trying to learn to sleep in and sleep longer
always a lark, never an owl
for many years i went to sleep early and woke up early
want to see what my body will naturally do
accepting that i’ll always be a morning person
i’d like to compromise
be a ‘bit later in the morning’ person
last night/early this morning i was dreaming
about putting together a jigsaw puzzle
then i found a chunk of all white pieces still stuck together
so curious to see what would happen
and bam!
awake and it was early morning.
this may take a bit more practice.
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source credits: kristen m. from twitter, bbc, aardman animations, shaun the sheep
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I was a ‘night owl’ for most of my life. Since I turned 65 I am in bed most nights by 11pm and awake at 7am. In the winter, I sometimes feel it makes the days drag, but at least I get a regular sleep.
Best wishes, Pete.
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that’s important
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The habit of waking up early don’t change with the change in status from working to retired.
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I think you’re right
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👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
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I’m a lark and I wouldn’t change it for a bit. I love that early morning hush and wait. I cannot find that same peace if I stay up later.
Let your body take control :)
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I feel the same, I enjoy waking up before the world gets busy
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I’ve always been a morning person, and it hasn’t changed. Only now, I wake up earlier–and go to bed earlier. 😉
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I’m curious to see how it will go over time –
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Here’s what you need to do… ehem… tell your brain you’ll try this for three days. Try your best.
If at the end of three days you succeed you’ve succeeded.
If it doesn’t work repeat for another three days. See how it goes.
(This coming from a night owl who has never succeeded. Ehem 🤭).
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I feel that I’ll always be a lark, but we’ll see how it goes over time –
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(sorry to say that) More than 50 years ago I was up at 6am every day having a cup of tea with my Dad, and since then every job I’ve had required an early start. Now I’m well retired and still up at 6am for my first cup of tea of the day. It seems it doesn’t change, and I don’t think I would want it to 😊 The beauty is now nobody else is regulating my time, just my practised and largely carefree internal clock.
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a great way to look at it
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I still get up early, just not OUT early…….And that’s the beauty of retirement!!
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ooh, I like that
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Hello, fellow lark…let me know how it goes for you. For me…I’m the early bird for life, I think! 🥰
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I feel the same, just want to add a few minutes, maybe ?)
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🥰
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I used to live on 3 hours of sleep a night, for the 30 years I cared for Carole … regaining a normal sleep pattern has taken me 12 years to achieve … changing established routines takes time Beth …
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I’m patient –
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That’ll help
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lately I have been waking at 4 am and that is just not right!!!
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eeek! I get that
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It sounds pretty wonderful that your mind and your body can now work together to find your most comfortable sleeping pattern, Beth!
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Let’s see how it goes -)
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Help, I woke up. That’s hilarious! Oh well, there’s always tomorrow.
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Right!)
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I’ve always been an early riser, too. Even on weekends. I doubt that will change even when I’m retired.
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This seems to be what I’m realizing now that I’ve been retired for a few weeks
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Early to bed, early to rise…that’s been my pattern for a very long time.
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Same. It just hoped to add a few more minutes till that sleeping time.
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I think it depends on the book you’re reading.
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I love/hate being a morning person. But boy do I get a lot done.
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I love being a morning person. I just don’t want to be that much of a morning person if possible.
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I used to get up at 4:45 when the kids were little so I could get some time to myself before all heck broke loose. I still get up early, but not that early!
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Why I like getting up early. I’ve been waking up at 4:30 for the last number of years to accommodate work and having a little time before. I know I’m a lark and I’ll always be a lark, but I just wanna little bit more time to sleep each day.
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Totally get that!
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I was an early riser (4:30-5am) for most of my life (for one reason or another). Been retired almost seven years now. I go to bed a LOT later (12-1am) now, and get up about 7am. Some days I can’t help myself and just get up at 4-5am. This usually lasts a couple of days and then I go back to “normal”. I nod off a lot more than I used to, but I also drink a lot less coffee and don’t move around as much. Most of my jobs involved frequent visits to assist end user’s with IT issues, so I was frequently up and down. When I retired, I used to try to get 7-8hrs of sleep, but could not. I can go to sleep (almost at will), but I can’t force myself to stay asleep. Now-a-days, I sleep when I’m tired and get up when I can’t sleep. Just listen to you body…
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Sleep? Forget was it’s like to have more than 3-4 hours at the most. :(
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that’s rough – I’ve done that
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Love the Kristen Mulrooney line, which reminds me of my son when he was the same age. When he was watching one of his favorite construction videos, he would suddenly cry out, “Words!” I rushed into the room to see what was wrong, only to find the credits running down the screen. 🤣
I thought my sleeping habits might change after I retired, but they really haven’t. Stay up late and get up early is still in my DNA.
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that memory is amazing! ) I have a feeling mine will not change a lot, but at least I’ll have the option )
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HELP I JUST WOKE UP! Perfect. I go to bed late and get up early. Early bird as well, can’t seem to be able to change that. Good luck. Either way, you won’t have to be at work, so you’ll just have a long and lovely morning at the kitchen table. :)
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Exactly!!!
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The good news is there is no rules in retirement ha And I guess your body will relax into this over time. 🧡🌈
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Right!
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you will find your happy pace, Beth; retirement takes a little getting used to; I love Kristen’s quote :)
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I believe I will
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I’m an owl but the problem is that I also wake up early. Too early, sometimes. I never get enough sleep.
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I am a night owl, and I also am an early bird, too, being that I have chronic insomnia, I don’t sleep for too long at all!
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Fun!
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thanks!
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Keep practicing, Beth. 🙂
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I’m on it )
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Me? Into bed at 3am, out at 8am – life’s to short to waste it sleeping!
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Wow!!!
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I love the fact that I don’t have to get up at 6 am anymore. I do still like the mornings. I don’t like sleeping in long. The day seems longer… well is longer that way.
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I really understand this
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Retirement can produce anomalies. Today I was up reading from 4-6am.
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wow –
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