’t seem to care. In the alternative, there are those rare ones who do go the extra mile! A bit harder to find, of course! LOL
LikeLiked by 2 people
there are always those gems who pop up and surprise you )
LikeLiked by 1 person
Definitely! Thank goodness! 😁
LikeLiked by 1 person
I think it’s the object of any fast-food restaurant to get your order completely wrong. Order a plain cheeseburger, you’ll get twice as much mustard and ketchup. Ask for one packet of something (mayonnaise, grape jelly, etc.), you’ll get a bagful of it.
LikeLiked by 1 person
perhaps there are monthly contests )
LikeLiked by 1 person
Your post proves that George Bernard Shaw got it right about how often people get it wrong.
LikeLiked by 1 person
)))
LikeLike
so very true. it is amazing…. howsome think NO means Yes. craziness. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
that it is –
LikeLiked by 1 person
The person saw the wrap and stopped reading from there. Most people don’t read all the directions or orders……unfortunately. Did you eat it anyway? ☺
LikeLiked by 1 person
that could very well be – i squished out some of the sauce, but the drink was like kool-aid
LikeLiked by 1 person
terrific…and happens to us all of the time…thanks for verbalizing…and the quote is magnificent!!!!
LikeLiked by 1 person
thanks, susie and i think shaw said it perfectly.
LikeLiked by 1 person
that he did…that’s why he is shaw!
LikeLiked by 1 person
And that quote just sums that up perfectly!
LikeLiked by 1 person
doesn’t it though?
LikeLiked by 1 person
At least you speak the same language 🙃 I struggle through with my appalling Italian and a lot of arm waving
LikeLiked by 1 person
we do, but it does not seem to have any impact or make any difference at times.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I have eaten stuff I wouldn’t dream of eating, because I knew it would be a mistake to admit I didn’t know what lumaca or asino was
LikeLiked by 1 person
makes perfect sense to me
LikeLiked by 1 person
😀 I too always smiles thanks for sharing kindness Beth! 🤓☺️
LikeLiked by 1 person
And thank you for reading)
LikeLiked by 1 person
🤓😀💫
LikeLike
I love how you thought of a way to make this into a conversation and a question!! I was impressed you didn’t use a “wtf?” 😀
LikeLiked by 2 people
Thanks robin and maybe that would sum it up in an even better way )
LikeLiked by 1 person
😀
Oh, and my one year relationship bit the dust, since he has canceled two times when very late (at 8 on!) Twice on Saturday nights. Once in May, other in June. Since few people here will come from one blog to another, I am posting here. My email is not really able to access on my phone. Too much data in pictures!! Lol
LikeLiked by 2 people
i’m so sorry, but you seemed to have some reservations about it, even in your earlier comments. he obviously was not willing to give as much to the relationship as you were, and that is not fair to you. onward!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you, Beth! It is cool to know things may be going better with you, as I am always hopeful for my friends, too. (Carry on. . .🎶)
LikeLike
oh! hahaha! reminds me of ordering sammiches in New Orleans. Dressed or with nothing on it.
what a great show quote!
Ellespeth
LikeLiked by 1 person
funny !
LikeLike
imho: Most fast-food workers are not paid enough money to care very much. And since you drove thru, you probably would not be in a position to complain to them. In my very infrequent drive-thru trips, I learned (the hard way, of course) to always double check my order before driving off. It has saved a rumbling stomach. And carry emergency granola bars & oranges in one’s vehicle.
LikeLiked by 1 person
yes, to all of that –
LikeLike
Reblogged this on From 1 Blogger 2 Another.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks
LikeLike
This would piss me off a lot
LikeLiked by 1 person
i just took it in stride and figured someone had a bad day –
LikeLike
I love that quote. So true.
LikeLiked by 1 person
isn’t it?
LikeLiked by 1 person
Pingback: The Big Illusion | Kevin Barrett's Blog