when i was a little girl, i finally had a chance to meet my favorite superhero, spiderman. he happened to be at the montgomery wards store at our local mall at the same time as i was. i saw this as fate. i could not have been more excited, as he’d been one of my idols for as long as i could remember.
waiting in line, anxious, hopping with joy, i finally made my way up to the front to meet him. i was shy, but i was motivated, and i asked him to ‘shoot the webs’ for me. it was one of my favorite superpowers and i’d seen him do it on tv many times, enabling him to fly from building to building, saving people, and meting out justice to the bad guys. i pictured him climbing up the super strong silk to get to the top of the store.
i remember his reaction to my quiet but earnest request. he just looked at me for a moment, smiled, held up his wrists, the place where the webs originated from, and then – nothing happened. it was my turn to stare at him then, put my head down and felt bad for him, and for me, said thank you, and walked away, back to my family, lost in the mall crowd once again.
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‘wisdom comes by disillusionment.’
-george santayana
THEN YESTERDAY, WHEN I WALKED INTO AN OFFICE SUPPLY STORE
LOOK WHO GREETED ME
60 YEARS LATER!
this time
a little older and wiser
i had low expectations
plus
he was now a balloon.
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Shattering childhood dreams should be against the law! 🕷️🕸️
Best wishes, Pete.
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right, like the tooth fairy or santa.
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That’s so sad, Beth. I wonder why he didn’t say something like he had promised not to do it in the store.
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i’m sure he was caught unprepared, but hard to think that no one has had this request before, it was his coolest move after all –
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totally agree. He should have known someone would ask for that, or his agent should have.
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I don’t think he was prepared for it at all, but I can’t imagine no one else ever asked him this.
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hahahha : gorgeous; did not see this coming; my superhero, I guess was Superman ; I shook hands with a superhero once in a Myers store in Adelaide but I cn’t remember who it was :(
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Superman is not a bad choice
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i’ll always remember this and superman was pretty cool too –
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What a great story!
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Thanks, Sarah!
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Aww… too bad he didn’t have a good response!
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I think anyone dressed up as a character has to be prepared for that type of question. Kids believe in them.
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Truly. I mean come on… what is Spiderman known for? Ya gotta be ready!
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How touching 🥰
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Thanks, Val, I’ve never forgotten it
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Being a plumber, crawling around under houses, I was always kind and friendly toward my fellow dwellers, and would chat to them, pretending I was “Spiderman”
“For me, Superman’s greatest contribution has never been the superhero part: it’s the Clark Kent part – the idea that any of us, in all our ordinariness, can change the world.” ~ Brad Meltzer
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That’s so sweet that you did that and that quote is perfect.
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Aww, such a shame – I did like Spiderman by the way!
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That’s sad, Beth. It sounds like he was caught off guard, but then again, if he’s supposed to be Spiderman, you’d think he’d be prepared. And now he’s a balloon. :)
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Yes, to all of this )
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Aw, Beth, I think we all know that feeling. He was one of my heroes too.
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Now a balloon?! Oh my. Others kids must be feeling deflated too. 😔
Sorry this happened to you. Hugs
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great response – thanks
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Aww Beth 🙄
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Spiderman was always my favorite superhero, too. Sorry to hear the wrist thing turned out to be a web of lies.
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😂
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What a disappointment that must have been.
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Disillusioned, yet you made this post delightful, Beth. I had a similar crumbling hero moment when at 6 years old I met Tarzan in a grocery store. 🙈. Hugs.
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Somehow these meetings stick with us –
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I guess not only the second but the first too, full of hot air.
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Well said!)
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It must have been so disillusioning for a little girl who believed in her superhero.
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I made it through, but yes, I was so surprised
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Now the Spider-Man probably would be able to shoot the webs. I’m sure it would be an easy enough thing to create now. Disappointing for you as a child.
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Comic book stores are a rarity these days but there is something magical about walking into one as a kid. The imagination and wonder of a young mind is so pure and it’s sad to think of how life clarifies that with information and reality.
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You’re so right-
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Your post makes me think about kids at school talking about Santa. Most third graders still believe, but I often had a child or two who felt it was their duty to “educate” the others. More than once, I picked up my class after recess, only to find a child in tears.
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I loved reading about your childhood memory! I remember a Montgomery Ward store near Saginaw or Bay City, which for us was like going to “the big city.”
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So glad you met Spiderman all those years ago, even if the experience proved disappointing.
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Hahahahaha that’s great…”he was now a balloon.” What a sweet story about finding out everything wasn’t the way you thought it was.
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Aww, it’s sad to see that superheroes are human after all. But it’s okay if they are balloons. 🎈
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exactly –
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😻
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Haha, I went into the Nespresso shops to find George Clooney there….. never did. I gave up now :-)
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you never know…)
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You must have been devastated when he couldn’t shoot out the spider webs. But you got to meet him 60 years later!
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!!!
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Superman is my super hero too. Great post Beth ❤️
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Thanks-
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Welcome
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LOL
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Spider-Man is a great superhero. No wonder he’s number one, followed by Batman and Superman.
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it all makes sense to me -)
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It really does after I took some time to think about it. 🤓
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I guess the you should now only see Spiderman on a website haha,
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A balloon that would look fabulous mounted at the top of the wall of anyone’s high-rise, keeping the myth alive!
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that’s true !
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Hilarious ending! :P
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<3
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Lol Beth! Sorry you were let down by your superhero!
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thanks and i recovered )
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