if I could invite
any mix of people to dinner
for an interesting chat, a meal, and a laugh?
mr. rogers would be one of my guests
of course, dolly, who I wrote about yesterday, would be another
and rod serling, one of my favorite writers, twilight zone man
—
all good humans
smart, kind, creative, generous, funny, and i imagine, good company
all people I admire
we could fit right into a booth.
—
who are the 3 people
that you would invite
to sit in a booth with you
to talk and laugh and have dinner with?
—
‘i’ve never been to a dinner party where everyone
at the dinner table didn’t say something funny.’
-lorrie moore
*Lorrie Moore is a celebrated American author, known for her witty, poignant short stories and novels that often explore the complexities of modern relationships, career struggles, and heartbreak. A professor of English and Creative Writing, she’s recognized for her sharp dialogue, mordant humor, and ability to blend tragedy with comedy, earning numerous awards.
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Great choices. Here are my three. Jane Austen, Margaret Atwood, and Ernest Hemingway. I think that would make a lively conversation!
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oh, you couldn’t miss with those three together! lively may be an understatement! that would be one long, and wonderful night
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Oh, that’s a great selection! I always thought it would be fun to show Ben Franklin some new inventions.
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oh, how cool would that be to show him and get his take on them. I wonder if he would have predicted any or would be shocked by all of them?
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I imagine he’d be fascinated and delighted by some of our inventions–but horrified by the current state of our nation, despite his fears on whether we’d keep the republic. And now, I’m thinking of Abraham Lincoln . . .
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yes, and yes!
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I like your choices. Back in 2014, I wondered who I would like to have dinner with, living or dead. Though I expanded it to 5 guests, plus me. This was the post that came of that.
https://beetleypete.com/2014/06/18/six-for-dinner/ Best wishes, Pete.
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wow, what a great mix and three of the five were new to me, but with your explanations, I can see why you chose them. that would bw one wonderful dinner!
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Thanks, Beth. During dinner parties in my house in the 1970s, we would often debate who would make the perfect guests around the table. My choices rarely changed.
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how fun! looking back at my choices here, I chose all gentle souls, all creatives, a bit out of the norm, who had gone through some hardships who spent their adult lives helping others.
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What fun!
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I’m sure it would be –
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What a fun idea! I’ve pondered on this question for one-on-one dinner but never 3 at the same time. Mine would be a girls’ night out for cocktails and would include Michelle Obama, Sandra Bullock and hmmm, too many to choose from!
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oh, the three of you would have a blast I’m sure, great choices
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Mine would include George Clooney and I have to think about the rest……
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I think George would be plenty and you could get a table for two!
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“Every lesson I learned as a kid was at the dinner table. Being Greek, Sicilian, and Ruthenian – we are an emotional bunch. It is where we laughed, cried, and yelled – but most importantly, where we bonded and connected.” … Michael Symon
“It’s the sense of what family is at the dinner table. It was the joy of knowing mother was in the kitchen making our favorite dish. I wish more people would do this and recall the joy of life.” … Paul Prudhomme
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love these quotes
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I’d invite oprah Winfrey, Maya Angelou, and the pop star pink!
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what a great trio. all such strong warriors
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Great choice Beth.
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I think they’d be so interesting to talk to
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Famous people at a table? No I couldn’t. But I’d like to know how yours turns out. Wow.
Mine would be my high school teachers who believed in me. And one seat for my husband. 🙇🏻♀️
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wonderful, they don’t have to be famous. I would just love to talk to these three because I admire them for going through hard beginnings in life and devoting their creative lives to helping people
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Jane Austen, one of my great grandparents who travelled to America to change their lives, and maybe Virginia Wolff…I’d have to think about the third
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maybe those two would be plenty I imagine .. amazing people
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A great guest list!
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I really admire all of them –
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So hard to pick three!
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super hard!
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A fun post, and interesting question.
I reckon first on my list would be, Tolkien.. just for his imagination. Next would be Rowan Atkinson, and last would be probably prime Muhammed Ali.
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those three together with you would be such a great dinner
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Would be a belly full of laughs for sure.
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Er, Dolly, Judy Chicago (creator of the famous dinner party art wok) and Ntozake Shange, sadly deceased, (’cause I have been thinking about her poem book, For Colored Girls who considered suicide, etc) just lately
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that sounds like a really good mix
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I meant to say, as I read it a lot when I was about 15 and found it fascinating and beautiful. However, I’d be petrified hosting these heroes.
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I think they’re all pretty gentle souls at heart
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Buddha, Samuel Clemens, and Oscar Wilde
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wow, what a great mix!
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So many amazing people to choose from. Given the state of affairs these days here are my choices. 1. The late Timothy Findlay. Author of my favourite book, Not Wanted on The Voyage. A Canadian who wasn’t afraid to take risks literally or otherwise. 2. Canadian Prime Minister Mark Carney for obvious reasons. 3. Sir John A MacDonald, Canada’s first Prime Minister. I did a project on him in grade 11. I wonder what he would think of Canada and the world today. My apologies for making this sound political but I have admired two out of three of these people for many years, while the third has earned my respect in the last 12 months. Mind you, I would be so in awe that I wouldn’t be able to think, let alone talk.
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that all makes great sense and sounds like it would be a wonderful dinner. I had a really hard time narrowing it down. I was drawn to different people that I admire from different parts of my life, and different interests that I have.
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Hmm…Albert Einstein, John Prine, and Jane Goodall.
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what a great mix! it’s hard to narrow down, isn’t it ?
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Ahh Mr. Rogers. I’d have to really think about this!
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it does take a bit of thought –
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Wonderful choice you have made. Hmmm…
I think I would like to sit with Maya Angelou, our former prime minister Pierre Trudeau, my grandmother
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how wonderful, that mix !
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:)
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John Muir, Bernie Sanders, Neil Armstrong. But I’d pull up an extra chair any time for Michelle Obama. I can’t think of any woman that I admire more.
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absolutely add her in! that would be one great group!
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Your selection is a great start. Mine would be John Adams (the first, not Quincy), Thomas Sowell, and Condoleezza Rice. I consider them highly insightful, and very articulate… and each has a great sense of humor.
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that would be a wonderful trio
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Rod Serling would be on my list too. What a fascinating man. I’ve read the book written about him by his daughter and also a graphic novel of his life. Both were great. Ive read his short stories too, quite a few were made into The Twilight Zone episodes. What would you ask him?
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I wrote about this dinner subject a few years ago. Of course, I broke the rules, I made it a table of six. Ha, ha, more people to include. In the end, I went the easy route. I chose my wife and my grown kids who I don’t always get to see a ton. Ha, ha. You’ve got me thinking. I may have to come up with a new list!!!!
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I like your choices.
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First of all, my grandpa (what would I give to talk to him again) and ask him all the questions that piled up in my head about history in general and our family history. Then the Dalai Lama. admire not only his wisdom but also his humor and the smart combination of both. Also, I would invite Barack Obama.
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