tempting.
—
‘the secret joys of living are not found by rushing from point A to point B,
but by slowing down and inventing some imaginary letters along the way.’
– douglas pagels
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image credit: tom gauld
2025 marks the start of generation beta
The reign of Generation Alpha is over — now introducing: Gen Beta. While we have yet to see this new era take shape, we know that many of these children will be the offspring of millennials and older Gen Zers, living until the 22nd century.
Gen Beta kids, who are expected to become 16% of the global population by 2035, will grow up in a world infused with technology and AI, which could impact everything from their schools to doctor’s offices. They’ll walk the tightrope of forming their identities and developing relationships both online and IRL, but their parents will be well-equipped to help them.
“We predict Generation Beta will embody the balance between hyper-connectivity and personal expression,” wrote author and social researcher Mark McCrindle, who coined the name Gen Beta. “They’ll redefine what it means to belong, blending in-person relationships with global digital communities.”
But tech isn’t the only factor that will impact these quarter-century babies. Click here to learn more in Nice News’ guide to the different generations — from Alpha to Z.
—
‘take the platapus – that is not a finished product.
it is clearly still in beta.’
-stephen colbert
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image credit pinterest
source credit: julia diddy, nice news


the cat tower building instructions had me wondering
why do the people in the examples look like friendly ghosts and what are they doing?
i think these pictures meant:
‘warning!
when you open the box of parts
do not throw this instruction manual into the trash
because you will need it
or else you,
(the other ghost, not the throw-away-er,)
might get hurt while building the tower.’
if i interpreted it right.
i really needed instructions for the instructions.
luckily, i did not throw the instructions away
my daughter built the tower without incident or injury.
close call.
—
‘everything in this world, said my father, is big with jest,
and has wit in it, and instruction too, if we can but find it.’
-laurence sterne, irish-born english novelist and humorist
‘i will never lie to you.’
-jimmy carter, 39th president of the united states,
nobel prize winner, volunteer, father, husband
champion of the less fortunate and supporter of global humanity
one of my favorite humans
passed away on december 29, 2024 at 100 years old
today, he will be remembered and celebrated
in his beloved hometown of plains, georgia, usa
be like jimmy.
—
photo credit: bettman archive, novermber 09, 2009

