Category Archives: Life

for the children.

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poetry credit: moms who write

the magic.

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walking in the icy freezy slushy mess and finding this

 

‘the magic is in the mess.’

-brene brown

 

a fraction of a dot.

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dinner?

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if I could invite

 any mix of people to dinner

for an interesting chat, a meal, and a laugh?

mr. rogers would be one of my guests


of course, dolly, who I wrote about yesterday, would be another

and rod serling,  one of my favorite writers, twilight zone man

all good humans

 smart, kind, creative, generous, funny, and i imagine, good company

all people I admire

we could fit right into a booth.

who are the 3 people

that you would invite

to sit in a booth with you

to talk and laugh and have dinner with?

‘i’ve never been to a dinner party where everyone

at the dinner table didn’t say something funny.’

-lorrie moore

*Lorrie Moore is a celebrated American author, known for her witty, poignant short stories and novels that often explore the complexities of modern relationships, career struggles, and heartbreak. A professor of English and Creative Writing, she’s recognized for her sharp dialogue, mordant humor, and ability to blend tragedy with comedy, earning numerous awards.

to all the people helping

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photo credit: a. dollins, statesman journal

when things go missing.

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Deborah J. Brasket’s moving novel When Things Go Missing, may cause you to reflect on your life in ways that you didn’t expect, as you follow her characters in this very human tale of a family. 

Throughout the book, each family member will be challenged to take stock of their own lives in response to an unexpected change in their family dynamic when their always reliable mother chooses to disappear. While they all love each other, they do have very real issues, and there are times when it’s best to let people resolve things on their own, yet only the people involved can make that decision. 

As a parent, a sibling, a child, a friend, perhaps we’ve all had those moments when we’ve felt the push/pull of wanting to take a break from it all, but how many of us would do it, and what would happen to those we would have to leave behind, even though we love them dearly, while also loving ourselves? Are we helping, are we hurting, by staying or leaving? What happens next?

This book tells this family’s story with compassion, love, humor, and caring, and shows you how people can find a way to find a way, with love and a strong will. I highly recommend it. 

‘some things are best mended by a break.’

– edith wharton

In ‘real life’ Deborah is a very interesting person –

She spent six years sailing around the world with her husband and children before returning to California where she earned her MA in English. She taught literature courses to college students, organized a union for adjunct instructors, and fought for affordable housing as the leader of a nonprofit in Santa Barbara County.

Now she lives with her husband among the rolling hills and vineyards of California’s central coast where she writes the kinds of novels she loves to read. “When Things Go Missing” is her debut novel.

She writes about art, literature, and the creative process on her author website/blog at “Deborah J. Brasket, Author – Writing from the Edge of the Wild,” where she also shares her poetry and short stories.

“When Things Go Missing” is available for sale in the following places:

Amazon,  Amazon UKAmazon AUSBookshopBarnes & Noble, along with all major retailers

Deborah’s blog can be found here: deborahjbasket.com

finding that perfect gift.

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when you realize just bit too late…

 

 

 

 

 

image credit gary larson, the far side

 

darkness just begun.

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‘during the gloaming mother nature holds her breath.

she lowers her eyes and there is a eerie stillness

much like that in a moment of silent prayer. 

night slides over her as her day is done.

everything about her is now secret,

hidden in the darkness just begun’

-helen osbourne

dexter, michigan, usa – november 2025

not much to report.

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thought I’d just see if the neighbors had anything going on

welp… not much to report

same old, same old. 

‘the most revolutionary thing you can do is to get to know your neighbors.’

-karl hess

image credits: google images, gary larson, the far side

‘we shall play one day.’

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Vallvidrera, near Barcelona, has a curling club. Each season, the members of the club go to the local reservoir and toss a stone in to see if the ice is strong enough to play. Since the water never freezes, they go for brunch instead and raise the toast, ‘We shall play one day’.

 

‘i never knew people made a club for me!’

-clay aiken, american singer