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About beth

Ann Arbor-ite writes about enjoying life with all of its ironies and surprises.

tiniest.

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tiniest little house – charleston, south carolina, usa

‘all safe in my tiny home.’

– erwin moser, artist

what the tide leaves behind.

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salt flats, tide pools, birds, fish, dolphins, grasses, treasures

beachcombing

 on the southern side of the entrance to Charleston Harbor,

north of the city on Folly Beach, South Carolina, USA

‘there’s peace in the pull of the tides.’

-author unknown

haint.

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this is the haint blue ceiling of the porch on the very old house

where we are staying in south carolina

Haint Blue is a term used for a range of pale, blue-green colors that are similar to the color of water or the sky. They’re often used to paint the porch ceilings of homes in the southern United States. The reason people paint their porch ceilings this color is a tale of tradition from the Deep South.

The word “haint” is a colloquial way to pronounce “haunt,” another word for ghosts or evil spirits. The word comes from the Gullah, a community of people descended from West African enslaved people who settled on the coast of Georgia and South Carolina.

The Gullah people  created this color by mixing indigo with lime, milk, and other natural ingredients. They painted porch ceilings, shutters, and even doors in this shade to keep away “haints” aka. restless spirits. The idea was simple but powerful: they believed that haints were afraid of water, spirits couldn’t cross water or sky, and so the color blue would protect the home.

Haint Blue paint was a form of protection for the Gullah and the southern communities embraced it wholeheartedly. That’s why so many porch ceilings throughout the south are painted a beautiful light blue-green, which has become known as haint blue.This  color is tied to memory, protection, and survival.

‘color is a power which directly influences the soul.’

-wassily kandinsky

 

 

charleston, south carolina, usa, October 2025

do it on purpose.

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whether you’re walking your dog through the neighborhood

in your silky pajamas and slippers late in the morning,

or carrying a big bag of cash down the main street

during the rush hour

always walk with confidence and your head held high.

“find out who you are and do it on purpose.”

-dolly parton

 

 

charleston, south carolina, usa, october 2025

cats dancing.

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a sign from the rescue cats at  the cat cafe-

cats have such a great sense of humor

‘common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds.

 a sense of humor is just common sense, dancing.’

-clive james

 

 charleston, south. carolina, usa

october 2025

magical portal.

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once again I found myself in the magical portal at the airport

I always forget

 this secret-ish place

exists on a lower level

at the airport

connecting one concourse to another

you have to enter it occasionally

depending on where your gate is

you go down the escalator

leaving the hustle and bustle behind

then you’re

suddenly thrust into a very different kind of space

colorful psychedelic wavy walls softly glow

as you glide through on a moving sidewalk

 soft ambient new age-y calming music

wraps all around you

until you arrive

at your destination

on the other side

it’s kind of mind-blowing

I can’t imagine the different reactions

 different kinds of people must have

but I know I am always surprised anew

when I find myself there

sometimes you’ll meet someone

who brings it up

in the outside world

have you ever been…?

do you know about…?

it’s like you’re part of a secret club

hiding in plain sight.

” Airports exist in a strange, liminal space where time feels unreal. You could spend anywhere from one hour to three days there, and life just pauses. It’s a universal place of transit, yet untethered to any real “place.”  “With a little imagination, airports become magical portals to distant lands. Sure, maybe you have a ticket to one specific place, but in reality, you could go anywhere. Infinite connections, endless possibilities — just a gate away. Foreign, yet familiar. Transient, yet grounding. Impersonal, yet deeply human. Static, yet always in motion. Liminal. Universal.”   –  clarissa tan, yale news

a powerful symbol on indigenous peoples’ day.

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In Navajo (Diné) culture, laughter is considered a powerful symbol of connection. The moment a baby laughs for the first time, it is believed they are choosing to join the human community. Until then, the baby is viewed as still being in transition between the spiritual and physical worlds.

This tradition, known as the A’wee Chi’deedloh ceremony, is typically observed around three months of age. Family members pay close attention during this period, eager to be the one who makes the child laugh. Whoever succeeds earns the honor of hosting the celebration, often preparing a meal of salted food and gifts to mark the occasion.
The ceremony not only celebrates the baby’s first expression of joy, but also emphasizes generosity and community. Salt is symbolically offered to guests to encourage the child to grow up to be generous and kind. It’s one of the earliest social teachings given to a Navajo child, using joy as a path toward belonging and humanity.
Indigenous Peoples’ Day is an official city and state holiday in various localities in the United States that celebrates and honors Indigenous American peoples and commemorates their histories and cultures. It is celebrated on the second Monday in October.

source credits: unity, navajo traditions

‘good enough never is.’ – debbi fields

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good harbor grill

good help wanted

‘whatever you are, be a good one.’

-william makepeace thackeray

glen arbor, michigan, usa, October 20

rain on the lake.

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up north

not quite so far

lower peninsula 

the weather changes its mood

deciding to rain on the lake

‘for after all, the best thing one can do when it is raining is to let it rain.’

-henry wadsworth longfellow

glen lake, empire, Michigan, usa, October 2025

‘creativity takes courage.’ – henri matisse

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a colorful marble orb spider, not unlike this one, came down on its web

(and not on anyone’s hand, the spider above is a model/actor)

appearing as we were having a glass of wine outside before dinner

it lowered itself down checking us out

with excited and mixed reviews from the group

not long after

we moved inside

while some of us

were in the kitchen finishing up dinner preparation 

the rest of us were left to our own devices

 in the living room

with more beverages

and a tray of appetizers 

i thought it would be a great idea

to fashion 

a marbled orb spider hanging from its web

out of leftover pieces from the tray

everyone pitched in

when it was finished

it seemed a challenge

to decide which was more lovely 

the outside real spider

or 

the inside interpretive spider

art and beauty

are very personal choices

as we all know

‘life is like art. it’s all interpretive.’ 

-robert holden