Category Archives: Life

the nature of friendship.

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such a lovely and delicate web was there to greet us 

a welcoming art installation created by a spider

‘the bird a nest, the spider a web, man friendship.’

-william blake, poet

  blake suggests that as birds create and live in nests, and spiders create and live in webs, so humans create and live in friendships. it suggests friendship is as complex, natural, and beautiful as the first two.

 

 

 

 

photo credit: thank you, cws

 

be nice. (the world is a small town.) -austin kleon

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townies and visitors

listen to the powerful sounds of u’neek

at the end of summer sol festival

in the charming small town of pentwater

where we were visiting friends

realizing just how small it was

when we kept crossing paths with people

who we’d seen or met in other places

doing other jobs or in different circumstances.

chad was the fill-in musician between sets and bands

also the bartender at the ‘yacht club’

also the second place trivia night champion in town.

next we saw the guy who was the host

at the cafe across the street where we had lunch

now a paying customer at the festival pub.

then we ran into the artist who was also a caretaker for his parents and his dog

who we encountered on the beach an hour before

now sharing stories with my friend and dog-bonding.

if i lived there and had multiple roles, i would like to work one day a week at the magical toy store as a storyteller, work one afternoon a week selling ice cream at the beach, be known as the pretty good crossword puzzle champion in town, and sit on a bench in the park watching the town go by and writing my homespun recipe column for the local paper, like how to make my baked potatoes.

‘one of the important things about being a small-town reporter is knowing what not to put in the paper.’

-terry pratchett

boundless.

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enter this charming store

 like walking into a dream

towers, and dragons, and costumes, and animals, and castles, and art, and toys, and books, and puppets

surrounded by enchanting hand-painted murals

 a circle where story tellings and puppet shows and theater play are shared

 imaginations are encouraged and play flows freely.

‘the world of reality has its limits; the world of imagination is boundless.’

-jean-jacques roussseau

not every lake.

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on the first day of fall with friends 

lake michigan

‘not every lake dreams to be an ocean.’

-memet murat ildan

waffle frolic.

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‘why can’t i just eat my waffle?’

– barack obama

 

Early Americans held waffle-eating parties called “waffle frolics.”

Brunch has an understandable hold on Americans — after all, who can pass up the opportunity to enjoy a delicious smattering of sweet and savory plates (alongside good company, of course)? Apparently, Americans of the past couldn’t say no either, gathering to share food and fun at so-called “waffle frolics.” These waffle-eating get-togethers were most popular during the colonial era, eventually petering out by the mid-20th century. At their peak, they were elaborate, multi-course meals that showcased freshly ironed waffles as the  main course.

Little is recorded about the particulars of early waffle frolics, but one description, by William Livingstone, a 21-year-old Yale student who recounted his party experience in a 1744 letter, describes the soiree as a lavish affair. “After a few games, a magnificent supper appeared in grand order and decorum,” he wrote. “But for my own part I was not a little grieved that so luxurious a feast should come under the name of a wafel-frolic, because if this be the case I must expect but a few wafel-frolics for the future.”

Waffles have been widely eaten throughout Europe since the Middle Ages, sold by street vendors and often consumed on religious holidays. Eventually, they made their way to the American colonies alongside the Pilgrims, and it was in the New World where they were paired with maple syrup for the first time. Culinary lore sometimes suggests it was founding father Thomas Jefferson who ignited the waffle frolic craze in the 1790s upon his return from France, after he arrived with four  waffle irons in his luggage. As president, Jefferson reportedly served the treat to Meriwether Lewis at the White House prior to the Lewis and Clark expedition.

‘a wafffle is like a pancake with a syrup trap.’

-mitch hedberg

Waffles cooked and served every minute at Waffle House restaurants -145

Weight (in pounds) of the world’s largest waffle, created in the Netherlands in 2013 – 110

 

 

image and source credits: interesting facts, waffle house, babycenter.com, king arthur baking

‘when a match has equal partners then i fear not.’ – aeschylus

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it’s a match!!

i’ve recently been getting

‘match alerts’

with increasing frequency.

in response to my online quests.

there’s a parallel

between three very different things

i’m engaged in simultaneously:

finding a new car for my parking space

finding a new companion for olive the cat

finding a new companion for me.

interesting that the process is somewhat the same:

select the features i am most interested in

state what i am looking for

describe myself, my cat, my driving style

reach out to some that seem interesting

 seem to be a potential good fit

watch to see what matches come back.

in all three areas i’m looking for:

a bit of life experience,

maybe a few rough spots, but made it through,

with somewhat low miles,

a few dings here and there,

but not in need of imminent major repairs.

easy going, intuitive, playful, bright, makes life better

some things the same, some different

to keep it interesting.

hopefully by the end of all this

i’ll be sitting on the couch with someone

the cats sitting in the window

the car parked

sitting at a bit of an angle in my straight-lined parking spot.

i’m open to the possibilities.

our similarities bring us to a common ground; 

our differences allow us to be fascinated by each other.

-tom robbins

image credit: etsy.com

be a flamingo.

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a rare sighting of michigan flamingos in the wild

standing perfectly still

not making eye contact or uttering a sound

i dare not tell them that they are not camouflaged.

 

“be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.”
– savannah larsen

 

 

ann arbor, michigan, usa – september 2024

soloing.

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‘to me, drum soloing is like doing a marathon and solving equations at the same time.’
-neil peart

 

*Neil Peart was a Canadian and American musician,  drummer and primary lyricist of the rock band Rush, known to fans by the nickname ‘The Professor’, derived from the Gilligan’s Island character of the same name.

tempting, but….

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darn it!
i was going to park here until i saw this sign.
it looked like the perfect space.
‘the road to success is dotted with many tempting parking spaces.’
-will rogers

market day.

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so many colors and aromas and tastes and sounds and things to touch

all senses engaged

a beautiful morning at the market. 

‘what makes the farmers market such a special place is that you’re actually creating a community around food.’

*bryant terry

*Bryant Terry is an African-American vegan chef, food justice activist, and author. He has written four vegan cookbooks and cowrote a book about organic eating. He won a 2015 James Beard Foundation Leadership Award for his food justice work.

ann arbor, michigan, usa – september 2024