not me, but someone in my age range with a similar level of enthusiasm
—
on my maiden voyage
into the world of
the senior grocery shopping hour
60 and up’s
i was
looking raggedy
with the
pallor of someone
who’s done hard time served in quarantine
i was met at the door
by a customer helper
who wiped down cart handles
as we each took one
in an orderly way
i was happily headed in
when a worker at the self-checkout
shot me a disdainful dirty look
i chalked it up to her being forced to be here under duress
i shopped
carefully
moving among the others
mindful of age
and
people with less obvious challenges
trying to be happy and friendly
as i was getting ready to leave
a fellow shopper approached me
saying,
“they really should check i.d. and you know what i mean!!”
it finally hit me
that both negative reactions
came in response to them doubting if i was really a senior
i had to laugh and take it as a compliment
thought back to my younger days
when i falsely tried to convince people i was ‘of age’
by using my oldest sister’s license as fake i.d.
funny how things change and stay the same.
—
“none are so old as those who have outlived enthusiasm.”
-henry david thoreau
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image credit: animal planet
Haha.. good one Beth…..these i get disappointed when they don’t ask for my I.D. when I go up to a Bar for a beer……oh to be young again….
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i hear you -)
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Teehee, Beth! People used to take years off my age, but now I’m grey and less able, they add years on!!!
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so funny, never judge –
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Precisely….
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LOL LOOOOL…. I know, same thing here, although I have the white hair since my 40th…..
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it is funny, always having to prove our age up or down )
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Thanks for such an entertaining post. This is such a great problem to have.
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really, it’s a good one in the scheme of things )
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had no id that would happen, did ya?:))
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funny!
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Funny! Yeah I still got carded when I was 30, but I don’t think anyone really doubts my age now.
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i wish they had carded me, just like when i turned 18 or 21
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Though you wouldn’t really want them to touch your card. 😀
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right!
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Hahahaha. Although having met you I can completely understand those looks.
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once i got it, i was happy about it
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“It ain’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so.” –attrib to Mark Twain.
My niece has a child with a dangerous heart condition, making it difficult or even dangerous for him to walk long distances. She has a handicap tag on her car, but says she often gets dirty looks or even nasty comments from others when she parks in handicap spots so her child can walk in without using the wheelchair. She dreads the day her child is old enough to understand these mean spirited observations.
You’re so lucky to look so young. I think about Barbara Bush, who was often mistaken for her husband’s mother.
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I thought about that too, many people sharing that space with me had health issues that were not obvious. People need to not be so quick to judge
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Not to brag on it, Beth, but I too received the same No You Aren’t looks at the Seniors Shop hour at the local supermarket. I looked ‘em in the eye and silently said Yes I Am! I know from our past exchanges that you and are are the same vintage. We are fortunate to shop with ‘em and maybe perhaps not yet look like we belong.
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yes, i think we are on the same page with this )
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haha, this actually is fun.
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yes –
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There are worse things! I love it.
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absolutely!
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Ha! Great story. And what a wonderfully loony photo. You’ve started my day off with a big grin.
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So glad you included the quote by Thoreau at the end — it applies to me beautifully. I’m trying to keep my enthusiasm through all of the coronavirus stress, but it’s hard. I want to get out!!!
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it is hard, but find it when you can )
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I know the feeling. This takes me back to the day I had to take my passport to the barber’s shop as proof that I was a member of the ‘silver brigade’! Ha.
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so funny
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Truth is stranger than fiction!
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It so is )
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Cheers. Keep Safe.
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U2
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Thanks.
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Beth, That is a hoot! If they ever start checking ID’s just tell them you’re shopping for an Aunt! lol
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i know, so funny, and i do qualify if they ever check me!
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Unbelievable. They thought you cheated. Where’s all that KINDNESS people think is out there? Hahahaha You look so young. Crabby people are everywhere and a virus won’t change them a bit. Still, funny and now looking young is a really GOOD thing. 🙂
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i don’t know that i look that young, but i guess when mixed with an older group, maybe? I had a good laugh out of it
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Oh, you must have fooled them. I love it. Some people are always keeping score, no matter what the issue is.
