what is your favorite flower?
do you know what it’s saying?
THE HISTORY OF FLOWER MEANINGS – The Language of Flowers
The symbolic language of flowers has been recognized for centuries in many countries throughout Europe and Asia. They even play a large role in William Shakespeare’s works. Mythologies, folklore, sonnets, and plays of the ancient Greeks, Romans, Egyptians, and Chinese are peppered with flower and plant symbolism—and for good reason. Nearly every sentiment imaginable can be expressed with flowers. The orange blossom, for instance, means chastity, purity, and loveliness, while the red chrysanthemum means “I love you.”
FLOWERY LANGUAGE OF THE VICTORIAN ERA
Learning the special symbolism of flowers became a popular pastime during the 1800s. Nearly all Victorian homes had, alongside the Bible, guidebooks for deciphering the “language,” although definitions shifted depending on the source.
In the Victorian era, flowers were primarily used to deliver messages that couldn’t be spoken aloud. In a sort of silent dialogue, flowers could be used to answer “yes” or “no” questions. A “yes” answer came in the form of flowers handed over with the right hand; if the left hand was used, the answer was “no.”
Plants could also express aversive feelings, such as the “conceit” of pomegranate or the “bitterness” of aloe. Similarly, if given a rose declaring “devotion” or an apple blossom showing “preference,” one might return to the suitor a yellow carnation to express “disdain.”
How flowers were presented and in what condition were important. If the flowers were given upside down, then the idea being conveyed was the opposite of what was traditionally meant. How the ribbon was tied said something, too: Tied to the left, the flowers’ symbolism applied to the giver, whereas tied to the right, the sentiment was in reference to the recipient. And, of course, a wilted bouquet delivered an obvious message!
More examples of plants and their associated human qualities during the Victorian era include bluebells and kindness, peonies and bashfulness, rosemary and remembrance, and tulips and passion. The meanings and traditions associated with flowers have certainly changed over time, and different cultures assign varying ideas to the same species, but the fascination with “perfumed words” persists just the same.
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There is a language, little known,
Lovers claim it as their own.
Its symbols smile upon the land,
Wrought by nature’s wondrous hand;
And in their silent beauty speak,
Of life and joy, to those who seek
For Love Divine and sunny hours
In the language of the flowers.
–The Language of Flowers, London, 1875
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text credits: Old Farmer’s Almanac, Catherine Boeckmann
art credit: Illustrated postcard. Printed in England/The Regent Publishing Co Ltd.-Dumbarton Oaks Archives
Yeah … I’m from the “Flower Child” era …
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i’m all about that era –
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Geez! When it comes to flowers, I am obviously reading on a first grade level.
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it’s clearly not been my first language and hit or miss for me. i go for the look – who knows what messages i’ve sent? )
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Yeah, I don’t even want to consider what mixed messages I have given in the past…
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right!
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same here; sounds like I’ve been doing flowers wrong my whole life…
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me too! who knew?
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Very interesting Beth. Thanks for sharing
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my pleasure
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👍👍👍
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This is so interesting. I knew flowers had meanings and symbolism but finding out about which hand and how ribbons were tied.
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an interesting and comfortable way for the victorians to express themselves
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Flowers can tell us so much. We only need to look at them, how they are composed, where and how they grow, how they look like. And they can tell us quite a lot about ourselves. We only need to check what flowers are growing around us. They might have those healing forces we need.
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absolutely
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Yeah, just go with the FLOWer! ♥(✿ฺ´∀`✿ฺ)ノ
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hahahahaha
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❣⃛(❛ั◡˜๑)
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good to know about history of flowers
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it’s so interesting and i love how it’s changed over time and place
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Reblogged this on Art, Photography and Poetry.
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thanks, goff
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Pleasure. Great post.
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Great post. I have reblogged.
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thanks, goff. i’ve always been fascinated by this –
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Great read.
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Well, my garden flowers speak to me in colors and scents, Beth.
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ooh, yes –
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the language of flowers and the music of trees: I have much to ruminate on as I catch the train to Bedfordshire 🙂
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ah, yes. and perhaps tomorrow i shall share about the utterings of wood chips.
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Lol 🙂
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Right now the backyard garden is full of flowers. Black-eyed Susans are bright and tall. Love how they bring brilliant yellow color to the garden. We still have a few lilies that add a little orange and hydrangeas big and puffy. Mt. wife’s favorite is peonies, but my favorite depends on the season in bloom. I just enjoy the color flowers bring to the back yard. Stay well and safe. Peace.
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yes, I love the colors and style of them all
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🌹🌺
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❤
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Such an interesting concept, isn’t it, Beth? Did you ever read the novel by Vanessa Diffenbaugh called “The Language of Flowers?” The author takes this idea and weaves it into a fictional tale. I really enjoyed it!
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I can’t wait to read it, I’ve read a lot of quotes from her
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Fascinating! If you can’t speak your mind, a flower will help.
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let them do all the talking
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Thank you for this post.
From now on when I give flowers as a gift, I am going to write a little disclaimer clause on the card. Who knows what titillating messages I might be sending.
From now on when I receive flowers as a gift, I am going to write a little disclaimer clause on my thank you reply. Who knows what titillating messages I might be accepting.
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right!)
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This is fascinating! There’s much I didn’t know, such as delivering with the right hand or left hand. Of course parents named their children after flowers. My grandmother (1880’s) was Rose.
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right! oh, I love the flower names
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Me, too!
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I knew the different colors of roses meant different things, but had no idea about all the other flowers. It would be a dreary world without flowers.
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it surely would
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Interesting. For me any flower I give means Love! ♥
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i am the same –
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Flowers do indeed mean something to us. Secret codes and messages, passed between lovers and friends.
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and enemies alike –
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While I appreciate the natural beauty of flowers I know very few my name,…the purple ones is how I describe them!
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perfect
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How beautiful, Beth! I hadn’t heard about flower language before! I will never look at my favorite (Hyacinthe) flower in the same way again (or any other flower for that matter)! I love this! Thank you! Cher xoxoxo
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my pleasure, Cher. I’ve always been fascinated by this form of communication
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I do believe that we all learn something new every day. This is definitely a delightful ‘learn’ for me today, Beth! I’m going to investigate further! Thank you again! Cher xoxoxo
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wonderful –
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For me the yellow daisies and the flower of the bougainvillea, which had to be the smallest flower yet quite lovely…
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ooh, both beauties
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Yes!
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This is a lovely post. Flowers can still deliver many messages.
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yes, they certainly can –
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How lovely. 🌼🌺🌹🌷🌻💐
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Beautiful. My favorite flower is the blossom on my Scarlet Emperor Beans. 🙂 It means “food” and something else I can’t really define.
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perfect
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Oh I love them all. I paint then. I Love this as I am learning about the meaning of flowers.
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I’ve always been fascinated by this
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yes curious about nature
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A right handed post!
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there you go –
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I love that feelings/words can be shared via flowers. I know many who have developed ‘love notes’ via flowers they send. It’s lovely.
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I love it too
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I love sunflowers! And Anemones
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ooh, yes to both!
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Looking nice flowers
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