along the way on my weekday drive
there is often a traffic mishap or accident
and if I begin to worry about being late
or get annoyed by the hold up
i think about how the person/people involved must feel
how their life instantly changed in that moment
they were just having an ordinary day
and then
this happened
maybe they were
headed to work
to visit someone
leaving for a vacation
going to a celebration
helping someone
so many possibilities
i’ve got no room to complain
nothing to worry about
puts it all right back into perspective
so i listen to my music and sit with my gratitude.
—
“since human wisdom cannot secure us from accidents,
it is the greatest effort of reason to bear them well. “
-john paul jones
—
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I hope to bear them well, as well. And to hope all is well for those involved.
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yes, me too –
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I think that’s a wonderful attitude, Beth. While on the road, we are all only a hair’s breadth from an accident ourselves. We are fortunate there aren’t more of them.
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Absolutely
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Positive thinking.
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And why not?
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Indeed.
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So true.
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❤️
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A good way to look at it. Thank you!
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You’re very welcome
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Yes, you are very right about this perspective, Beth.
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I think it’s better for everyone
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Well said, Beth
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Thank you
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😊
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You are so right. Grateful for all you have, safe, still on your way. Saying a prayer for those involved in the mishap.
Last week while travelling home on the 400 series highway, I got caught up in road construction – 4x’s. As I sat there in the dark, I looked across at the traffic going the other way. It was like a Christmas display!!! Headlights bright, dim racing by, transport trucks lit like Christmas trees, multicoloured lights outlining their frames. It was something to just sit, relax and behold.
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It changes everything
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Perfect. It took a long time for me to find this attitude but I’m healthier for it. I hope my kids learn it sooner than I did.
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It helps for all concerned
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I would like to acquire that attitude, any tips?
http://www.thedialoguesofkrisandvlad.wordpress.com
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This is such a wonderful outlook on life. I try to be understanding and serene, but you must do it much better than I do:)
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It just hit me one day when I was sitting there annoyed
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Terrific point – as annoying as the delay is, the person in the midst of the trauma is going through much worse indeed…
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that’s it –
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Any traffic jam is a reason to admire the surroundings and you see things you never noticed before. No point getting irritated as it is beyond our control. Stay in the moment. Often we don’t know the reason for jams and just hope that nothing serious has happened.
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you are absolutely right, ute
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John Paul Jones the sea captain or the rocker? 😉 Very wise words.
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Wise coming from either)
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❤
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An important reminder, Beth. It happens so fast.
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It does
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so so true. We hear the klaxon so often, as we’re not far from a hospital…. and every time, as well as when we’re on a motorway, and there’s an accident or incident, we send a quick prayer and a sigh for the person(s) involved, their wellbeing and their families. My motto is: I arrive when I’m there…. it helps to keep one’s calm.
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Yes, that’s it
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#Truth.
I always say a little prayer for the people in the accident. Must be awful. Being without a vehicle, if that’s the case, would be a huge blow. I’ve been there.
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That’s very kind
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Well said!
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thank you
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You’re welcome.
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I have the same kind thoughts as you, but at the same time, I’m annoyed if it causes a delay. talk about cognitive dissonance!
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Its a challenge to find a balance at times
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You are wise, Beth!
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years of living…
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