in recent days
i have seen and read about
many gestures of hospitality
one reaching out to another
with each act
i find a renewed sense of hope.
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“hospitality is always an act that benefits the host even more than the guest. the concept of hospitality arose in ancient times when the reciprocity was easier to see: in nomadic cultures, the food and shelter one gave to a stranger yesterday is the food and shelter one hopes to receive from a stranger tomorrow. by offering hospitality, one participates in the endless reweaving of a social fabric on which all can depend – thus the gift of sustenance for the guest becomes a gift of hope for the host.”
-parker j. palmer
its so true. we should all try to be hospitable. the world would be a much better place. ❤
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it certainly would
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Such wisdom from a simple act of kindness. It is moving. Thank you Beth.
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it is all about the simple acts
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I went to the shops the other day and it was feral madness but there were three people I encountered who were calm, friendly and helpful. Gave me some hope.
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and those are the 3 you remember the most
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Around here people are offering to shop for the elderly on NEXTDOOR. One person said she was disabled and out of toilet paper and the offers to bring her rolls rolled in (pardon the bun..I mean pun 😉) There are GOOD, GOOD people in this world..
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there certainly are –
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❤️
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❤
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Ah yes. We are all connected. ❤
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we absolutely are
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We need open arms as we distance socially. It’s a difficult complex, but we must figure it out, Beth.
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that’s it exactly, mark
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We are seeing our true nature – humanity and love. May these people influence us all. Thank you for being one of them Beth 💕
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❤️
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In challenging times we see the best and the worst of ourselves. What I’ve mostly seen, so far, is the best. Bless that.
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I agree with all of this, Jim
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Sign the out humanity is still alive.
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Yes –
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Beauty.
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❤️
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In the midst of all this chaos, it has been truly inspiring to see the community pull together. It does give me hope. ❤
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i so agree
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I think so much good will come of this in the aftermath. I pray our restaurants can hold on with no business through the next few months, because there will be a lot of celebrating when this has passed. Keep posting the happy things, Beth!
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Me too, kerbey. Thanks!
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I hope all the businesses will make it, and all the workers will pull through, too.
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I so do too
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So true ❤
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❤
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That’s beautiful. ❤
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❤
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I’ve noticed the same thing – it’s wonderful to see.
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it sure is –
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To me the most wondrous thing is that the canals in Venice are cleaner than they’ve been in my life time. The fish and dolphins have returned. ❤
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And with any luck parting gifts too.
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For once I disagree. I never, ever would offer anybody anything with the idea it has to be reciprocal. I don’t know about the ‘gift of hope for the host’. If I do something for somebody, I do it because it’s my way of doing something, because it’s right and I need to do it. And I wouldn’t want to have it any other way.
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i interpreted it to mean that ‘we are all in this together’ and in the giving the host receives a gift of hope from seeing it helping someone else. all is not a lost cause. there is never an expectation of reciprocation, only that they know that people are good and have the belief that others might help them in their own time of need. a comfort for all.
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I see. The thing is that I believe so much in the Good in humankind that this “version” wouldn’t even have entered my mind.
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i totally get that, i’m a believer in the good in people, but am always made happy when i see it in action, no matter how many times i see it -)
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I love this, Beth! I’m actually writing a paper on hospitality for school right now. So this is a topic fresh on my mind, intensified by the COVID-19 situation. I’d never thought about the host being hosted or having benefit before this class, so thanks for reinforcing what I’m discovering. These are times for us to get more creative about hospitality. We need connection now more than ever, yet we can’t in traditional fashion….hugs to you and yours. ~Zoe
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best of luck with all of it, zoe. happy to have reinforced your learning.
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I am encouraged by the good and the kind.
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yes, me too –
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Thanks for sharing.
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Agree! Lovely post, Beth.
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Thanks, resa
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