My dad left the house every morning and always seemed glad to see everyone at night.
He opened the jar of pickles when nobody else could.
He was the only one in the house who wasn’t afraid to go to the basement by himself.
He cut himself shaving, but no one kissed it or got excited about it.
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for all fathers and father figures here and gone
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I love this delightful Father’s Day tribute Beth. ❤️
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My dad seemed to stop liking me when I hit my teenage years. Then he left my mum for another woman when I was 24 and I never saw him again. I had good childhood memories of him, but they were all soured by his actions and behaviour in later life. For 25 years I have tried my best to be a good step-father to four children who are now adults, but their own dad is very much around, so he (rightly) gets to celebrate Father’s Day with them.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’m glad that you didn’t emulate your father and were a wonderful step father – here’s to you, Pete on Father’s Day!
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Erma Bombeck got it right!!
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she sure did, and so honest
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This is sweet Beth. Thanks for sharing
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<3
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😍
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This quote best describes my dad … “Dads show us that kindness is the strongest form of strength.”
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wonderful!
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Best job I’ve ever had. There’s no retiring from it.
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yes sir!
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❤️ happy Father’s Day to you, Jim!
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Thank you. I agree with Jim, best damn job in the world. Today is my son’s FIRST Father’s Day. I remember my first, too.
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❤️
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Happy Father’s Day to all you dads out there!
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❤️
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I love the small, deeply personal and seemingly mundane observations in this tribute, Beth. Those things that are so unique to someone and their relationship.
Wishing a Happy Fathers Day to all who are celebrating and/or remembering today!
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Absolutely, they sure are. Happy Father’s Day to you!
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Thank you! 💕
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That is so Erma Bombeck!
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Isn’t it though?!
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She told it like it is!
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Exactly!
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Lovely one from Erma. Made me feel for all the dads.
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Right
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The part about the basement is really funny.
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I love that she just stated the little things that were personal to her and that one is very funny
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Basements can really be scary. It takes a brave dad to go down there alone. LOLOL Perfect.
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Ah, a rock! Here’s to great fathers!
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you lived it
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ahhh Father’s Day. Thought I’d been overlooked :) no. it’s Sept 7 in Oz —
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aha!
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Perfectly Erma. Thanks, Beth.
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it really is so her, no glossing over things )
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What Erms wrote was also my dad exactly. My hero. 😘
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that’s wonderful!
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Thanks for the Erma memories. I loved her.
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me too, and this description is so her –
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Yes!!
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