in talking with my grandson
about the reason shopping carts are found all over
i told him to think about where he sees them and why that might be
i told him to consider the fact that they are often found
where there are people without transportation or without disposable income
who may have to walk a long distance, have a disability, or take public transportation to get home
most with challenging life circumstances
i told him about
when i moved to family housing here for grad school
with no money, but still one of my favorite times of my life
everyone in debt, in grad school, with families, with limited income
most did not have cars and could not afford taxis
i saw that shopping carts were all around us
quickly noticed why.
families used them for everything
to move in and out, to move their children, to move their laundry to the common area
to move things to our monthly swap meets, to carry food, to carry things to their car, and on and on…
my youngest daughter lived with me
for a few months before heading off to her university
before long, we were using them
they had come from the local grocery store
when people would walk home with food for their families
the carts would stay to be used in the community
the grocery store would send a truck once a week
to round them up and take them back to the store
and the next week they would be back
it seemed to be an unwritten understanding
i came to love the custom and used them many times for every imaginable purpose
understanding why they were so helpful and important to the community.
everyone was just trying to find a way to live their life
to get things done that needed doing
while making the best of their circumstances.
“do what you can with what you have, where you are.”
-theodore ‘teddy’ roosevelt – 26th president of the united states
You have raised the humble shopping cart to be a symbol of adaptation, perseverance, and self-reliance. Wonderfully shared, Beth!
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who knew? )thanks –
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I hadn’t realised how versatile they are!
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just have to think out of the box! )
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There is always another perspective. Thanks for this one!
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my pleasure and thanks for reading –
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I saw plenty of them sitting in backyards, always in poor places, often piled high with laundry…. just as you described. Sadly also saw many of them along rivers, in fields, mostly in France. I never see any discarded in 🇨🇭, never thought much about that fact. Realise just how lucky we are….
Great life lesson ♥️
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yes, it’s when you see those, they’ve usually been used by someone who does not have many options available to them
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I have less problem with these carts than the ones left in the middle of the lot – the ones you KNOW are left behind because the person is too lazy to bring it back 😉
However, thank you for this lovely perspective. It reminded me that my former babysitter used to walk her groceries home with the cart… She usually brought it right back but I like the idea of it being used by all the residents of the apartment building.
And how cool that the company sent a truck to pick them up!
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I agree with the ones people leave out in a lot right when they’re done with them at the store, and yes, when you see them far from the store, there is usually a reason.
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And I love that you have shared this, Beth.
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thanks so much, dale –
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🙂
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Egyptologists are dumbfounded
as how the Pharaohs managed
to build the pyramids, as the
shopping cart had not yet been
invented 🛒🤔
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and don’t get me started on easter island….
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What’s Easter🐰 without a shopping
cart and an island 🏝️🛒😎
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ha!
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😉 🙂
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Fully agree with Brad, and with Teddy, a most useful advice I would say.
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thank you
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You’re welcome!
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They are very useful tools.
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absolutely
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👍🏼🛒🛒🛒
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I love that store that sent the truck out once a week. And I love your explanation to your grandson who will see the randomly sitting shopping carts with an understanding and appreciative eye.
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I hope just to help him to see the world with open eyes and heart and the store understood how important it was to the community and it was a way for them to shop for the whole family at their store
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You are a grand teacher.
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❤️
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Me too!
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A wonderful lesson. You have made shopping carts beautiful.
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❤
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a magnificent and compassionate tribute to the shopping cart and the multiple purposes it serves ;
very moving; thank you, Beth 🙂
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whoever thought there would be a tribute to the carts? ) thank you –
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there’s a place to praise everything, Beth; you taught me that 🙂
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and why not? )
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I can see, Beth, I’ve been viewing them from a privileged position
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it is just another perspective to consider, sometimes there are reasons other than what we see
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so true 🙂
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Beth, I never thought about the shopping cart in just that way so thanks. However, I do agree with good idea about using what’s there. Very nice post today Beth!!
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thanks!
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Great lesson, Beth. I remember when I was growing up in the Big Apple, my grandmother and many her age would own smaller, one-person carts meant to be pulled behind you, big enough to carry a trip’s worth of groceries or goods from other area stores. Not many people there drove cars, but plenty of them took those personal carts on buses or even the subway trains. What a great idea they were and still would be.
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yes, everyone finds a way to get things done –
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I love this perspective, Beth. Totally refreshing and, strangely, hopeful. So good!
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thanks, Ryan –
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You showed how useful a shopping cart can be not only for shopping. I just think of how many shopping cards a company has to order each year since they are taken away for other needs than shopping in their store.
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I’m guessing this store understands the importance of having the local people shop there and it may be the only way for them to buy enough groceries for their families, all at one time. In a way, it benefits both sides.
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I see the point. That is great! And I think they already calculate with annual cart orders.
