your blog is your radio station.

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The car we were using on our long trip to South Carolina this year is old enough that connecting my phone required a cable and a bit of fuss, and one afternoon I didn’t feel like bothering with it. I just wanted some music, so I reached for the radio and began twisting the dial.

Most of what I heard was exactly what you’d expect. Polished, predictable, professionally programmed stations delivering familiar formats. They weren’t bad. They were just interchangeable. I moved past them without thinking.

Then I landed on something different: WCOO, 105.5 The Bridge. Within minutes I realized I was hearing something I hadn’t encountered in a long time — a station with a point of view. They played familiar songs, but not always the obvious ones. Many had been hits long ago but had largely disappeared from radio. At one point they played Leon Russell’s Stranger in a Strange Land. I lit up — I had never heard that song on the radio before, except when I aired it myself decades ago. They also played songs I didn’t recognize at all, from bands I’d never heard of. None of it felt random. The whole package held together.

Not every song grabbed me. Most were simply part of the station’s overall sound, and made the station feel coherent. And because that coherence was there, the occasional song that did connect landed with unusual force. I found myself leaving the dial alone, letting the station carry me wherever it was going.

That experience reminded me of something about blogging.

Your blog is a radio station.

Every time you publish a post, you are programming your station. You are choosing what goes into rotation. Some post types are your familiars, the topics and themes readers already associate with you. Some are deeper cuts, things that matter to you but may not matter to everyone. Some are experiments, signals sent into the dark to see if anyone recognizes them.

Most posts will not stop a new visitor in their tracks. Most simply establish the contours of your sensibility. They create the sound of your station.

Readers don’t arrive knowing they need you. They arrive the way I arrived at WCOO: by accident, by curiosity, by wandering. They sample what you’re transmitting. Most move on quickly, not because your signal is weak, but because it isn’t their frequency. Affinity is selective by nature. But a few hear something that resonates — something familiar, or something unexpectedly right. Those readers stay. They come back. Over time, they stop evaluating individual posts and start trusting the station itself.

Search engines and social media made it seem as if blogging were about being findable. They encouraged us to think in terms of traffic, optimization, and reach. Those things can increase the number of people who briefly pass through your frequency range. They can’t manufacture recognition. Recognition happens when your signal is clear and consistent enough that the right person thinks, “Right on!” when they hear it.

The job of a blogger is not to capture everyone. The job is to transmit something real, building a body of work that sounds like itself, so that when someone out there is twisting the dial and lands on your station, they hear something they didn’t know they were looking for, and decide to stay awhile.

You don’t control who tunes in. You control only what you transmit. – Jim Grey

 

note/source credits:  (both former radio dj’s)

I felt that this described blogging perfectly after recently reading a repost from my blogging friend Keith, from ‘Various Ramblings of a Nostalgic Italian https://nostalgicitalian.com/

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  1. Wow, this has been so true of my blogging experience. Everyone I have found, or try to follow consistently, its because they reonate on the right frequency. Hopefully, it works the same in reverse. I know I can not handle too many followers, so growing has never been a priority, just writing and sharing. Even now, I feel overwhelmed with the little I have.
    I love the points you’ve raised in this piece, Beth.

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    • and just to prove the point, this piece really resonated with me. after reading his words, i felt like it explained what i’ve felt about blogs and blogging, why i’m drawn to them. and perhaps, people to mine as well. i was drawn to ‘the frequency’ of his words here and wanted to share them.

      i’m not adept at marketing myself, but prefer to just post what i have to say or share each day and hope that someone takes something from that once in a while that may connect them to it in some way.

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      • I feel you about that thing about marketing myself. I don’t like being in the spotlight at all. Would prefer to be a ghost writer.
        But your post truly resonated.. and I, too, have had that experience driving through the Carolinas, and picking up an AM radio station. Just the thing I was looking for.

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  2. thank you beth, that was a Heureka moment for me – confirming what I deep down knew for many, many years. I ‘follow’ bloggers loosely or firmly, as it fits my ‘demands’. Some I read occasionally, others I may not read for some time BUT when I am ‘available’, I catch up with. Others I unsubscribe. Some I start following for a moment and then go off. As it is with radio stations. And that’s why I’m still missing, many years later, some of them because I can’t follow them from other countries. What a great post that was.

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    • yes, i felt that he explained it so well. it’s so hard to describe what brings us to read someone’s blog or to create one, even. there are so many out there, it’s amazing how people find each other –

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  3. My blog site is where I post/broadcast my poems. I write poetry because I feel for the world around me, I notice things most people rush past — the breath of morning light, the hush of the wind in the trees, the way a song can echo nature’s existence. And I like to keep showing up to my page with honesty, curiosity, and my unmistakable ‘Ivor’ warmth.

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  4. Great analogy, although I haven’t listened to my car radio in many years. (I see better with no radio.) My blog station lacks a clear signal. Erratic programming, irregular scheduling. Weak signal. Entirely my fault, of course.

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    • i always look forward to tuning in though, and it doesn’t bother me, you’d be like a rebel pirate radio station in the 60s!) and i turn my music down when i’m looking for an address )

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  5. I love the analogy. First I love how he described finding a great station. I love a station that plays 80s music, but I tire quickly when they play the same top hits. Often I want to hear a lesser known piece by a great group that I like. I love too the programming analogy. I feel that with the great sites that I follow. On many of them, I go back because I know exactly what I’ll get. I know the type of blog I’ll find. A fun post. Thanks for sharing.

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  6. What a brilliant comparison. I remember the push toward growth — I’m not exactly sure when that was but there was a lot of conversation around search engine hacks and pulling readers with your title. I really appreciate the distinction here between frequency and recognition. Great post!!

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    • yes, i remember that too, and i think he just said it perfectly for those of us who are not worried about the stats, but real sharing and engagement instead

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    • he really hit the nail on the head in my opinion. it’s difficult to put into words, for those of us who don’t strive for the numbers, but enjoy the connections and sharing what we have to offer, hoping someone else might connect with it in some way.

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  7. A couple of weeks ago, a good friend suggested I should “modernise and update what I do in my blog. She said the message has to be short and snappy and should be posted everywhere in the net. I explained that what was important for me, was to do what was meaningful for me…….yes….. photos… travels,,,, but joining things together to make a story of my experiences, thus,,,,, the title, Wandering and Wondering! To do what she suggested might make the post more “popular” but would not be “me”. Why do we write? For ourselves perhaps? And if some kind souls tune into that, then we are indeed blessed and fortunate. So….. a sincere, gratitude to those who do kindly tune in to what I write. Your “good taste” (hahaha) is very much appreciated.

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    • oh, that is exactly the right answer and exactly what i would say. it represents me. it’s why i do what i do and how i do it, i see mine as a sort of collage, piecing things together that don’t often go together, but somehow work in a new way. i enjoy puzzles so that kind of makes sense i suppose. i see life as a series of connections.
      keep doing what you’re doing it’s a delight and it’s clearly who you are, and it’s a great station to visit!

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  8. Wonderful analogy, Beth. Much like food, there is something for everyone. You just need to pick and choose what suits your fancy when it comes to blogs. I think the mistake many beginning bloggers make is thinking they’ll follow everyone. There is no way, and this is supposed to be fun (not a job).

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    • yes, right on all counts. and the goal is really not to have the numbers, it’s more about feeling comfortable sharing what you have to say or show and making connections with others

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  9. Beautiful post, Beth. I love the analogy with radio stations – and the idea of our writing as bloggers being frequency sent to the world. In a world with social media and search optimizations, there’s something compelling about just being yourself and trusting that your message will find its audience.

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