Category Archives: Life

the four crows.

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we were a formidable team

my two sisters

one friend

and i

 an ad-hoc agency

fashioning ourselves

the finest of sleuths

solving crimes

righting wrongs

all around

our neighborhood

it was our job

our destiny

the four crows

walked the streets

the fields

the woods

went in old abandoned houses

from another time

looking for clues

to

crack puzzles

solve problems

imagined

and

created

as we

dreamed up

our cases

reading bits of discarded notes and lists

finding an empty pill bottle

 asking a neighbor

where his wife was

as we hadn’t seen her recently

 left a note

for a woman

who yelled at her adopted children

telling her she was too mean

we clearly

way overstepped our bounds

as detectives

sometimes

tend to do

all

in the pursuit of justice

 in an attempt

to right wrongs

to restore balance

to keep peace

protect people

in a community

that didn’t know

they needed us

or that we were on the case

always looking out for them

in the most secret of ways

plainclothes

and

undercover

as a

murder of four crows

all under the age of 8

“the case called for plain, old-fashioned police leg work!”
― donald j. sobol, encyclopedia brown, boy detective

one hundred.

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following in the footsteps of some of my blogging friends

i’ve complied of list of 100(ish) of my favorite things.

writing down what comes to mind

in no particular order.

Green, especially apple and olive shades

Brainstorming creative ideas with others

Storytelling

Glitter

making collage art, books, cards

Miniatures

Special boxes and bags

garlands of flowers

A great pen

Handmade paper

Handwritten letters and cards

Beautiful postage stamps

Gifting

Tiny paintings

Writing on birch bark

Photographs and memory boxes

cozy cottages by the sea or in a meadow near the woods

Colors and patterns and textures mixed together

Writing on small scraps of paper

Pasta of any kind or shape with any sauce

Making fun food sculptures

Cadbury Carmello bars and eggs

S’mores made on the fire with burnt marshmallows

Fresh strawberry shortcake with warm homemade biscuits

Melted velveta and salsa dip

Taco Tuesday any night

Hot coffee with thick cream or Bailey’s

Soup!

Mini boxes of cereal – if I get the good ones and my sibs don’t fight me for them (flashback)

Family pets

Flamin’ hot Cheetos

Black Crows gumdrops

Leftovers for breakfast

Laughing babies

Babies and children

Fairies, Fairy Stories, and Fairy Houses

The messages in my fortune cookies

Sasquatch/jBig Foot legend

King Arthur legend

Wildflowers in a meadow

Animals, especially mini goats and donkeys, black face sheep, monkeys, cats, mini ponies

Ginkgo trees

Sitting outside at a tiny tea shop on a tiny island in Ireland

Seashores

The skies at dusk and dawn

Listening to live reggae music on the beach sitting at a table with a tropical drink with fresh fruit as the sun goes down in Jamaica

Seashells, rocks, branches, driftwood

Walking in the woods, by the warm water, on cool, soft sand

Flowers, flowers, flowers

Houseplants that can survive me

The early morning

Fresh snow with no footprints, the silence, the squeak

Autumn

Tidepools

Golden books, Children’s literature, all books

Spies and true crime

Vintage cookbooks

Learning new words in all languages

Alphabets

Real newspapers

 Writing Conferences

Reading every book from authors I love

  Kind gestures

Crying at movies

Laughing until I can’t help myself

Love

Small romantic gestures

Surprises and favors

Acts of service

Compassion and kindness

Honesty

Celebrating everything

Spotify, even if my list is embarrassing, i own it

Records

Dancing

Car singing

Music, so much music

Board games

Jigsaw Puzzles

Crossword Puzzles (NYT weekends) 

Badminton and croquet in the yard

Movies of all kinds at the theater with buttered popcorn and smuggled-in candy

DVD’s

Docs/Art films/Indies/shorts/foreign films

Travel shows

Schitt’s Creek, Veep, The Office, especially British version

A live musical performance that engages the audience and moves my soul

My one and only joke – trying to remember it nd share it without messing up

Comedy

Visiting new places near and far

Old worn doors with character

Weathered furniture

Vine twined around old fences and growing up houses

Old bakeries, restaurants, dives, pubs

Going on quests

Mr. Rogers  and Dolly Parton

Family and friends

Talking to strangers

The human story

My children and grandies, watching who they’re growing into 

Original Jergen’s hand lotion, cherry almond

Lemon, vanilla, honey, cinnamon scents

Floating

Herbal Essence Shampoo, from my young hippie days, no longer the same

Being barefoot or in sandals

Soft sand, warm water

Parades

Soft clothing

Holding hands

Soft pillowy feathery mattress and covers that i can sink into

Weather from 65-75F

Falling asleep to the rain, hearing waves, or a fan if no natural noise

Sitting by a fire, feeling the heat and hearing the crackling sounds

Getting in my car and letting the heat soak in

Velvet

Old British sports cars

Being a part of the 4 Crows Detective Club when i was a child

Anything that’s not wool, a dentist, a clown, math, tech, or having to find my way somewhere

“seek out what magnifies your spirit.”