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I think order and rules help people feel like they have some measure of control over uncontrollable circumstances
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It is a compliment.
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it took it as one, and just found it so funny, and something i hadn’t considered
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That’s because you’re not concerned how you look when you’re trying to get the groceries to last a couple of weeks!
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Exactly!
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TP and other stuff is more important. 👍
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LOL. This made me laugh. And it’s funny how everything–even age–is relative, isn’t it?
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it so is )
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Beth you look great but even more impressive is your good hearted soul!
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Funny! With my hair, no one ever questions me anymore!
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💃🏿
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Age is nothing but a number… So funny that it can be viewed from so many different perspectives, depending on the context. I would definitely consider this a compliment!
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Stressed out compliment)
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A compliment indeed! When I bought 5 packages of cheese, the Cashier chastised me about buying more than the limit. I told her there was no sign by this cheese except ht one that said “buy 5 and save $5!” So, which rule do I follow?
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Hahahahaha
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I was carded well into my forties and then my appearance caught up with my age which is actually OK. Still, that comment is rude and unfeeling. You could be like my young neighbor who has some serious breathing problems and has to be very careful. I’m probably going to give this a shot next Wednesday when I can no longer pretend I don’t need bananas. 🙂 I love Thoreau’s quotation and he’s right. Again.
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Yes, there were some others there who most likely had hidden health challenges or were shopping for someone who did. I chalked it up to a lot of stress and worry and moved ahead
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I think for all of us right now sone days are better than others 💗
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Great story and I totally see why that happened!
Once when my daughter was being carded in a restaurant I asked the waitress if she would like to see my id also…once everyone stopped laughing, she said okay but, walked away.
I guess she did have her glasses on! lol
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Ha!
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This is too awesome… lol! But to tell from your profile picture I had never considered you 60 or even above!
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62 1/2!
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same here!
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Wow! But it proves again that a loving heart and a positive mind does reflect on the outside 💖
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❤
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💖
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Love this…
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Thanks!)
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That’s adorable, Beth, and I kind of guessed what the problem was with the first disgruntled look. You have a young-looking face even here, and your attitude is definitely young. Well, take it as a deep wonderful compliment. The more enthusiastic we are about “life,” the younger we be. xo
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Thanks and I agree
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Great :))) This is the best post that I read today, that made me smile.
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i’m so glad it made you smile )
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I love it! beautifully written: I was wondering where it was going then it all came together at the end 🙂
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thanks, john –
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Make a large sign and wear it next time “I will happily show you my ID to show you I am age appropriate” with a big smiley face. “I don’t mind being carded” may work as well.
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I love that approach
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I love the quote! I know what you are talking about. I was surprised to find so many young couples strolling through the aisles without a care in the world during senior hour. But like you said, we are assuming something. You never know. There are many young people who are at risk for many reasons that we cannot see. You sure have a way to present that so we end up laughing. I look older than my 83 year old friend. Sigh. ;(
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❤️
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This post made my day!
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I’m so glad, Marlan )
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What a nice compliment!
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it was )
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Did you tell the person at check out your age?
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nah -)
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Great story. 😃
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What a funny experience! You do not look like a senior citizen in your picture. But I know that feeling too. People have told me I look like I am in my fifties, or at least they used to. The youthful mirage lessens when I get out of the car with my cane. I have had back problems, and now arthritis in my knee. So the cane helps age me a little. Maybe you should get a cane to add a few years to your appearance. Just kidding. Still their reaction of your youthful appearance is also a sign of these times. There are still some wonderful and nice people in the world but some are just under a lot of stress and fear. Keep your inner child alive. That is the real thing that gives us our youthful
appearance.
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yes, it’s an interesting time, and people are worried, i think fears and judgements sometimes are more pervasive during this time. i just try to take it all in stride )
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The best way to do it. Be safe. Hugs!
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love it!
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❤
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Loved this…
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thank you
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❤
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