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shared humanity.

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photo by Michel Porro – Getty Images

(a reblog fr0m August in 2018)

in yet another amazing case of serendipity

i was at the school where i taught

(in the united states)

attending a professional development session

led by colleagues who were describing a wonderful project

they had undertaken with their older students.

during the last school year they had worked on design thinking projects

intended to help our world’s environment in some way.

throughout the process

their teachers provided the students

with a wide range of sources of information having to do with their area of interest.

 they passed around some of the sample articles they had used.

imagine my surprise when reading the random article that i was handed

when i saw the photographic credit on one of the pages

(that originated from another country)

realizing that i had a personal connection to it.

it read:

‘michel porro – getty images’ 

michel porro is a long time friend of mine who i happened to meet

when we were both working at the world cup in my city 24 years ago. (now, 32 years ago)

michel, at the time was a photojournalist from the netherlands, stationed in hong kong, working for reuters, and covering events all over the world. i was in advertising, taking time off to work in the media tent for the duration of the event. we met there when he came to pick up his credentials. we continued to run into each other in a variety of places, though we never had the chance to meet up outside of a working situation, try as we might.

we finally had the chance, on the last night before he was to leave to return to europe. we’d planned to meet after the last match was over and his story filed and chose a time and place. unfortunately brazil won the final match, leading to a chain of unusual events that ruined our last chance to meet, when they closed down the roads where i was, leaving us with no way to contact each other. (pre-cell phones). instead of exchanging phone numbers we had decided to share our addresses to stay in touch, figuring we’d meet that night.

since that time, (24 years ago), (now 32 years ago), he’s lived in different places and traveled the world as a photographer, finally settling in one place, starting his own photo business. i left advertising, went to grad school, changed careers, raised my daughters, became a teacher, still living in the states, and went on with my own life’s adventures. we’ve stayed pen pals, following what’s happened in each other’s lives, our careers, our relationships, news, and shared pictures. i wrote an earlier blog about our long distance and unlikely long term friendship and the link is below, but the photos have disappeared from the old post. i may try to find them again one day and add them back in.

https://ididnthavemyglasseson.com/2014/06/22/what-a-wonderful-thing-is-the-mail-capable-of-conveying-across-continents-a-warm-human-hand-clasp-author-unknown/

what a strange set of things fell into place

upon seeing his name on the photo credit on that day

years later

at a meeting at my school,

on a page i’d been handed randomly

selected by one of the teachers

for their student

 i had happened to notice the photo credit

i texted to tell him about my surprise.

he texted back surprised as well.

our paths continue to cross in the most interesting ways.

B Kennedy -to Michel

small world, Michel. 

Sent from my iPhone

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Michel Porro – to me

Wow Beth, that is amazing. Thank you so much for sharing. Boyat (the subject in the photo) is a quiet man with a big mission. 

I met him twice for 2 photoshoots.

How are you doing? I’m in Italy at the moment. The world is a turbulent place isn’t it?

You do good work.

Best

Michel

“this idea of shared humanity and the connections that we make with one another –

that’s what, in fact, makes life worth living.”

-clint smith

mall moms.

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happy quad of moms

babies in tow

meet at the mall

to workout

dance, laugh, chant, count, sing

most of all 

to enjoy time spent

in each other’s company

away from the world

outside those automatic doors

 

 “friendship is a wildly underrated medication.”

—anna deavere smith

 

*Anna Deavere Smith (born 1950) is an American actress, playwright, and professor. 

three friends, two seasons, one day.

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 warm and rainy early evening in town

pleasant ending 

to a relaxed day with friends

between the holidays

good balm for the soul

feels almost like spring

later tonight

once we’re all home again

 temperature drops

snow squalls and winds arrive

reminding us that winter is here.

‘happiness is a collection of joyful experiences shared with soul friends.’

-amy leigh mercree

ann arbor, michigan, usa, december 2025

if fairies may.

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heading to our longtime friends’ fairy castle house

for an early christmas celebration 

on a cold, snowy night

 lots of warmth inside

food, drink, cheer, stories,

meetings, memories 

singing with the piano

twelve days of christmas

part of each room

sang a different number

everyone tried

some got lost

some forgot

some sang lots

some sang little

 piano played on

all were laughing.

“Lady, dear, if Fairies may / For a moment lay aside /

Cunning tricks and elfish play, / ‘Tis at happy Christmas-tide.”

-Lewis Carroll, capturing fairies joining the Christmas spirit.

age with mischief.

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our friend, the birthday queen 

celebrates

with a relaxed and festive pool party 

we go around the circle

sharing stories of our connections

while she glows and cheers the day.

‘your time on earth is limited, don’t try to age with grace.

age with mischief, audacity, and a damn good story to tell.

-author unknown

 

 

 

happy hour.

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fun spontaneous happy hour yesterday

with longtime friends

relaxed and glad to be together

sharing stories and catching up.

 

 

‘friends come and go like waves in the ocean but the true ones stick like an octopus on your face.’

-simplereminders

 

art credit: pinterest

 

the nature of friendship.

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such a lovely and delicate web was there to greet us 

a welcoming art installation created by a spider

‘the bird a nest, the spider a web, man friendship.’

-william blake, poet

  blake suggests that as birds create and live in nests, and spiders create and live in webs, so humans create and live in friendships. it suggests friendship is as complex, natural, and beautiful as the first two.

 

 

 

 

photo credit: thank you, cws

 

cows just wanna’ have fun.

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Cows have best friends. Lists of the world’s most intelligent animals don’t often feature cows, but they have more emotional depth than they get credit for. A 2011 study by scientists at the University of Northampton in England revealed that not only do cows have best friends,  but they also get stressed out when separated from their BFFs. The research was conducted by comparing heart rates and cortisol levels during 30-minute sessions in which a cow was penned with a “preferred partner” it was known to have a close bond with, then a “familiar but non-preferred individual.” When the besties shared a pen together, their heart rates were lower and other signs of stress were also reduced.

Cows aren’t the only animals that form friendships. Chimpanzees and bonobos do, too, as do several others, including dolphins, horses, certain birds, and marmots. Dolphins can identify their friends by taste, whereas most other creatures are known for simply grooming, remaining in close proximity to, and touching their besties — capuchin monkeys, for example, gently stick their fingers in one another’s eye sockets as a bonding ritual.

 

source credits:  gary larson image, university of northampton, vegnews.com, interesting facts

you never know.

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two kinder on an outdoor adventure day break

who became friends by chance when they landed in the same class

 

“you never know who’s going to become your friend. friends are always chance meetings.”

-steve guttenberg

in the same room.

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happy it’s friday

and have everything i need for my *book club with friends tomorrow.

(*we love books, sometimes read the same ones, and enjoy sharing our real life stories)

on my way…

“it wasn’t until my fifth or sixth book where i realized i’m trying to do the same thing in every story I tell,

which is bring everybody together in the same room.”

-Kate dDiCamillo,

*kate is an american children’s fiction author. she has published over 25 novels, including Because of Winn-Dixie, The Tiger Rising, The Tale of Despereaux, The Miraculous Journey of Edward Tulane, The Magician’s Elephant, the Mercy Watson series, and Flora & Ulysses. John Newberry Medal winner.

while kate’s books are geared toward children and young adults, her books appeal to all ages. i find her writing incredibly beautiful and she is one of my favorite authors.

 

 

photo credit: etsy vintage