(not me, or my people, and I wasn’t invited to the tea party)
“In Ireland, you go to someone’s house, and she asks you if you want a cup of tea. You say no, thank you, you’re really just fine. She asks if you’re sure. You say of course you’re sure, really, you don’t need a thing. Except they pronounce it ting. You don’t need a ting. Well, she says then, I was going to get myself some anyway, so it would be no trouble. Ah, you say, well, if you were going to get yourself some, I wouldn’t mind a spot of tea, at that, so long as it’s no trouble and I can give you a hand in the kitchen. Then you go through the whole thing all over again until you both end up in the kitchen drinking tea and chatting.
In America, someone asks you if you want a cup of tea, you say no, and then you don’t get any damned tea. I liked the Irish way better.”
― C.E. Murphy
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International Tea Day is an opportunity to celebrate the cultural heritage, health benefits and economic importance of tea, while working to make its production sustainable “from field to cup” ensuring its benefits for people, cultures and the environment continue for generations.
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photo credit: Irish Tea Party early 1900s, Valentine’s of Dundee, Scotland
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I have had two cups already, and I didn’t even know it was ‘Tea Day’!
Best wishes, Pete.
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way to cerebrate by accident, Pete!
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Oh I love tea and I love this post! That’s exactly what we do haha. Only in Northern Ireland we don’t say ting 🤣
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so good to know and glad it was pretty accurate-)
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oh I so know this custom…. having lived for 8 yrs in England and visited ‘up north’ too, i had to learn how ‘to do tea’! I’ve also found a way to get around drinking wahaaayy more tea than i could possibly get down, by asking: or, unless you really need a cuppa now, we could open my bottle of wine i brought with me and we could drink to our health with that?! it worked a treat – and HH and i are now known to always turn up with a great bottle and a smile….
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that works and just as friendly ! )
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Happy tea day. How wonderful.
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always worth celebrating
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Mine’s coffee!
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I’m a coffee lover too, but there’s a place for tea as well, especially on this day –
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well, yes…
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Does the offer include iced tea?
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of course! and that’s the way I’m going as June is coming soon, but I know in many countries it wouldn’t qualify as tea time
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Indeed, when we get guests, the first thing is asking them if they like some tea. You don’t have to accept but it is always there. This is also the British way. I love it that way.
I yet have to go to Ireland. :-)
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so nice, a very kind gesture. Ireland is lovely in many ways
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cheers!
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and back at you!
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Great I was wondering what to embroider today. We had friends drop in and we had a pot of tea.i am doing an embroided daily diary for the year 😁
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what a cool project !
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The Irish way definitely sounds more interes-ting! I find an Earl Grey tea midway through the day is a needed boost for me. Enjoy celebrating Tea Day today!
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yes, something about the middle of the day, when energy is waning and yes, the Irish have the right idea
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My father in law followed the American style. 😂
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we are all so different but I kind of like the making it anyway, it seems friendlier
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I know, we also do it. At least a cup of tea or coffee.
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my daughter was working with a college student from South Korea practicing language skills and he told her that in his culture is is polite to say no 3 times before saying yes.
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Wow! Well I can understand as in the east we are too polite sometimes. 😂
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Laughing out loud! I’m off to a breakfast meeting this morning…and I believe I’ll have tea! Thanks, Beth! 🥰
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yay! enjoy the holiday
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Mwah! 😘
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I always looked forward to our tea breaks at work (plumbing), especially if our clients were elderly and old-fashioned. Then we would get hot scones, jam, and cream with our cuppa.
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oh, that’s so sweet and wonderful
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I do like a strong cuppa with milk and sugar!
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I’m a milky tea person or iced tea no sugar
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Nothing better than a strong, sweet cup of tea!
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I’m a white tea person or iced tea, which I know many would hate )
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Haha that’s so true .In India even if the person is saying “ No “ we still make the tea or insist just have a little and start making tea 😂
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that seems to be a very friendly way to go about things
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Some social traditions have always confused me.
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but they’re very important to those who follow them
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Absolutely.
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This made me giggle a bit. My daughter has developed an appreciation for tea while at college. So interesting!
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that is interesting !
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Oh, I love this. I prefer the Irish way, too. I am no longer a huge tea drinker (my late friend was so I drank way more back then…) but something nice about having a comfy cuppa…
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yes, it’s a whole thing –
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It is :) Tea?
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The only tea I drink is iced, when at a restaurant. Otherwise I have a habit of one cup of coffee first thing in the morning. A habit from my working years. If I think of it, rare guests may be offered a soda. But you tea drinkers, enjoy your day!
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I’m on team coffee ,but I know tea is a nice afternoon respite and for many a must have
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Think there’s been a few of those Irish folk in my kitchen – only it was a cup of coffee – same reply 😁
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right –
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That’s so funny. In America, you say no and you don’t get your tea. Short and to to the point.
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right. done.
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🤣
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Two cups of coffee in the morning, one cup of tea in the afternoon, and several trips to the bathroom. 🤣
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yes, somehow that all goes together )
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I like the Irish way better too!
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it seems friendlier
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Hmm, I like it straight out and don’t need that show before I get my cup. If I want some, I say yes… and I always want some since I love tea 😄
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everyone seems to have their own way with tea –
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It seems! It is more personalised than how people drink coffee 😂
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I don’t drink much tea, but do have some in the house for those times when I have a sore throat and need some tea with honey.
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I’m more of a coffee drinker myself, but do appreciate a nice cup of tea to relax at times and iced tea in the summer
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damn! I only drink coffee; is there an international coffee drinking day ? :)
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October 1st – get ready!
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gearing up for it already :)
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we both have lots of practice!
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Need a cuppa love?
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exactly!
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I feel a cup of Earl Grey coming on!
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there you go!
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You might as well drink some tea and chat, yes, Beth!
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right!
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I didn’t realize this was a day, but I celebrated! But then, I drink tea nearly every day 🌞
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you may be an over-celebrator
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Hey, if iced tea counts, I celebrated unintentionally!
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there you go, accidental celebrator!
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I like the Irish way better too!
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much friendlier
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What a cute story Beth. I love black tea, cold or hot!
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what a difference In cultures –
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The Irish way is hilarious, Beth! I’m more of an iced tea drinker and love coffee for a hot drink choice. :)
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same –
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It’s a happy ting for me that I’m 1/4 Irish heritage. 🤭
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and I’m 1/2!
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I like the Irish way!
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Chai is served with love and respect anywhere in world.. i love tea
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