Category Archives: Life

crime school.

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in 2011, a man in a Gumby suit attempted to rob a 7-Eleven store but became nervous and escaped with only some loose change. Initially, the clerk thought the man was joking, but when the robber announced he had a gun and began fumbling with his Gumby suit, he changed his mind. When the robber’s accomplice in a car outside honked the horn, the suspect fled, dropping his take of 27 cents on the floor. (San Diego Police Department )

 TWELVE THINGS I LEARNED AT CRIMECON 

 All cults share some common characteristics, including the CAT DOOMSDAY CULT where people were led to believe that cats (where you had to have at least 30 cats in your house, among other things), were your avenue to the afterlife.

Five motivated moms were capable of solving a complex case involving their daughters that the police did not even believe was a case.

Body language is a dead giveaway when trying to detect if someone is lying. (now that i’ve seen examples and an analysis of them, I’ll seem even more guilty when innocent as I’ll be trying to outthink what I should or should not be doing with my actions and will appear more suspicious  and self-conscious.)

Transitions are the time when you are most vulnerable, in a parking lot, going from place to place, car to inside, etc. carrying things, 8 grocery bags, phone, coffee, small child,  busy, thinking about what’s next,… best time to be aware  and focused. also in remote spaces when alone. after learning about how to best avoid unsafe situations, realizing I’ve done all of the unsafe things numerous times and feeling glad to be here to attend this session.

There are still lots of missing people out there, and seeing a large board with pictures and names of people up there, to get as much exposure as possible to people from all over the country, sobering to see how many are still lost.

If parents are searching for a baby taken in the past they are now sometimes able to find them using technology that can use their baby picture to recreate what they would like at their current age, and vice versa if an adult finds out they were taken as a baby and wants to find their real family, by using the tech to use their adult picture to go back in time to what they might have looked like as a baby.

Always, always, always trust your instincts and heed the red flags. did I say always?

Criminals most always think they can get away with their crime.

Many law enforcement and legal system presenters spoke of the toll their job took on their personal lives and their mental and emotional health. pushing for more support in the future for themselves and others in the field. some spoke of importance of having friends and interests both inside, to talk to about the job,  and outside of the field, to talk about anything else, to find a balance.

Hearing cases discussed that I remember from years ago, filled in a lot of blanks, what was real, what was not, what happened behind the scenes, and justice was not always served.

Lots of people came to crimecon for different reasons and they were interesting, sincere, eccentric, and bright. I enjoyed talking to them all and there was truly never a dull moment.

My last seminar called ‘is there a serial killer among us?’ made me look around at the people sitting in the room with me,  and I’m quite sure they were doing the same.

‘the most difficult crime to track is the one which is purposeless.’

-arthur conan doyle

*Arthur Conan Doyle, Scottish writer best known for his creation of the detective Sherlock Holmes, one of the most vivid and enduring characters in English. 

 

finale.

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in a wonderful wrap up to the Crimecon conference

who should pick me up at my hotel

but blogger writer/poet friend

Sarah Russell

https://sarahrussellpoetry.net

who I had never met in person before

but felt like I’ve known forever

from reading and commenting back and forth

over the years

sarah and her husband roy

created a lovely zen garden waterfall dinner and dessert

and wine and good company evening for me,

complete with chauffeur service

wonderful all around.

 then of course

in the very early morning hours after

at the airport

that darn coffee place

still could not quite

make out who I was

and  I knew i was home.

‘curtain! fast music! light! ready for the last finale! great! the show looks good, the show looks good!’

-florenz ziegfeld

*Florenz Edward Ziegfeld Jr. was an American Broadway impresario, notable for his series of theatrical revues, the Ziegfeld Follies, inspired by the Folies Bergère of Paris.

union.

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Detroit Labor Day Parade 2025

yesterday, we, and many others

came together from all over, spoke out, and marched

in solidarity with the unions.

“And finally, I am here because I know we share a deep-seated belief in free collective bargaining, and in the growth and development of free and responsible unions – and unlike our opponents, we do not believe in this only on Labor Day.

I welcome the support of the working men and women of this country. I am proud of the fact that I was endorsed by the AFL-CIO. For I know that the American Labor movement wants for America what I want for America: the elimination of poverty and unemployment, the reestablishment of America’s world leadership, the guarantee of full civil rights for all our citizens. I know the American labor movement opposes what I oppose: complacency, unemployment, economic stagnation, racial discrimination, and national insecurity.

Our labor unions are not narrow, self-seeking groups. They have raised wages, shortened hours, and provided supplemental benefits. Through collective bargaining and grievance procedures, they have brought justice and democracy to the shop floor. But their work goes beyond their own jobs, and even beyond our borders.

Our unions have fought for aid to education, for better housing, for development of our natural resources, and for saving the family-sized farms. They have contributed funds and talent to improve our oversea relations. They have spoken, not for narrow self-interest, but for the public interest and for the people.

For the labor movement is people. Our unions have brought millions of men and women together, made them members one of another, and given them common tools for common goals.

Their goals are goals for all America – and their enemies are the enemies of all progress.

