as the youngest of 3 daughters
it took me a while to realize
that i was often being used
as the canary in the coal mine
sent in first to check
if the mud was sticky
if the place was scary
if it was wet
if there were spiders or alligators
if the others could squeeze in somewhere
if we were going to get in trouble
for whatever crazy scheme we thought up that day
i was curious and relished the adventure
excited to try things first
only to realize time and again
that it generally
had not
been a good idea in the first place.
whoever thinks they can fool me 267 times or so
has got another thing coming….
—
“a younger sister is someone to use as a guinea pig in trying sledges and experimental go-carts. someone to send on messages to mum. but someone who needs you – who comes to you with bumped heads, grazed knees, tales of persecution. someone who trusts you to defend her. someone who thinks you know the answers to almost everything.
~ pam brown
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image credit: lets feast.feast-ed.org
Arenβt they sorry now!
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well…
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They loved you enough to teach you to sacrifice… potentially yourself.
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that’s it exactly, mark )
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But some interesting memories. π
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Absolutely)
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Three girls here as well π…and I can assure you it wasn’t all fun and games being monkey in the middle! πππ
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I found that out later when my baby brother was born)
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I BET- HAHAHA!!!
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Siblings do have their uses, and not all of them pleasant. π
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Such is life in a family)
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Yes me too….I didn’t mind, I am still the one who is how shall I say… More adventurous. π
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Same here – we are who we are )
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How fortunate you all were to share the adventures. And you got first look, Beth!
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Thatβs a great way to look at it )
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I recognise this
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Iβm sure that many of us do )
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I am sure you enjoyed being the canary, even if you did not know what it meant back then. At least for the adventure, before realizing whatever it was you were testing out maybe wasn’t necessarily a good idea.
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Exactly!
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lol! It made you the adventurous spirit you are π
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I think so!
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I was lucky, I guess. The eldest of three girls, and with an older brother to watch over me.
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A perfect place to be in the family
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I’m going to call my baby sister this evening and apologize, Beth. π
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Ha!
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Are you usually the one to drink the first shot? Just wondering.
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)))
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Just as I thought. ;p
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As an only, I did all the crazy things with no one to pull me out. LOL
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Yikes!
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IKR? Different life for sure. π
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I am not sorry to admit that was the role my youngest sister was given upon her birth. But she had 7 older siblings. π
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Wow!
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Having siblings is such a great training ground for life.
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spot on )
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I was the youngest too! I suffered!
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and we both lived to tell! )
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hey, baby, meet another baby! we should exchange stories sometime! loved our card by the way!!!!
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we should and thanks!
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Haha. As the youngest of three, I was always the one who had to test if the ice was frozen enough to hold a person’s weight.
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Me too )
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