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shop with a cop II – holiday edition.
for the second time
i’ve had the honor of volunteering
with local law enforcement officers, firefighters, marines,
first responders, heroes of all kinds,
community members
athletes from university sports teams
all there to host children from across the area
from families who are underserved in our surrounding community
the parents receive a stocking filled with gift cards
for gas, food, things for home, other things they want or need
the children stay with us
for an afternoon/evening of fun, food, activities, a santa visit,
and holiday shopping
for loved ones,
for warm outdoor winter wear for themselves,
holiday pajamas, cuddlies,
for things on their dream wish list,
(we find some things to pass on to a parent to give them from santa for holiday gifts)
along with some other things they’ve been hoping for or need
so joyful to see
most children wanted to buy things for those they loved first
we had to steer them back to also choosing some things for themselves
these are children who struggle
yet still understand the joy found in giving to others
j, the little guy who was trusted with myself and a young sherriff’s officer
said his mom’s very favorite thing in the world was mountain dew
he chose this as the first thing to put in our cart
he also bought some toys for his two cats
but just wrote ‘to: cats’ on the tag
so they would both share them
for ‘papa-grandpa’, some chicken noodle soup
j is an only child, raised by a single parent
he’s not had an easy life
yet, he has a gentle spirit
watched the fish in the tanks for a long while
wanted to take them home and let them go
‘because they are prisoners in there’
loves nature, being outside, running,
catching minnows and letting them go,
fishing and letting them go,
and everything at recess
he played hide and seek in the store with us
laughed with no filter
seemed to love every minute where his role
was to just be a child, enjoy all the fun, he certainly deserves it all
even the giant sugar cookie he decorated
with all of the five colors of frosting on it
and every kind of sprinkle.
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“the greatness of a community is most accurately measured
by the compassionate actions of its members.’
-coretta scott king
connection.
be nice. (the world is a small town.) -austin kleon
townies and visitors
listen to the powerful sounds of u’neek
at the end of summer sol festival
in the charming small town of pentwater
where we were visiting friends
realizing just how small it was
when we kept crossing paths with people
who we’d seen or met in other places
doing other jobs or in different circumstances.
chad was the fill-in musician between sets and bands
also the bartender at the ‘yacht club’
also the second place trivia night champion in town.
next we saw the guy who was the host
at the cafe across the street where we had lunch
now a paying customer at the festival pub.
then we ran into the artist who was also a caretaker for his parents and his dog
who we encountered on the beach an hour before
now sharing stories with my friend and dog-bonding.
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if i lived there and had multiple roles, i would like to work one day a week at the magical toy store as a storyteller, work one afternoon a week selling ice cream at the beach, be known as the pretty good crossword puzzle champion in town, and sit on a bench in the park watching the town go by and writing my homespun recipe column for the local paper, like how to make my baked potatoes.
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‘one of the important things about being a small-town reporter is knowing what not to put in the paper.’
-terry pratchett
market day.
so many colors and aromas and tastes and sounds and things to touch
all senses engaged
a beautiful morning at the market.
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‘what makes the farmers market such a special place is that you’re actually creating a community around food.’
*bryant terry
*Bryant Terry is an African-American vegan chef, food justice activist, and author. He has written four vegan cookbooks and cowrote a book about organic eating. He won a 2015 James Beard Foundation Leadership Award for his food justice work.
to look forward and not back, to look out and not in, and to lend a hand. -edward e. hale
this past weekend i took part in a ‘shop with a cop’ event
sponsored by
mott children’s hospital,
the county sheriff department, local police departments, state troopers,
u.s. marines, and the university of michigan police department
everyone volunteered their time
to take underserved children and their families
back to school shopping at a local meijer store.
it was beautifully organized
we all met in the morning at the stadium
set up food, games, drinks, tables
met our law enforcement partners for the day
families arrived
we shared a meal with our family and created our shopping team
loaded up on university busses
accompanied by motorcycle cops with lights flashing
the kids were really excited.
when we arrived
we descended upon the store
masses of uniformed officers and children
must have caused some shoppers to wonder
but everyone got right to work
helping the kids find the things on their lists
along with lots of extras
at checkout everything was covered
headed back to the stadium
for kona ice, more food, build-a-bear projects, face-painting
checking out the team locker room and playing on the field
by the end of the day
we had shared our stories with each other
learned so much
everyone had bonded
no matter their age, rank, or status.
people were tired and smiling
as they walked out the door
ready for school
headed for home
happy to know
people in the community support them
as a volunteer
this day
was also a gift to me from my community.

“there isn’t anyone you couldn’t love once you’ve heard their story.”
-mary lou kownacki
small cheer.
mistaken orders.
the restaurant of mistaken orders employs waitstaff with dementia
and you can never be exactly sure what you will be getting.
below is a statement from the restaurant to potential patrons and to the world.
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you may think it’s crazy,
a restaurant that can’t even get your order right,
all of our servers are people living with dementia,
they may, or may not, get your order right.
however, rest assured,
that even if your order is mistaken
everything on our menu is delicious and one of a kind.
this we guarantee.
“it’s okay if my order was wrong, it tastes so good anyway.”
we hope this feeling of openness and understanding
will spread across japan, and through the world.
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We ask for your continued support of The Restaurant of Mistaken Orders in Tokyo, Japan.
Our mission is to spread dementia awareness and to make society a little bit more open-minded and relaxed.
—
“gratitude is when memory is stored in the heart and not in the mind.”
-lionel hampton
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source credits: https://www.japan.go.jp/tomodachi/2019/winter2019/restaurant_of_mistaken_orders.html
the government of japan
where does the rainbow end?
After their LGBTQ pride flag was stolen twice in recent weeks, a pair of Ann Arbor churches are responding the only way they know how — giving away more flags.
St Aidan’s Episcopal Church and Northside Presbyterian Church, which share a building in Ann Arbor, are launching a “Need A Flag, Take A Flag” event today. The event will feature 300 LGBTQ pride flags and allow anyone in need of a flag to take home their own handheld versions.
Although the event is in part a Pride Month celebration, the inspiration for it comes from the theft of the churches’ own flags. On April 3, church leadership received an email saying someone had removed the flag and thrown it into the bushes. On June 1, the churches reported the replaced flag had been stolen completely.
“I still haven’t found it,” said the Rev. Thomas Ferguson, vicar at St. Aidan’s Episcopal Church. The Rev. Jenny Saperstein, pastor at Northside Presbyterian Church, told Ferguson, somewhat tongue-in-cheek, that whoever took it must have needed a flag. “She said, let’s answer this with something positive,” Ferguson said.
The churches, which often partner on social justice issues, will have 300 flags available and plan to order more if they run out. Launching the event on a Sunday allows the entire congregation to get involved with the advocacy, Saperstein said. “It’s really this church community that stands for that,” Saperstein said. “Not just the pastors.”
Hearing affirming messaging from churches is especially important for marginalized communities. “We’ll hope to change hearts and minds with love,” Ferguson said. “We’re not going away, and we’re not changing our stance here with the oppressed.”
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Donde termina el arco iris,
en tu alma o en el horizonte?
Where does the rainbow end,
in your soul or on the horizon?
― Pablo Neruda, The Book of Questions
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source credit: jordyn pair, mlive, ann arbor news





























