(not me, a reenactor, but we do have similar pj’s and hair)
—
many moons ago
when i lived a very busy life
single-mother, college, 2 jobs
I had family and friends over
to celebrate my daughter’s graduation.
the day started early
somehow everything came together
the party went well
my divorced parents got along
none of the food burnt
the cake turned out
everyone was pretty happy.
as the day wound down
there were just a couple of guests left
who wanted to stay to watch
the very end of a championship basketball game
we expected it would wrap up very quickly.
what are the odds
it broke records and went into triple overtime?
at a certain point
I could no longer stay awake
and tried the usual methods to end the day
yawning, cleaning up, sighing, talking about tomorrow
finally it was so bad
that I put my pajamas on and laid down on the floor
the game continued
the guests continued
at last there was a win and we said our goodbyes.
the next day,
I woke up went to work,
went to my class,
went to my other job
where my friend thanked me for a nice party.
I went on and on about how exhausted I was
due in part to these late guests
who just did not get the hint
that I needed to sleep
no matter what I said or did.
she nodded sympathetically
as I dramatically reenacted the entire end of the night
she listened quietly
until I finally had it out of my system and was done
and then she said,
“beth, that was us.”
epilogue:
we still are good friends and continue to laugh about it all these years later.
I am still not a good late-nighter and have a foggy memory.
—
“the guest who outstays his fellow guests loses his overcoat.”
~ chinese proverb
—
image credit: littlejayz/huffington post
Oh so VERY relatable! By nature I am a late nighter. But with work and school and family I have had to be an early to bed early to rise kinda human. I had a stepdaughter who would visit frequently. She would always stay so late it got to the point I would go to bed and tell her to lock up when she left. 🙂 she would! and she would return again and again.
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that is so funny –
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Hahaha! 😁 Oh I loved reading this. I can picture it now. Thank you for sharing your pj story.
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my pleasure )
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Frankly, I saw that coming….. 😉
We once had guests wholived in the same building but still were unable to get their backsides up from our sofa. After (same as you) much sighing, saying about working the next day, yawning endlessly, my then husband got up, took the hoover out of its cupboard, stood it in front of the table and said: OK, when you have finished, would you please hoover and then quietly close the door of the appartment behind you. I go to bed now!!!!!
The man laughed and said: You want us to leave? But we like it so much being at yours…. I, being more polite but equally tired, stayed with them for another 30’ before they finally left….
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so funny and I get it! )
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Lovely photo, btw!
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)))
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AH, this happened to me. I kept thinking, “Don’t they have work the next day, too?” I also did the usual yawn, cleaning things up and kind of saying what a fun time it was, but nothing. Thank you for posting such a relatable story 🙂
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ha, I so get this and my pleasure
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That would have been me, too. 🙂
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Glad to know I’m not the only one )
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I am with you on the “not being a late-nighter! I like early mornings, but not so much, if the night was late!
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Yes, early morning is my favorite time of day
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thumbs up!
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Well she knew you were telling the truth about how sleepy you were, Beth! Great story of friendship for the ages.
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It cemented our bond )
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That’s too funny! Glad you are still friends.
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It is one of our favorite origin stories
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Loved this!
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Thanks!
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Hahahahahaahaha that’s so funny and awful…when people outstay their welcome. OMG. Hahahaah
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Yes we were both shocked for a second and then could not stop laughing
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I have no problem falling asleep if company overstays. And I snore. It kinda horrifies my lovely bride, but I’m still going with it.
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There’s one solution-love it!
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i love this…but cannot indicate? but i DO love this!
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Thanks, susie )
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I love this story!
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Thanks, Jennie )
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You’re welcome, Beth.
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Fantastic story!:-)
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thank you, ute
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I LOVE this!!!!🙌🏼❤️
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Thank you)
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New that’s a friend! 🙂
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I know!)
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it’s those kinds of stories from which friendships are formed!
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It sure is )
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LOL! OUCH! I’ll bet they didn’t do that again at your home.
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I know, it’s so awful. I can’t think of it without cringing. ))
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This is a great lesson for all of us. Thanksgiving was like that. I had been up several hours before sunrise to start cooking and by 5:00 pm, was getting tippy from fatigue. One of my guest just didn’t get the hint. I finally had to say that the rest of us were worn out and we needed to end the celebration. Some just don’t get subtlety. I’m sure you’ve learned that all these years later. 😉
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yes, it is always tricky, but we get better at it over time )
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This is great! Funny how things work out sometimes! I’m glad your friend had a good sense of humor about it and you’re still friends!
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it could have gone either way )
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That’s so awful. I just love it! 🙂
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ha!
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there’s this jimmy fallon and ryan reynolds clip of this very topic. it was so funny–i thought of your post: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPHv8plPnNk
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excellent
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