Aug21

*h2.e.l.p.

Posted on by
Standard

IMG_1599

we began as a mixed group

of teachers and parents

and

became friends

stayed friends

formed

a book club

had

passionate discussions

about books

but

over time

it became

challenging

to get

everyone

in one place

on a regular basis

for hours at a time

on the same night

so

one day

we had an idea

and

 decided

to meet

after work on fridays

at the end of each week

late in the afternoon

just for a bit

on a drop-in basis

whoever could make it was welecome

and we

talked about

books, life, family, loves, our news, the world

and we

listened

to each other

and

asked and answered questions

about things

in our lives

that made us happy

or

that made us sad

or

that we didn’t understand

or just

needed

to tell someone

and

wanted

the perspective

of others

we trusted

as we

shared our personal stories

and we

celebrated each other’s lives

and we all made a point

of being there

on a regular basis

and sometimes

husbands

 kids

dates

 visitors

popped in

and out

and soon

the books fell away

and

we met

just to

spend time together

so

one day

i had an idea

and

i gave us a name

on a shirt

as a christmas present

*h2.e.l.p.

*(happy hour extra large print)

book club 

of ann arbor

and to

make it official

and it seemed

just the right name

for us

for more than one reason

and

a couple of times

each year

we kick it up a notch

when

we go

on an

overnight adventure

to a local hotel

or a cottage on a lake

where it feels

so far away from it all

yet

they’re

just

a

few miles away

no husbands

no kids

no dates

no visitors

and

we stay up

most of the night

with food and drink

and music

sharing our stories

and

our own

good company

and

sometimes

we sneak into the pool or take a dip in the lake

for some

late night swimming

and play games

and

all sorts

of

other antics

and merry-making

happen

it’s a slumber party

of the highest order

after all

and

i may even suggest

that we

read a book

one day soon

one that

that has it all

romance, mystery, action and adventure, travel, suspense, humor, friendship

and no vampires

it’s one of my favorites

and

it’s sure to

inspire a passionate discussion

about its surprise ending

go-dog-go2

—

“the first rule of book club – is that nobody wants to talk about book club.”
― douglas lewis

Discover more from I didn't have my glasses on....

Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.

58 responses »

  11. Where would we be without friends such as this. Not necessarily ones who share your life but ones who share your heart. Love it Beth. I’m lucky enough to have a group similar to this one, although we never even pretended to read a book. :)

    Like

    Reply ↓

  15. This should be a movie. Yesterday at Open House, my son was watching the helicopters in the air near the Flight Club table. He asked what the first rule of Flight Cub was and the guy shrugged and said, “Have fun?” Dork.

    Like

    Reply ↓

  18. Ha! I love this shirt! Excellent name and your last book selection is a favorite read for my my kids. What an awesome book club and place to let your guard down and be you.

    Like

    Reply ↓

  24. You have the coolest life, ksBeth–so full of family and friends, and such an awesome way of sharing it–your writing style is approachable and as a writer I know its flow reflects your knowing of the language (and material) I really dig it.

    also–did I ever mention–I lived in Ann Arbor as a young’un; Dad was at Michigan State…:)

    we were neighbors…:)

    Like

    Reply ↓

    • cc, just love to live every day and things fall into place, how great to hear you were an ann arborite, i could have guessed. and thank you so much for your kind words – beth

      Like

      Reply ↓

  25. I recently joined a book club with other teachers from our school. We do manage a bit of chat about the book. But it’s also a wonderful opportunity to just see each other outside of work, to realize that we have other interests and passions.

    Great post, Beth. I’m inspired. I’d love to be part of your ‘no rules’ club. The T-shirt is cool. ;-)

    Like

    Reply ↓

Leave a reply to Lone Grey Squirrel Cancel reply