imagine my surprise
when coming home
noticing the landscapers
had mulched and manured and cleaned
my garden
but in doing so
had removed my garden vision
i’ve been nurturing for a while
a huge mix of wildflower seeds
a naturalized garden
most on the cusp of blooming
it was full and lush and green and tall with stems
so full of potential
the surprise beauty of new flowers
yet to be discovered
i’m sure they just saw weeds
were trying to help me by ‘cleaning it up’
leaving only what they recognized as flowers
i so appreciate all of their work
it’s clear we don’t share the same vision.
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“man is the only critter who feels the need to label things as flowers or weeds.”
~author unknown
The difference between a weed and a flower is often in the eyes of the beholder. Similar to garden plants, weeds can produce colorful flowers and attract beneficial insects, like bees and butterflies, to the yard.
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Sorry to hear about the untimely loss of your flora! I love the idea of a naturalized garden.
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me too, though not everyone is on the same page )
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Even if they are weeds, if they want to self-identify as flowers, we should be supportive of the endeavor to be their truest selves…😁🌹
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so right! and just because they hadn’t yet bloomed, they weren’t recognized –
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I am imagining —but somehow “surprise” isn’t the word that comes to mind…
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you might be right, barb
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Sorry for the loss of your wildflowers. 😔 I hope what they’ve left are bee friendly.
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they will, and I’ve found a solution so it won’t happen next time )
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How disappointing not to be able to see them bloom…
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yes, but they will rise again next spring, as I’ve solved the ‘interpretation’ issue
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This is pretty awful, Beth. I suffer the loss with you from this side of the land.
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thanks mark, and now a ‘one-off’ event )
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A few can see the beauty of wildflowers.
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we all see things differently
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That is so true.
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It’s awful when it happens, but it can happen to any one. A native plant demonstration garden at a local corporation was torn out by a crew told to “clean out the flower beds.” They sure did, and the woman who’d worked with it for months was verklempt.
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yes, it can be viewed very differently by different people
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Oh dear!!!’
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yes, but now I know and they know and it won’t be repeated )
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Your garden vision was far superior. What a bummer.
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we all have different views of the same world
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The weeds I grow on purpose are identifiably obvious. 🙂 And the bunnies (or landscapers) don’t bother them.
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a great approach
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No!? What a shock and disappointment.
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yes but luckily some survived and won’t happen again
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Good, I’m glad to hear some survived!
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I’m so sorry. 😦 You’ll have to begin again and put up a sign, so they don’t do it again. Really sorry.
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Oh no! This breaks my heart…
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they’ll be back next spring )
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Ugh!
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we worked it out moving ahead, and reminded me to never assume someone knows what you’re thinking
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Yep.
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I would have erred the other way, leaving everything there, including weeds…
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due to your kind heart and relaxed approach to weeding?
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You got me figured out!
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oh noooo!! so sorry to hear that!!!
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they’ll be back )
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Sometimes others who mean well can destroy a vision. This story speaks volumes to me! Wow!
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’tis true –
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So sad … for this year at least!
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yes, but they’ll be back
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My father always said: Meaning well is the opposite of good. In this case, the goodwill was there but… oh, well… Since I know about the healing effect of so many “weed” I leave it there too!
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a great quote
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It is often on my mind.
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Oh no! What are weeds to some is the beginning of nature’s wild side to others!
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and, they were actually wildflowers, but some would consider them a weed I suppose
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“Weeds are flowers too, once you get to know them.” ~ Joan Powers (Eeyores gloomy Little Instruction Book, inspired by A.A. Milne, illustrated by Ernest H. Shepard)
And now, the landscapers know. Happy to hear that some of them survived!
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Yes and yes!
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I was thinking about that this morning. I don’t dig out or poison dandelions. I have a wild sunflower taking advantage of my generosity. I was thinking how I’d learned they were weeds but how, to me, they are devices for attracting the bees that will pollinate Li Bai, Tu Fu, Li Ho and Bai Juyi — and Wang Wei if he ever blooms. The bees are my subcontractors and I pay them by growing wildflowers. I have a bed dedicated to them in the back yard and a salvia that’s out of control except to me and the bees.
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I understand all of this
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My over-enthusiastic gardening attitude has put my husband in mortal fear of removing the wrong plant. He won’t even do the weed whacking in case he decapitates an unsuspecting blossom! I do find fences help identify my intention for unknowing visitors.
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Hahahahaha- I get that. My little garden is surrounded by stones )
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LOL. I love an unruly flower bed, too. No mulch, just survival of the fittest. My grandson’s always offering to “clean it up,” not realizing that’s the way I like it.
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It’s funny, isn’t it? What we each see as a ‘garden’?
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oh, so perfect! hot damn! says it all!
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thanks, susie !
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You don’t share the same vision. What a shame for them, they don’t have wondrous eyes. Here’s hoping some wildflowers survive.
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and some did, indeed –
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Aw, that is rather sad, I love the wild flowers and they attract bees etc. Next time you should tell them or put a sign out, “do not touch, insects at work. “
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i love that sign, and we have worked it out to a common understanding –
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I loved this title!
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❤
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How dismally devastating.
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Sorry to hear about your wildflowers, Beth, but your garden is lovely. It’s good that you have a plan so it won’t happen again. 🌼
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There are holes, but they’ll fill. Just meant to be a a relaxed garden )
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I’d have loved to be a fly on the shoulder of the man in charge of eradicating your wildflowers when you explained the situation. 😉 I can see you making yourself perfectly clear. Here’s one for the wildflowers and weeds. 😉
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It was an honest mistake so no bad feelings- yes, here’s to them
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Sorry to hear of your loss, Beth. Wildflowers are often so beautiful.
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they’ll be back ) ty, russ
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Oh dear!
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They’ll be back )
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We’ve often driven by a field of amazing colors on our travels and I express appreciation. HUsband has said frequently “they’re just weeds”. I don’t know who decided a weed was a weed and not to be admired. But I’m a bit of a rebel and decide for myself. 🙂
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I’m with you
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I treated clover as weed for years until I planted two plum trees with early spring blossoms. The clover flowers were the only flowers when winter was not gone. The bees love the clover, I need the bees to pollinate the plum blossoms. Now clover is not weed any more.
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it’s all a matter of perspective
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Exactly.
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A tough lesson, Beth! I would have been heartbroken, for sure.
Now you know the importance of letting people know your intentions…
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Ah so sad, but you should have a lovely bed of soil to plant something nice in.
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☹️ how interesting that where some see beauty, others see weeds
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Yes, kind of a metaphor for life –
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