Category Archives: joy

happy guy muffins.

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i felt so lucky 

to visit the bakery

with special treats

made by the class

i taught last year

some new children 

some i knew from before

including this little one

one of the happiest guys you’ll ever meet

even last year when he was three

 at first too shy to speak out loud

but said everything he needed to say

with his huge smile

now here he was

selling his homemade

sprinkle lemon happy guy muffins

each one for a penny

smiling wide and chattering up a storm

still the happiest guy around

on a warm and sunny day.

“what sunshine is to flowers, smiles are to humanity.

these are but trifles, to be sure;

but scattered along life’s pathway,

the good they do is inconceivable.”

-joseph addison

we must return it.

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‘even a wounded world is feeding us.

even a wounded world holds us,

gives us moments of joy & wonder.

i choose joy over despair, not because i have my head in the sand,

but because joy is what the earth gives me daily and i must return it.’

-robin wali kimmerer, author, braiding sweetgrass

today, on earth day, and every day

 

 

 

 

walking the ann arbor parks, michigan, usa, 2025

demand it.

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it’s always quickly apparent 

whimsy and joy step in

when i turn down a road

finding myself on campus

i think that many find themselves here.

‘the joy of living is his who has the heart to demand it.’

-theodore roosevelt

the source.

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“sometimes your joy is the source of your smile,
but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.”
― thich nhat hanh

snow very happy.

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“well, I know now.  know a little more how much a simple thing like a snowfall can mean to a person”
― sylvia plath

 

 

joyspotting.

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The Aesthetics of Joy”: Designer Explains 10 Ways Our Surroundings Can Positively Influence Emotions

courtesy of Ingrid Fetell Lee  – author, Rebekah Brandes

Walk into designer Ingrid Fetell Lee’s home in East Hampton, New York, and you may find yourself feeling lighter than you did a few minutes earlier. That’s because Lee has dedicated her career to exploring what she calls “the aesthetics of joy,” and her living space represents that work.

Lee first became interested in the emotions that certain colors, shapes, and other physical attributes evoke while earning her master’s in industrial design at the Pratt Institute — specifically, after presenting her first year-end review to faculty in 2008.

Sharing the story in a 2018 TED Talk, Lee describes hoping that the professors would recognize the effort she had put in to making her designs ergonomical, sustainable, and practical. “And I’m starting to get really nervous, because for a long time, no one says anything,” she recounted. “It’s just completely silent. And then one of the professors starts to speak, and he says, ‘Your work gives me a feeling of joy.’”

Surprised and a bit bewildered by the comment, Lee decided to investigate just why her work elicited the feeling of joy. She made the topic her thesis, spending an entire year studying it, and starting a blog to share her thoughts and findings. Nearly a decade later, she published Joyful: The Surprising Power of Ordinary Things to Create Extraordinary Happiness, and today, she teaches people how to adjust their environments to lead happier, healthier lives.

Lee’s research led her to identify 10 aesthetics of joy: energy, abundance, freedom, harmony, play, surprise, transcendence, magic, celebration, and renewal. Each is defined by a number of other attributes. Energy, for example, is derived from the use of color and light. In her book, Lee points out that research has shown that increasing exposure to sunlight is associated with reduced blood pressure and improved mood, alertness, and productivity.

Harmony as an aesthetic is represented by symmetry, flow, and a sense of order, while play incorporates circles, spheres, and bubbly forms. Abundance involves lush textures and layers; freedom comes from nature, wildness, and open spaces; and celebration incorporates synchrony, sparkle, and bursting shapes.

Different people connect to different aesthetics, and all 10 aren’t meant to be incorporated into one room or living space. “The aesthetics of joy are a lens for decor, but they’re also a lens for viewing the world,” Lee explained. “And what I think can be really helpful, before you even do anything in your home, is to start to practice.”

She recommends treating the aesthetics like a scavenger hunt as you go about your day-to-day, whether you’re walking around your neighborhood, staying in a hotel on vacation, or visiting a friend’s house.

“I call it ‘joyspotting’ You just start to notice what aesthetics are in a place,” she said, adding that when you find yourself somewhere that makes you feel good, you should try asking yourself why it does. “The first step is just starting to understand which aesthetics you find yourself gravitating toward over and over again. Is it the wide open spaces of freedom and the natural textures in the plants? Or is it a sense of abundance where you find yourself really drawn to layers and textures and different textiles and polka dots and a sense of sensory abundance?

The idea of  enotional design, or designing for emotions, can not only transform individual residences, but also public spaces, like schools, hospitals, and housing projects. Lee points out that for years, people have advocated for — and seen results from — changing how those types of environments look, but the science behind it was formerly scattered across various disciplines. Her book compiles much of that research into one guide.

“I think it was helpful to have a body of research for the first time that demonstrates that this is real and meaningful and valuable,” she said. Though the idea hasn’t been totally embraced by the mainstream yet, it may have the potential to positively inform public policy in the future.

“find out where joy resides, and give it a voice far beyond singing.

for to miss the  joy is to miss all.”

-robert lewis stevenson

lucky break.

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“let a joy keep you. reach out your hands and take it when it runs by.”

-carl sandburg

cheeky monkey.

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 this lamp popped up online

bringing me great joy

 making me laugh out loud

 each and every time i’ve looked at it

i may have to buy it

or at least put a picture of it somewhere

there is no accounting for good taste

when you know, you know.

 

p.s. someone once said i reminded them of a cheeky monkey, and i loved it, perhaps i saw a bit of myself in this.

do you have an unusual object that brings you unexplained joy?

“i just want to spend the rest of my life laughing.”

-author unknown

odoriagaru.

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the kinder were literally jumping for joy

when watching the wind spin the pinwheels on the grass!

jumping for joy – leaping-for-joy (japanese)

 躍り上がる (odoriagaru: to spring up, leap to one’s feet) to leap + up.

 

agreeable friends.

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when walking on a path in the park today

i noticed 5 different dogs, with 4 different owners

coming from all directions

lots of jumping and friendly barking

wondering how they would all get along

 soon saw

it was a planned play date

a dog party

 so thrilled to see each other

immediately falling into joyful play

just like in one of my very favorite books

go, dog, go!

with the surprise dog party at the end.

(sorry for the too late spoiler alert)

 

“animals are such agreeable friends – they ask no questions; they pass no criticisms.”

-george eliot

 

 

image credit: p.d. eastman, ‘go, dog, go!,” random house publishing