and here it is, your birthday again –
I didn't have my glasses on....
beth and pam
sisters
room mates
best friends
suddenly
one
was gone
way too early
and
one
was left behind
way too early
and
still
missing the other
on her birthday
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in french you don’t really say, “i miss you.”
you say, “tu me manques,” which is closer to
“you are missing from me.”
i love that.
“you are missing from me.”
you are a part of me.
yes, that is it.
– author unknown
A little bit of her lives on in you every day!
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it does –
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Best wishes! 🙂
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Oops … I wrote the comment before reading the text. I apologize.
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no problem at all –
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I love ‘you are missing from me’ too Beth. Yes, that’s just exactly how it is sometimes: yet, as others have said, our beloved ones live on in us, as Pam’s smile and delight does in you. Thanks for sharing so poignantly 🙂
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i think that phrase says it so well
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happy birthday to her in heaven. “you are missing from me” captures the sentiment more fittingly. i believe she is happy she has not been forgotten 🙂❤️
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I understand…and send love
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So sorry you lost your sister much too soon, Beth. I lost one of mine too soon too. It was her birthday yesterday – the 30th of August. She would have been 62. She was taken from us 25 years ago in May. Way too soon. Thinking of you and your loss. They never really leave us, do they? Hugs xx
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Thank you, Norah and I’m so sorry for you and your family. My sister was also lost in May, when we were both in our early 20s, 40 years ago
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So sad, Beth. They do stay with us in our hearts though. Some don’t get much of a chance at life. I treasure every day I have.
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Such a moving poem
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Thank you
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You’re welcome 😉
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Happy birthday to your sis, Beth.
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Sad memories. Lovely thoughts.
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I’m so sorry. Saying it the French way is so much better. Much love to you on your sister’s birthday. ❤
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I agree and thank you
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Sad memories, we will never forget them and they are always in our heart. Missing from me is really more apt. Hugs xx
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It says it so well
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Missing, yes, but not in your heart.
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Love that photo! Sending you bear hugs ʕ ⊃・ ◡ ・ ʔ⊃ʕ ⊃・ ◡ ・ ʔ⊃ʕ ⊃・ ◡ ・ ʔ⊃
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There are terms I take for granted as French is one of my mother tongues. It is so nice when something is brought to my attention such as this. Tu me manques has way more heft than I miss you. Happy birthday to your angel sister.
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I do agree, thank you
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The people you love always live on within you but the sadness also remains. Thoughts are with you
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What a beautiful picture. And the sentiment ‘you are missing from me’ feels so much more accurate. This is beautiful Beth.
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It says it so well
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“When you lose someone you love- it’s always too soon.” – David Foster
Condolences and a hug for you Beth.
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Missing from me is such a profound way of expressing loss. I am so sorry that you lost your sister at such an early age. There is always talk about losing a child, but no much about losing a sibling at a young age. Sending a hug ❤
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Sending tons of love and light, Beth. ❤ ❤ Cher xo
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Aww.. This is so touching. Happy birthday to her in heaven. I believe she’s feeling the same from up there and always watching you. 💞
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Nicely said!
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Thank you
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<3<3<3 sending lots of love!
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“You are missing from me.” That says it all. Sending you hugs.
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A part of them stays with us I believe but it does not take the pain away from missing them. Beautifully written! I am sorry for your pain. Hugs and love.
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Thank you
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hugs and thoughts of love. 🙂 😦
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gentle words holding so much strength ❤
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😢 loss no matter how long ago is still so heartbreaking… We miss our people who leave us
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Oh no! 💔
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Dear Beth, I was thinking of you and Pam today ❤️
What a beautiful photo and your words say it all. I know you miss Pam every day and I am very sorry for that, xo
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Such closeness will never cease. I am sorry for the early loss of your sister, Beth. In German, we say it as the French do.
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Thank you/
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I know you miss her.
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Oh Beth. Such a lovely, lovely photo of the two of you – a beautiful, touching poem too. And then the sadness – one we all know in some way or other – but never completely get used to. Some hours ago HH asked me how a ‘Trauerfeier’ (funeral service) could be called ‘Feier’ (celebration) and I had to tell him that this is an expression I too struggle with. Some expressions are more beautiful and more fitting in one language than another. The French are well known for expressing everything in so many words that you get dizzy just listening. But in these cases they do a great service for the feelings and understanding of the aggrieved sufferer.
I’m sending greetings to your sis in her heavenly resting place. It must be a comfort to know that there is/are already family and friends waiting for a reunion, whenever it will be ‘your’ departure. And I’m meaning that in the best sense possible. My father used to say that he was looking forward to meet his mother again in heaven, a mum who died when he was some 9yrs old. It has (to me at least) a note of consolation in the thought.
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Perfectly said, Beth! 💙💙
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thank you –
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Sweet picture and lovely memories…
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I love my SISTER
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what a beautiful tribute to your sister…
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Beautiful poem. I understand the feeling well. ❤
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The French do say it better. They are always in your thoughts even when not in your physical space.
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I agree. “You are missing from me” is way better.
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thinking of you, Beth; it is hard losing a sibling especially so young; I don’t know how we deal with loss; that French saying is a lovely way to honour that loss
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Most moving
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That was a lovely tribute to your sister, Beth. Very moving.
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