Category Archives: Life

wishing.

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wishing you a holiday season filled with joy, wonder, and peace

beth

 

A survivor’s story.

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‘Surviving Sue’ is a compelling memoir written by the daughter of an extremely dysfunctional family matriarch, Sue. Sue stormed through life, loud and bold, without boundaries, fueled by mental illness and substance abuse. Through all that she endured, the author/daughter, Vicki Atkinson, found her way through one extremely challenging situation after another, with compassion, strength, wisdom, and a survival instinct.
 
While managing life with her mother, Sue, and advocating for her disabled sister, Lisa, Vicky became a licensed therapist, married, had a child, and carried  on with her life as best she could. In spite of all she went through, Vicki came out the other end knowing that her mother Sue’s illness was not all that she was, she was also funny, an artist, and someone who loved to take on causes helping others. 
 
I would highly recommend this book to anyone as an engaging read, and a master class in resilience, strength, and compassion for the human condition. With a will and a way, great things can be overcome. This is a memoir you will not soon forget. 

This book is available for purchase from: www.eckhartzpress.com/shop/surviving-sue/

Kindle version available on: Amazon.com

”my mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive;

and to do so with some passion, some compassion,
 
some humor, and some style.’
 
-maya angelou

Dr. Vicki Atkinson, Consultant and author of “Surviving Sue”, Licensed Professional Counselor, Believer in People, Possibilities & Potential 😉

Vicki’s blog victoriaponders.com 

Vicki’s podcast sharingtheheartofthematter.com

Source credits: ‘Surviving Sue’ by Dr. Vicki Atkinson, published by: Eckhart Press, Chicago, IL, USA, July 2023

who you are.

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so proud of my dear friend

breeda kelly miller

who had an idea 

that grew

into her one-woman play

‘Mrs. Kelly’s Journey Home’

performed around the world

and

into a book by the same name

and

at long last

the airing of her play on *PBS this past monday.

where i had the pleasure of watching it on televsion with her

bravo, breeda kelly miller

your family would be so proud of you.

‘we all have different gifts so we all have different ways of saying to the world who we are.’

-fred rogers

Detroit PBS brings live theater back to TV Monday with “Mrs. Kelly’s Journey Home.” True stories of an Irish immigrant, brought to life by her Michigan daughter. Join Breeda Miller and me at intermission and after. On TV or online locally at https://www.detroitpbs.org/live-tv/wtvs-hdtv/ — Mon. 12/16, 8:00pm ET
 
 
 

hair.

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 i love having kind of free spirit messy-ish hair

each day is a new hair adventure

but after spending the night at my daughter’s house

i woke up in the morning

with hair wayyyyyyyyy beyond 

the messy-ish look

looked around 

 found this spray

gave my hair a light mist

wondering what would happen next.

“i like to walk around with bare feet and I don’t like to comb my hair.”

-beyonce knowles

 

 

 

needles.

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 “oh Christmas tree, oh Christmas tree, thy leaves are so doomed.”

– doug coupland

 

poetry credit: brian bilston

freeze frame.

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Previous winners from hair-freezing competition at Eclipse Nordic Hot Springs / SWNS

Hot springs enthusiasts are hoping for Arctic temperatures in Canada so an annual hair-freezing contest can go forth later this winter. The yearly competition began in 2012, launched by a spa in the Yukon territory that has since produced some  hilarious pictures.

In the town of Whitehorse, a 10-hour drive from Juneau, Alaska, bathers dip into the naturally warmed waters at Eclipse Nordic Hot Springs. If the outdoor temps are cold enough, people can make their hair freeze into wacky shapes.

Contest categories include best female and male, best group, best facial hair, and a people’s choice award, and every category winner receives a $2000 cash prize.

“We kick off the Hair Freezing contest as soon as the temperature drops to -20°C or lower,” said Satyam Jain, a spokesperson for The Hot Springs.

“We usually keep an eye on the forecast to see how long the cold temp will last and start the contest anytime between December and March.”

Their website includes instructions on how to freeze hair:

  1. Dip your head in the hot springs and wet your hair completely. Don’t worry- freezing your hair won’t damage it.
  2. Allow the cold air to slowly freeze your hair. Keep your ears warm by periodically dipping them into the hot water. Be patient–all wet hair will eventually freeze, this includes eyebrows and even eyelashes.
  3. Once your hair has become pure white with lots of frost and ice buildup, ring the bell near the pool entrance and have our staff come out to take your photo!

 


Everyone is hoping for a cold winter so the spa can continue their long run of contests and for more fun to be enjoyed by the visiting bathers.

 

 

“a lot of people like snow. i find it to be an unnecessary freezing of water.’

-carl reiner, american comedian/writer

source credit: nice news

for those of you missing the wp snow

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spirited.

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‘is that the real santa, or just an elf?,’

you might ask yourself

during that annual office christmas party

at some point

there is often someone 

who really goes all out

 feels the spirit

be ready. 

“don’t get your tinsel in a tangle!”

-author unknown

 

 

photo credit: midcentury vinatge 

you’re out of line.

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in late 2022, a farm owner noticed a few sheep on her farm in inner mongolia walking in a circle. eventually, all 400+ sheep in her herd started walking in a continuous, perfect circle for 12 straight days.

without a landmark humans cannot walk in a straight line.

Humans are masters of navigation. Over the course of history, we’ve developed tools to help us explore not only Earth but other planets. Yet strip away all those tools, blindfold us, and tell us to walk in a straight line, and inevitably we become a directional mess, turning in tight loops. Many studies in the past have cataloged this phenomenon again and again. Without some form of reference, such as a mountain, a building, or even the sun, humans are incapable of walking in a straight line, no matter how hard we try. It happens whether we’re blindfolded or just lost in the forest. So what’s going on.

We don’t know for sure, but  scientists have been able to rule out some popular go-to explanations. Researchers from the Max Planck Institute for Biological Cybernetics in Germany discovered that body asymmetries (different-sized legs, right-handedness vs. left-handedness, etc.) didn’t account for such vast misdirection. Additionally, the idea that people can’t correctly calculate the movement of their legs doesn’t explain the tight-looped pattern. The scientists theorize that with every blindfolded step, a very small directional discrepancy from a straight line is introduced, which then compounds with every additional step. Without the aid of visual references to unconsciously correct for these discrepancies, blindfolded people are poor at navigating a straight line, and will inevitably begin walking in tight-looped circles. While this theory explains why we do this, scientists aren’t sure of the biological how (though they think errors in the inner ear may be to blame). For now, this straight-line conundrum remains one of the many mysteries of the human brain and body.

i keep a close watch on this heart of mine

i keep my eyes wide open all the time

i keep the ends out for the tie that binds

because you’re mine, i walk the line.’

-johnny cash, ‘i walk the line.’

– Length (in miles) of the longest straight line possible at sea, connecting Pakistan and Russia
19,940
 
Highway #10 is the world’s longest straight road (149 miles), in Saudi Arabia, per Guinness World Records
 

 

source credits:  newsweek magazine, interesting facts

a simple wish.

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 december

the gingko tree

under a cold blue sky

in a spectacular moment

 drops its golden canopy

over tiny hints of snow

gracefully welcoming

the coming of the next season. 

‘december is a simple wish that brings spectacular moments.’

-author unknown