any of these could be me when I’m talking
some of you may remember that i recently almost got accidentally signed up as a volunteer for something. this was due to the fact that when I was talking to my friend and using my hands, as I always do. someone mistook my hand gestures for me having raised my hand, just when they were asking for volunteers. luckily, I was able to clear up the mistake in time.
recently I had another ‘hands incident’ when I met my friend for coffee who I hadn’t seen in a while, but who has me known for a few years. in the middle of our conversation, she suddenly asked, ‘are you using sign language? I haven’t taken that class, and if you are, I won’t understand what you’re trying to tell me.’ (keep in mind that I had been speaking the whole time and was not using sign language, I don’t even know sign language.). I assured her that I was not and reminded her that I had been speaking.
thinking about this later, it made me laugh, but I wondered what was going on?
am I somehow using my hands more than I used to when talking?
am I more dramatic with my gestures?
should I become a mime?
are my hands getting louder?
—
‘even the smallest gesture can make a huge difference.’
-billy butler
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All good questions but I especially like the last one. Those loud hands are obviously getting noticed.
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yes, I think so –
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My dad did the same thing, and people used to end up looking at his hands when he was talking to them, wondering why he was waving them around. 😊
Best wishes, Pete.
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so funny –
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“Personality is an unbroken series of successful gestures.” ~ F. Scott Fitzgerald
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thank you, yes
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My husband was good at telling jokes. He only knew a few and probably told the same ones over and over to the same guests. But they always laughed and loved it.
And of course it was due to the animation of his hands, face and whole body.
I tried telling the joke once and friends sat there waiting for the punch line. (I now stick to singing.)
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we all have our gifts )
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I’m chuckling over the idea of being in a conversation and answering someone’s question by miming it instead of speaking aloud. Would make for a surprise twist! :)
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right!
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Wow, you are bilingual and don’t realize it, Beth!
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But apparently it’s a language that no one else knows :-)
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As one who talks with their hands, Ill go with good thing you weren’t at an auction
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Yes!)
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Feathered bipeds of similar plumage tend to be gregarious.
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Well said
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seems like this could be turned into a Seinfeld episode- you would be known as the hand talker…
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So true )
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Oh, I love this so much!
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Thanks, Roy!
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Your students probably wondered why their other teachers did not speak with their hands!
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Right! So lame!
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So cool is more like it!
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Oh, I meant they are lame ))))
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Gee, and I thought I gestured a lot. I’m a rank amateur.
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Apparently, I was born with it :-)
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Oh, gosh, I am talking with my hands too, and often I spilled something, or hit someone, or my hand. However, I get you, Beth 😂
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Same! And thanks
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Smiling! 😁😁😁 I have “loud hands”, too! 😜
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Imagine the two of us ‘in conversation’ together))👌👏👏👍
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One day!! One day it’s gonna happen! 🥰😜🥰
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Yep!
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🥰💕🥰
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This is such a funny story, especially funny because I also move my hands a lot when I talk.
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I must be stepping it up somehow to have had these two recent situations)
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“Are you using sign language?” That made me laugh out loud. 🤣🤣🤣
“It’s a little trick I’ve learned to go with speaking.”
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I mean… I had been talking right along, nothing new, and we’d known each other, so..)
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Are my hands getting louder? That is very deep and very funny! :)
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thanks, wynne!)
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I talk with my hands, too! I think it’s a sign of intelligence! ;)
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I’m going to go with that, and thanks, fellow hand talker !
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You’re welcome!
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“should I become a mime?” 🤣😂 You just made my day. And who knows, you may come up with an entirely NEW form of sign language and I bet I would understand every single thing you signed. I love this. Its wonderful. They made me sit on my hands when I was young, to break me of the habit of using my hands all the time.
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and the thing is, I’m not really a fan of mimes, they tend to annoy me, so – yes, maybe a new language, but I was also speaking so, I’m just not sure where to go with this.)
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I’m not a fan of mime either. You’ll figure it out. You always do and whatever you choose will be perfect.
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I’m just going to keep doing what I’m doing for now unless it disturbs someone. still think it’s less disturbing than being a mime )
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You are absolutely right. You have the right to use your hands. I don’t know why more people don’t use them. Their loss.
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It might be the teacher in you and having worked with younger kids! I can imagine that being extra expressive was a daily requirement.
I gotta say, that pretty funny that your friend wondered if you were using sign language. 😆
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that could be, but yes, I was laughing just thinking back on that )
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“hands getting louder” Funny! I am expressive with my hands, too.
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so you know )
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😃
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It must be hilarious in retrospect. 😂
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I really did have a good laugh later, I was just so surprised when she asked me, and I thought she was kidding –
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Perhaps she was!
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I have to hand it to you, this is brilliant!
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what a great pun, from the king…)
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I like the “Are my hands getting louder” statement!!!!
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)))
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I do, too. Usually I knock over something with my gestures. It must be all the years of using puppets. 😀
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same, same !
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Yes!!!
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DO NOT BECOME A MIME!
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I’m not a mime fan and could not stand not to speak so no fear of that !)
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Whew! 😅
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