this is amazing
i had no idea this was a thing
that’s cool that this young musician
knows the old music of the sea
carrying on the traditions
i’m hoping that
voyageurs, sailors, sea captains, pirates, oarsman, and explorers show up.
maybe a parrot.
—
‘just because i can’t sing, doesn’t mean i won’t sing.’
-word porn
–
may this be the year you learn to fly.
—
Photographer Hannie Heere was photographing barn owls when she captured an unusual shot of a baby barn owl running across grass. Barn owlets start flapping their wings at seven weeks, making short flights around the nest at eight weeks.
—
‘we learn to fly not by being fearless, but by the daily practice of courage.’
-sam keen, american author, professor, and philosopher
we were a formidable team
my two sisters
one friend
and i
an ad-hoc agency
fashioning ourselves
the finest of sleuths
solving crimes
righting wrongs
all around
our neighborhood
it was our job
our destiny
the four crows
walked the streets
the fields
the woods
went in old abandoned houses
from another time
looking for clues
to
crack puzzles
solve problems
imagined
and
created
as we
dreamed up
our cases
reading bits of discarded notes and lists
finding an empty pill bottle
asking a neighbor
where his wife was
as we hadn’t seen her recently
left a note
for a woman
who yelled at her adopted children
telling her she was too mean
we clearly
way overstepped our bounds
as detectives
sometimes
tend to do
all
in the pursuit of justice
in an attempt
to right wrongs
to restore balance
to keep peace
protect people
in a community
that didn’t know
they needed us
or that we were on the case
always looking out for them
in the most secret of ways
plainclothes
and
undercover
as a
murder of four crows
all under the age of 8
—
“the case called for plain, old-fashioned police leg work!”
― donald j. sobol, encyclopedia brown, boy detective
following in the footsteps of some of my blogging friends
i’ve complied of list of 100(ish) of my favorite things.
writing down what comes to mind
in no particular order.
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Green, especially apple and olive shades
Brainstorming creative ideas with others
Storytelling
Glitter
making collage art, books, cards
Miniatures
Special boxes and bags
garlands of flowers
A great pen
Handmade paper
Handwritten letters and cards
Beautiful postage stamps
Gifting
Tiny paintings
Writing on birch bark
Photographs and memory boxes
cozy cottages by the sea or in a meadow near the woods
Colors and patterns and textures mixed together
Writing on small scraps of paper
Pasta of any kind or shape with any sauce
Making fun food sculptures
Cadbury Carmello bars and eggs
S’mores made on the fire with burnt marshmallows
Fresh strawberry shortcake with warm homemade biscuits
Melted velveta and salsa dip
Taco Tuesday any night
Hot coffee with thick cream or Bailey’s
Soup!
Mini boxes of cereal – if I get the good ones and my sibs don’t fight me for them (flashback)
Family pets
Flamin’ hot Cheetos
Black Crows gumdrops
Leftovers for breakfast
Laughing babies
Babies and children
Fairies, Fairy Stories, and Fairy Houses
The messages in my fortune cookies
Sasquatch/jBig Foot legend
King Arthur legend
Wildflowers in a meadow
Animals, especially mini goats and donkeys, black face sheep, monkeys, cats, mini ponies
Ginkgo trees
Sitting outside at a tiny tea shop on a tiny island in Ireland
Seashores
The skies at dusk and dawn
Listening to live reggae music on the beach sitting at a table with a tropical drink with fresh fruit as the sun goes down in Jamaica
Seashells, rocks, branches, driftwood
Walking in the woods, by the warm water, on cool, soft sand
Flowers, flowers, flowers
Houseplants that can survive me
The early morning
Fresh snow with no footprints, the silence, the squeak
Autumn
Tidepools
Golden books, Children’s literature, all books
Spies and true crime
Vintage cookbooks
Learning new words in all languages
Alphabets
Real newspapers
Writing Conferences
Reading every book from authors I love
Kind gestures
Crying at movies
Laughing until I can’t help myself
Love
Small romantic gestures
Surprises and favors
Acts of service
Compassion and kindness
Honesty
Celebrating everything
Spotify, even if my list is embarrassing, i own it
Records
Dancing
Car singing
Music, so much music
Board games
Jigsaw Puzzles
Crossword Puzzles (NYT weekends)
Badminton and croquet in the yard
Movies of all kinds at the theater with buttered popcorn and smuggled-in candy
DVD’s
Docs/Art films/Indies/shorts/foreign films
Travel shows
Schitt’s Creek, Veep, The Office, especially British version
A live musical performance that engages the audience and moves my soul
My one and only joke – trying to remember it nd share it without messing up
Comedy
Visiting new places near and far
Old worn doors with character
Weathered furniture
Vine twined around old fences and growing up houses
Old bakeries, restaurants, dives, pubs
Going on quests
Mr. Rogers and Dolly Parton
Family and friends
Talking to strangers
The human story
My children and grandies, watching who they’re growing into
Original Jergen’s hand lotion, cherry almond
Lemon, vanilla, honey, cinnamon scents
Floating
Herbal Essence Shampoo, from my young hippie days, no longer the same
Being barefoot or in sandals
Soft sand, warm water
Parades
Soft clothing
Holding hands
Soft pillowy feathery mattress and covers that i can sink into
Weather from 65-75F
Falling asleep to the rain, hearing waves, or a fan if no natural noise
Sitting by a fire, feeling the heat and hearing the crackling sounds
Getting in my car and letting the heat soak in
Velvet
Old British sports cars
Being a part of the 4 Crows Detective Club when i was a child
Anything that’s not wool, a dentist, a clown, math, tech, or having to find my way somewhere
—
“seek out what magnifies your spirit.”
-maria popova



hmmmmm….
no one is fessing up.
—
‘i didn’t do it.’
-mr. green, from ‘clue.’
—
‘it’s kind of part of human nature to want to know the truth or want to be in on the secret.
for stories that focus in on that – like whodunits – it’s easy to get into.’
-mirelle enos