(not our real hands, but good for perspective)
mine is the tinkerbelle hand with a minor ‘injury’ and his, the paul bunyan hand with a major trauma.
waiting in the store checkout line
browsing through my phone
the man in front of me
laughing and chatting with the cashier
saying it was a challenge to sign the receipt
because of his hand
hearing this
turned to face him
beginning to take in the situation
(major cast on his arm and hand)
while i quickly blurted out:
“it’s the worst, isn’t it?!”
whining about having an injury too
he asked me what happened
explaining the battle with my car door
he had a young daughter with him
was so kind and gentle with her
laughing and chatting
just as he had done with the cashier
when i asked him what happened
wondering why he had such a big cast
he told me his story
it involved him trying to stop someone
from stealing his fiancee’s car
and
a dog attack
instant perspective shift
before i could say anything
he turned to go
saying,
“i’m sorry that happened to you and i hope you heal really soon.”
all i could say was, “you too..”
how fortunate the people in his life are
even the strangers he encounters in his day
lucky to cross paths with him
this gentle giant
walks softly
teaching huge lessons.
—
“look at you comforting others with the words you want to hear.”
-author unknown
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I have that image of a gentle Paul Bunyan in my head now. A life-enhancing encounter indeed.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, it absolutely was
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I knew a girl like that …
“Do not worry, dear
Because of you
My enthusiasm for life
Shall continue to thrive
You taught me the benevolence
Of Existence
And you showed me how to live graciously
With your everlasting smile”
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What a gift she gave to you
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She was an amazing lady …
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and that’s why she still is with you in your heart forever
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Indeed so Beth ❤️😊
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There are angels everywhere. Some are giants some are..well, little. Nice story. Thanks. Be well. Heal fast. 💨
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Thank you !
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lovely story, Beth, unwinding gently. Tennessee Williams had a saying, ‘the kindness of strangers’ —
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That’s it
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Sometimes we only hear gripping and grumbling waiting at the checkout. Time passes quickly when you’re having fun. Even if it’s only comparing battle scars. :)
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Makes all the difference
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There are some kind people who no not deserve the nasty brainless idiots who spoil this life.
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Yes
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Sorry, that was meant to read—who do not deserve the— not who no not deserve……
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So nice to meet such people
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it’s always such a pleasure
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😍🩷😍
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Hearing about people like that makes me smile and renews my faith in us.
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yes, it’s a good reminder
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Smiles go long ways, don’t they. I hope you heal fast. Happy New Year!
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Thanks!
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You met Jack Reacher!
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I did!
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So it goes!
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Yes-
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You are never alone with anything and there is alwasy someone more troubled or worse off then yourself. We can always be so grateful for our situation we are in.
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That’s exactly right
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It is good to read such a nice story!
I hope you are healed in no time!
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Ty-
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Any injury is worth sympathy…
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Yes –
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Now I know what you meant over on Pam’s page ;-)
And he’s my kind of people. I love that you had such a wonderful encounter, Beth. May you both heal well!
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Ty!
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😊
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The old expression that somebody always has it worse is so true.
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Absolutely
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Perspective. Beautiful quote.
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It changes everything
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Thanks for sharing this idea. He had his broken arm. Anita
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Right –
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You were fortunate to be near enough to soak in his genuine aura, Beth.
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You’re so right
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He sounds like a lovely man!
And so kind, too!
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Yes to both
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Ah, what a sweet encounter. Loved that you swapped stories.
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It was so sweet
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I believe it’s always a gift of grace when we encounter someone who has a similar story but the outcome is so much worse!
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I so agree
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💕
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❤️
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Thanks for sharing this…always something in the world that can inspire us and make us feel better about the human condition…
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Often when and where we least expect it
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Amazing story!
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It was a wonderful experience
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thank you for sharing, Beth…💕
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My pleasure
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Beth, your heartfelt recounting of a chance encounter in the store checkout line is touching. The way you captured the essence of compassion and understanding in that moment… Your reflection on the gentle giant and the instant perspective shift serves as a beautiful reminder of the profound lessons that can be found in unexpected encounters. Well done!
~David
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Absolutely where we most often learn those lessons- thank you
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We need more people like that in this world!
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We absolutely do
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This is such a touching and important story. Could we all walk the earth being the comfort and encouragement that others need. Beautifully told Beth. Hugs, c
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Yes, we would all be the better for it. Thank you
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Your post is a friendly reminder for all the negativity in the world that there are far more kind people.
I especially like your ending: “This gentle giant walks softly teaching huge lessons.”
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Absolutely
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Interesting
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Thank you for sharing this kind-hearted story. Yes, sometimes it takes perspective to shift our thinking. We need more guys like this in the world.
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We do and we need reminde
Yes, so right, and we need gentle reminders every so often
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Lovely encounter.
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It was one of those moments you don’t forget
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There is always someone less fortunate than we are. Another example here. Great interaction.
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Always-
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Beautifully said, and what a gentle giant, indeed. The quotation is just perfect!
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Thank you
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You are welcome.
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What a moving story you’ve told here! A lesson for us all.
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Thank you
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Learn something everyday, right?
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Never fails to happen
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Nope, it doesn’t.
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Besides nice friends and family, you even attract nice strangers.
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It’s a mix )
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Love this 💖
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thanks, val
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What a heart-warming tale!
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Thanks
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