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right!
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We are given images of the homeless with everything they own in a shopping cart. Reading this, I am struck with how helpful owning a shopping cart would be – if for nothing more than wheeling heavy bags of trash to the alley where the garbage cans are! But “owning” involves having made purchase of or given permission to take, probably not the case with most who have one in their possession.
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yes, I think the homeless with carts may have all of their worldly possessions in them. as they have no physical place to live, the cart travels with them to their nightly temporary homes wherever that ends up being.
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Thank you for making visible the lives of beautiful, resourceful people! That quote helped me through difficult times too. Beautifully written Beth!
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I’m so glad, and you’re welcome
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Wheels have always been great tools.
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they have from way back
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Now I know what you meant when I commented on the previous post. Unfortunately, the supermarkets do not come and collect them here, so they end up as unwanted ‘litter’.
Best wishes, Pete.
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ah –
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What a terrific life lesson to share….one of the items so many of us take for granted without a second thought but for so many, a necessity!
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that’s so right –
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Beth, we see that “goodness in carts” in our community. Folks who can’t drive for whatever reason do their shopping at the grocery stores, and then take the carts up to the “main street” bus stops. This makes their journey a little easier to navigate. As I have gotten older and wiser, I am grateful these carts are available for those who need to help them get just a little bit farther in order to be safer and more at ease.
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how wonderful and I feel the same
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A good reminder, Beth. So often we take life for granted and fail to realize that many around us are struggling day by day!
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that’s right –
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I’d not thought beyond the carts at the grocery store and the ones seen so often in homeless communities. Oh, and the few abandoned at the bottom of a hill after being ridden there by some kid. You’ve certainly broadened my appreciation of these carts, the adult version of the big wagon I had as a kid.
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right! yes, we sometimes have the teens out in them having fun, but the homeless use them to keep and move all of their worldly possessions to their ‘new home’ each day
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There’s so much compassion in these words, by simply understanding the importance of such a small, common item. Few people who are fortunate enough to only see them in stores wouldn’t connect the dots.
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they can make all the difference for some people –
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I like this anecdote! We tend to do what we must , unfortunately where I live it’s theft to take a shopping cart off the stores premises. 🤗
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Ah –
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Haha! 😎
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I’ve never seen shopping carts outside of store parking lots, so this was a lovely perspective and a very understanding store.
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Thank you and yes to the store’s name understanding
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Well done! I always wondered what happened to the shoping carts on the sides of the road. Now I know! You could have titled this “A Tribute to Grocery Carts.” Lovely interesting post!
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True! Thanks so much
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A long long time ago I went to an art exhibit in San Francisco that focused on the lives of homeless people. Shopping carts were prominent in the show.
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I can imagine
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I totally get this. They also make fun race carts. 😂
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Indeed!
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You are spot correct about this assessment of shopping cart usage. We all need to pause and remember such details…
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We need to not be so quick to judge
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They are good for just about everything. Lovely tribute to shopping carts everywhere. 🙂
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They are – ty!
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Unwritten understandings should be a foundation, or a given, for all communities. Wonderful, Beth!
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Yes, they’re so important
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Brilliant post and a compelling lesson for young and old! All of us, at one time or another, have needed some help. If we weren’t so damn judgmental about everyone and the circumstances that they may be dealing with that we know NOTHING about, the world would be a kinder and gentler place. Thanks for that reminder.
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that’s right Pete and happy to share it –
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what a beautiful reflection on something most of just simply ignore. I’ll never look at a stray cart again. And I loved that the grocery store would send a truck once a week to pick them up, essentially OKing such usage…
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Thank you and yes to the store
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altho the store had little choice but to retrieve the carts if no one was bringing them back!
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that’s true, but it does not seem like they put in any obstacles to prevent the same thing from happening over and over…
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I loved this, just as many readers before me.
Where I grew up they were often taken from the store to transport shopping home, but then left for mischief makers or to be dumped somewhere. I would have much preferred your scenario. The supermarkets came up with a plan (as there were also many shoppers just leaving them in the car park or in local streets), to pay a small fee to an assistant to ‘hire’ the trolley. It was such a small fee though, many still could not be bothered returning them. So we, as kids took the bait, as did other poorer members of the society and we’d run around gathering trolleys and returning them to the store. Until we had gathered enough cash for a decent lunch at the baker.
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Mary always parks close to the cart corral so she can put her cart away right after she uses it. It drives her (and me) crazy that people can’t even do that. I mean, this is a pretty well-to-do suburb, you’d think people would be a little more considerate.
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it really has to do with people’s personalities and how they act in the world
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Oh yes, the ubiquitous shopping cart.
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we can be oblivious to how much they are needed at times
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I was poor growing up…at one point we didn’t have a car or a phone, so we would load our groceries in a cart and push it home.
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Yes, that makes perfect sense
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