The two cannot be separated. The man who opposes a decent increase in the minimum wage is not likely to be more generous toward a badly underpaid schoolteacher. The man who opposes proper medical care for the aged has no more compassion for the small farmer or the small businessman or the hungry families in this Nation and around the world. He likes things the way they are. He sees no need to change – no need to grow. His theme song is: “You never had it so good.”

– From John F. Kennedy speech

in Cadillac Square, Detroit, MI, Labor Day Parade 1960

 

no cart and buggy.

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During the Great Depression in the 1930s, most Americans were just trying to get by, and few had the luxury of coming home from the grocery store with extra items. But that didn’t stop an Oklahoma grocer from coming up with the idea of a shopping cart, an invention that started out almost as disdained as it was practical.

The man behind the idea was Sylvan N. Goldman, owner of the Humpty Dumpty grocery chain. Interested in increasing his sales, he often paid close attention to how people shopped. One thing stood out: Customers would stop shopping once their handheld baskets got too heavy. Goldman started thinking: What if there were a way for shoppers to carry more with less effort? As an experiment, he took a folding chair, added wheels to the legs, and placed a basket on the seat. He then attached a platform between the chair’s supports to hold a second basket, creating a two-tiered cart that shoppers could push.

When he rolled out these new grocery carts in 1937, he expected a runaway hit, but the reaction wasn’t exactly enthusiastic. Women, already used to pushing strollers, weren’t eager to push another one at the store. Men, on the other hand, preferred not to push something stroller-like at all, they felt it was too feminine. To get people on board, Goldman got creative. He hired store greeters to hand shoppers a cart, and even paid female and male actors/models to walk around shopping with them. Slowly, the idea caught on, and once it did, there was no going back.

‘why do I always choose the shopping cart with the squeaky wheel?

it is my bad luck, or are all the carts dysfunctional?’

-rachel nichols

source credits: history facts, npr, mallory yu

spirals.

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“the whole universe is based on rhythms. everything happens in circles, in spirals.”

– john hartford

*John Hartford was an American original. He was a musician, songwriter, steamboat pilot, author, artist, disc jockey, calligrapher, dancer, folklorist, father, and historian.

source credit: cast-light.com

science in wonderland.

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yesterday, my post was a note from a former student

with a list of her top 5 things

 that I had taught her

while in my class

way back when she was little.

we had a multi-age pre-k room

so children stayed with us for two years

 we saw a lot of

growth and change in them

over that span of  time.

she was always

very responsible

a rule follower

she learned to open her mind 

to new ideas, to use her imagination 

we made fairy houses together

she  created art and wrote stories.

in contrast

another student

told me

that he had tried for two years

to teach me something

that i never seemed to really learn

he loved facts and non-fiction books

in the spring of both years

when we’d go out into the woods

on adventures in nature

looking under green sprouts and budding trees

i was always looking for the fairies

while he was always trying to teach me 

that fairies weren’t real

because ‘they were not science.’

 he did teach me a lot about science

 but I just never learned

no matter how many times he tried to tell me

about the fairies

 I always said

‘it depends on what you believe,

whatever you want to believe is true to you.’

 he would just shake his head. 

but every so often

I would see him

peeking under the budding stems and leaves

(where they might be hiding)

or blowing the dandelion seeds

(to spread the new fairy babies)

and just maybe….

‘only  the curious have something to find.’

-sean watkins

resist.

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“to the wrong that need resistance, 

to the right that needs assistance,

to the future in the distance,

give yourselves.’

-carrie chapman chatt

 

*Carrie Chapman Catt was an American women’s suffrage leader who campaigned for the Nineteenth Amendment to the United States Constitution, which gave U.S. women the right to vote in 1920. Catt served as president of the National American Woman Suffrage Association from 1900 to 1904 and 1915 to 1920.
bandameer park, ann arbor, michigan, usa – summer 2025

round and round.

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 Active duty service members often carry sentimental items to help combat the challenges of war – perhaps a picture of a loved one, a handwritten letter, or a good luck charm. For Marine Cpl. Scott Harrison, that item was a music box from his sister, which he would hold close to his ear during breaks in the fighting during the Vietnam War. “I would close my eyes, and I would think of a carousel in a mountain meadow,” Harrison told CBS News. “… An image totally opposite of where people are trying to kill each other.”

Harrison left the war in 1968, but his carousel daydream continued to help him through a different battle: post-traumatic stress disorder. He eventually decided to buy a broken-down carousel and bring his fantasy to life spending 26 years handcarving the animals himself.

In 2010, Harrison opened the carousel to the public in Nederland, Colorado, and launched a nonprofit called Carousel of Happiness to spread smiles round and round for all. “Just to go to that carousel and see everybody having such a great time, is good medicine for me,” Harrison said. “Because I started out trying to treat myself, and then it just changed into something that I could do for others.”

source credit: CBS News

 

”there is in the worst of fortune, the best of chances for a happy change.’

-euripides

legacy passed on from a daughter.

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To those wondering what my dad would have to say about Trump,
here’s a clue…

mosaics.

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‘we are mosaics — pieces of light, love, history, stars

— glued together with magic and music and words.’

– anita krizzan

 

 

image credit: nature, asbmb journal