The quote it’s right – but I still believe we should take focus on all the good moments we shared with those we lost and how lucky we are because of those memories and not focus too much about the miss itself – I know it’s easier said than done, but I still believe it’s the way.
I feel badly since I have my Dad’s voice on a tape, just grateful I also have two silly messages on my voicemail from my Mom. The last time we may have seen an old friend, or a distant family member may be forgotten in the details but the ‘essence’ is always there. The heart of the person shines through the foggy memories, Beth. Such a sweet quote, though!
When I read something like this beth it reinforces my decision to drink more coffee and eat dessert first, because you never know when it’ll be your last. 😉
Grandma didn’t want any of us grandkids to see her in the last few months of cancer, so that we wouldn’t remember her frail and bald, but vibrant and bold!
I didn't have my glasses on.... 
.. and yet the feelings of that moment never die ❤
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very true, val –
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The quote it’s right – but I still believe we should take focus on all the good moments we shared with those we lost and how lucky we are because of those memories and not focus too much about the miss itself – I know it’s easier said than done, but I still believe it’s the way.
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yes, i agree. celebrate their life.
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Profound and true
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it really is.
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I love the idea of celebrating those who have touched our lives.
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i think it’s the best way to honor them, really.
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Wise words. I suppose we should pay more attention e.v.er.y. day. ❤ ❤
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yes, exactly, tess.
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NOR COULD I RECOLLECT THE WAY MY DAD’S VOICE SOUNDED?
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i know what you mean, susie. it’s interesting how some things fade and some stick with you forever.
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I feel badly since I have my Dad’s voice on a tape, just grateful I also have two silly messages on my voicemail from my Mom. The last time we may have seen an old friend, or a distant family member may be forgotten in the details but the ‘essence’ is always there. The heart of the person shines through the foggy memories, Beth. Such a sweet quote, though!
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yes, robin. and thanks –
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Certain memories remain sharp as a tack, Beth, lovely forever though someone has departed. I hope your memories are lifting your heart.
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yes –
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When I read something like this beth it reinforces my decision to drink more coffee and eat dessert first, because you never know when it’ll be your last. 😉
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an excellent approach, laurie )
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And the sound of their laugh. That’s what I hold on to.
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yes, the sound of their laugh lingers –
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Thought provoking beth – thanks
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you are very welcome, paul –
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Beautiful words Beth. x
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thanks, jen )
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Grandma didn’t want any of us grandkids to see her in the last few months of cancer, so that we wouldn’t remember her frail and bald, but vibrant and bold!
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grandma knew what was up – )
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I may have to use this one for my Make a Memory series on Tumblr, Beth. Thank you.
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oh, absolutely. i think it would be a great match, andra )
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This is why I take pictures of everyone I know, every time I see them.
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perfect
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LOL (you’re scared to comment, aren’t you?)
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never!
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good!
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