stopping for an oil change
on my way home from school
the tech went to open my hood
pausing to tell me
i had a ‘little friend’ traveling along with me
a praying mantis
who had hunkered down and hung on just below my windshield
he very carefully opened the hood
the mantis hopped up on the windshield wiper
hung out while my oil was changed
just taking it all in
other people came over to check him out
still he held his ground
the tech carefully closed the hood when finished
trying to very gently coax the mantis to go back to his safe spot
before i drove off
but the mantis would not be deterred
hung on as i drove to the book store
then i drove toward home
with my very special hood ornament
my ride along
even still hanging on
gone when i got home
perhaps he hopped off
stopping to visit a town along the way
i hope it was the adventure of a lifetime.
—
“the truth is
you don’t know what’s going to happen tomorrow.
life is a crazy ride,
and nothing is guaranteed.”
-eminem
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Nothing is guaranteed, that is for sure… Nice pic of the praying mantis Beth!
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thanks!
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You’re very welcome!
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He is such a poser :D
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😊
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I love that! Great quote, too
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thanks, it was an interesting drive )
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I bet!
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We don’t have those in England. Just as well, as my wife is terrified of them (we saw some once on holiday in Bulgaria) and she would have been running down the street screaming! :)
Best wishes, Pete.
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good thing, then!)
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A cute passenger.
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Sure was
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🥰🥰🥰
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I love how concerned everyone was with the safety of the little creature. When I was a child, I was told that it was VERY bad luck to harm a praying mantis.
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I had the same experience about a week ago, although mine jumped off about halfway to my destination. I took a picture as well! A friend of mine told me that one is praying mantis travels with you, it means you’re going to get some great ju-ju! I hope that’s true for me, and I hope that’s true for you as well!
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I hope the new location is exciting for the mantis, too, Beth!
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Wow, he really wanted an adventure ! Lovely photo.
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Long legs, made for hugging and hanging on …
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How magical this life can be. 🕊️
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That’s great, he’ll probably be back when he needs a lift again!
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My truck had a beautiful garden spider web between the passenger window and the starboard mirror. Lasted three days and repaired each night. Gone yesterday.
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Been a long time since I’ve seen a praying mantis. Always liked them, knowing they are good guys. Hope they’re all doing well, wherever they are.
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what a beautiful story. i’m glad it happened to you – because you do pay attention to details! a praying mantis, what a crazy traveller…
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It was an adventure for both of us
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I’ve had some human hanger-oners. Problem is they just don’t know when to get off. :(
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Catching a free lift! :-)
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Hitchhiker
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This story touched me. The kindness of the guy doing the oil change. The strength of that praying mantis. The care, the fascination, the simplicity…what a great story.
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It was such a wonderful experience, simple and powerful
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I am amazed by such creatures. What a gift to have one this close even on your car.
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It really was
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What a great little friend and I love what you wrote, Beth. Wonderful quote too. ❤️
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Thanks –
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A momentary friend.
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Sidekick
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What an adventure for Mantis. All the breeze blowing through it’s hair😁
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Right!
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Eminem is right — I found a Mayfly in my car this afternoon when I took Teddy out to the Refuge. I said, “Little guy, I’m taking you home. I hope you have the sense to get out.”
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great plan
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How funny! I just watched a video that one of my friends posted on Facebook about a praying mantis that landed on her backpack while she was working on her YA fantasy book.
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like little friendly fairies)
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Wow! What a great shot. Here it’s lizard that hop a ride! ❤️
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ah, always someone )
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I have read about other Praying Mantises that gat “attached” to their humans. It’s a real thing!
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I felt lucky!
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A day of fun for everyone. Perhaps Pam Holland has a point and you may have a new friend for life.
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Everything is possible
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So true.
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Another adventure was just around the corner.
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that’s right
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What a great story. Cheers to the praying mantis!
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thanks, Jennie
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You’re welcome, Beth.
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Sometimes we wouldn’t want to know what’s going to happen tomorrow.
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Giant!
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Yes!
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So sweet that your new friend brought a bit of joy to so many people. :)
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Yes, it really grew
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Awhh.
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The mantis was surely praying the entire time.
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he had to use those praying hands to hang on tight
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what an adventure he had! Your ride along buddy! X
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Yes!
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