-maria popova

 

whodunit?

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hmmmmm….

no one is fessing up.

‘i didn’t do it.’

-mr. green, from ‘clue.’

‘it’s kind of part of human nature to want to know the truth or want to be in on the secret.

for stories that focus in on that – like whodunits – it’s easy to get into.’

-mirelle enos

 

stored honey.

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in a big old blue house near me by the river

one of my very first kindergarten students

from way back when

now grown

shares a creative studio

with other local artists

 open for an art gallery gathering

 so lovely to see their work

 to see the artist my former student had become

only a matter of time

his creative eye and natural talent

’twas apparent way back when. 

‘art is the stored honey of the human soul.’

-theordore dreiser, american novelist/journalist

 

 

 

afternoon.

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the afternoon after the night and then the morning spent celebrating.

‘the afternoon knows what the morning never suspected.’

~swedish proverb

reindeer games.

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nine kids and one dog in a christmas eve plank-off competition

 cocoa the dog may have been the calm and cool winner. 

 

“may your walls know joy, may every room hold laughter,

and every window open to great possibility.”

 -mary anne radmacher

wishing.

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wishing you a holiday season filled with joy, wonder, and peace

beth

 

A survivor’s story.

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‘Surviving Sue’ is a compelling memoir written by the daughter of an extremely dysfunctional family matriarch, Sue. Sue stormed through life, loud and bold, without boundaries, fueled by mental illness and substance abuse. Through all that she endured, the author/daughter, Vicki Atkinson, found her way through one extremely challenging situation after another, with compassion, strength, wisdom, and a survival instinct.
 
While managing life with her mother, Sue, and advocating for her disabled sister, Lisa, Vicky became a licensed therapist, married, had a child, and carried  on with her life as best she could. In spite of all she went through, Vicki came out the other end knowing that her mother Sue’s illness was not all that she was, she was also funny, an artist, and someone who loved to take on causes helping others. 
 
I would highly recommend this book to anyone as an engaging read, and a master class in resilience, strength, and compassion for the human condition. With a will and a way, great things can be overcome. This is a memoir you will not soon forget. 

This book is available for purchase from: www.eckhartzpress.com/shop/surviving-sue/

Kindle version available on: Amazon.com

”my mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive;

and to do so with some passion, some compassion,
 
some humor, and some style.’
 
-maya angelou

Dr. Vicki Atkinson, Consultant and author of “Surviving Sue”, Licensed Professional Counselor, Believer in People, Possibilities & Potential 😉

Vicki’s blog victoriaponders.com 

Vicki’s podcast sharingtheheartofthematter.com

Source credits: ‘Surviving Sue’ by Dr. Vicki Atkinson, published by: Eckhart Press, Chicago, IL, USA, July 2023

who you are.

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so proud of my dear friend

breeda kelly miller

who had an idea 

that grew

into her one-woman play

‘Mrs. Kelly’s Journey Home’

performed around the world

and

into a book by the same name

and

at long last

the airing of her play on *PBS this past monday.

where i had the pleasure of watching it on televsion with her

bravo, breeda kelly miller

your family would be so proud of you.

‘we all have different gifts so we all have different ways of saying to the world who we are.’

-fred rogers

Detroit PBS brings live theater back to TV Monday with “Mrs. Kelly’s Journey Home.” True stories of an Irish immigrant, brought to life by her Michigan daughter. Join Breeda Miller and me at intermission and after. On TV or online locally at https://www.detroitpbs.org/live-tv/wtvs-hdtv/ — Mon. 12/16, 8:00pm ET
 
 
 

hair.

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 i love having kind of free spirit messy-ish hair

each day is a new hair adventure

but after spending the night at my daughter’s house

i woke up in the morning

with hair wayyyyyyyyy beyond 

the messy-ish look

looked around 

 found this spray

gave my hair a light mist

wondering what would happen next.

“i like to walk around with bare feet and I don’t like to comb my hair.”

-beyonce knowles