Category Archives: Life

a peaceful feel.

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‘if we are closed?

just ask next door!

our staff will happily open the door for you in the event that the store is closed!!!’

(could life be better than having your shoes cobbled as you have a refreshing beverage?)

 

sunglass man has the perfect glasses for all

fish, and rice, and olives, and herbs, and the biggest clove of garlic ever

chemistry/biology major raising tuition money in the traditional way

visiting where the knights templar lived, learning their fascinating history

 

welconing shop

beautiful tiles everywhere, each one a treasure.

relaxing on the balcony at night

the moon looking down

winding down from the day.

 

‘portugal has a peaceful feel about it.

i sit on the terrace overlooking the vineyard there and i feel cut off from the world.

you need that sort of thing.’

Cliff Richard, English musician.

finery.

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“any portuguese town looks like a bride’s finery –

something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue.”

Mary Mccarthy, American novelist, critic and activist

the sea, the beach, surfer’s paradise, the cliffs

club beach soccer/football  championship

medieval town, bookstore, fruit

fatima, miracles, stories, ancient well and tunnel

“i believe in the uncommon, the unusual and unlikely, even the miraculous.

i believe in nearly all things except impossibilities. that i can’t fathom.”

-richelle goodrich

a new way of seeing.

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relaxing in a tiny grotto by the sea

tiny pink carousel

ancient fortress protecting the country from sea invaders

Tiago explains how Spain and Portugal had such a powerful relationship in the Middle Ages

that they agreed to sign treaties to split the world in half

at the westernmost point of europe

in a cloudy microclimate

on a cliff overlooking the sea

in a place

 the portuguese once believed to be the end of the world.

‘my destination is no longer a place, rather a new way of seeing.’

-marcel proust

 

portugal, summer 2024

fado.

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a very moving performance of fado music

in a close setting

soft lighting, candles, silence, just taking it all in

straight from the heart

the passionate, soulful, traditional music of portugal

muito bonito.

                

“the only thing that matters is to feel the fado.

the fado is not meant to be sung; it simply happens.

you feel it, you don’t understand it and you don’t explain it.”

– Amália Rodrigues, Portuguese activist

Known as the “Rainha do Fado” (“Queen of Fado”), Amalia Rodrigues was a Portuguese singer and actress best known for her passionate and romantic, yet hauntingly tragic, renditions of fado, Lisbon’s traditional form of song. 1920-1999

Known worldwide, Fado was recently considered an Intangible Heritage of Humanity by UNESCO because this musical style reflects a large part of the country’s identity. Since the time of the Discoveries, the Portuguese have carried with them a feeling of melancholy that is purged through music.

Fado means ‘fate.’

toasted.

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vitta roma cafe

in a neighborhood north of lisboa

lovely outdoor seating

with lots of interesting local people

stopping in

part of their daily routine

we sat outdoors

when asked about food options

our waiter

offered us two choices

a toasted cheese sandwich

or

a ham and cheese toasted sandwich

and all kinds of delicious coffee options

when we finished and went in to pay

we discovered a lovely fresh menu

and beautiful bakery

which an indoor staff member

said was delicioso

(easily translatable to wonderfully good)

perhaps we asked for the special ‘toasted menu’?

we continued exploring

finding our way around

more charming cafes and shops and tiny outdoor bars

 had the best fresh mojito i’ve ever had

at a small outdoor bar

where ‘buttered toast’ was an appetizer option

(again, the toast!)

friendly people

lots of languages

places of origin

where language is not a barrier

we meet in the middle

split the difference

 come to a mutual understanding.

 

“americans who travel abroad for the first time are often shocked to discover that,

despite all the progress that has been made in the last 30 years,

many foreign people still speak in foreign languages.”

-dave barry

up and down.

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the world’s shortest commercial flight takes less than one minute.

 i am not on this one.

my flight takes more than one minute.

still in the air, hopefully sleeping, when you read this.

Passengers aboard Loganair Flight LM711, which travels 1.7 miles between the Scottish islands of Westray and Papa Westray, are airborne very briefly. On a good day, the world’s shortest commercial flight takes less than a minute — as little as 53 seconds, in fact. There’s no co-pilot, no lavatory, and only eight passengers aboard the Britten-Norman BN-2 Islander aircraft. Tickets for the journey, which is made just two or three times a day, cost roughly $22. Both Westray and Papa Westray are part of the Orkney archipelago, a sparsely populated set of islands that have proved popular with adventurous travelers in search of a scenic journey that happens to include a record-setting flight.

‘you are the one who possesses the keys to your being.

you carry the passport to your own happiness.’

-diane von furstenburg

 

photo credit: loganair

 

flight of the bumblebee.

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i’m the praying mantis  by the window

next to the fuzzy bumblebee in the aisle seat

each headed out on our own journeys

sharing a common space for a time

 love talking to strangers

their story never fails to be interesting 

when i wake up tomorrow

i’ll be in portugal

maybe i’ll cross paths with the flying bee again

perhaps not

everything is possible

let the adventure begin.

‘the earth is what we all have in common.’

-wendell berry

 

 

art credit: Flight of the Bumblebee by Hawaiian-born Canadian author/illustrator, Eric Fan.

the partridge family.

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we loved watching the partridge family show growing up

it had everything

music, family, adventure, comedy, teen idols

recently

i ran into a real partridge family

following mom

into the tall grass

 i was instantly transported

back to that happy, fun, tv family

the flock of kids

following mom onto the family bus.

 

“I guess every family has to have a black sheep. I always thought ours was Keith.”

-youngest brother danny, on the partridge family

 

 

 

*The Partridge Family is a musical situation comedy

that aired on American Broadcasting Company. from 1970-1974.

 

#uno in the oro league! at least for ‘deux minutes.’

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a couple of weeks ago

i decided to finally learn italian

something i’ve wanted to do for a long time

half of my family hertiage is italian

though few of us know more than a minimum of words

 i find it to be such a poetic language

musical and pleasant to the senses.

one day i hope to visit italia

and even use some of what i’ve learned.

so here i am

at the top of my game

for a couple of short minutes

in my online duo lingo class

not the most thorough or intense course

often like a game show format

but non-judgmental

a good beginning

and i’m learning some things.

i am now at the point where

if anyone would like to order

a croissant, a coffee, even with cream.

in italian

i am ready and happy to help.

even though i’ve begun italian

i still carry

some crumbs of french from way back:

‘je suis fatigue.’

(i am tired) – use as needed

21 years of pre-k spanish:

‘hola! hay una pinata?’

(hi, is there a pinata?) –  also as needed

a lifetime of english, still in process:

(‘what the heck is going on?’) – again as needed, and used often

i will soon be heading to portugal

where none of these languages are spoken

but

the more i learn, the more i know, and the more i know, the more i can,

just kind of mash them all together

use my hands a lot

smile

 try to do my best to communicate.

all while hopefully

not offending anyone,

getting engaged,

eating any weird meat products,

or adopting a child who i would have to clear through customs.

‘sliante!’ – (cheers!) to all of you-

 because the other side of my family are irish

and this may well be the only word any of us knows of it.

‘learning another language is not only learning different words for the same things,

but learning another way to think about things.’

– flora lewis

 

.When thinking in another language, it really changes the way you think,

partly due to the way the language works and partly grasping the culture.

few things are more satisfying than seeing your children have teenagers of their own.~doug larson

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i have a great affection for babies and teens

awkward and gawky and working so hard to be independent

saw this group performing at a local small town event

song full of angst and sass, just wanting to be left alone to party.

what being a teenager is all about

trying on all the faces and seeing what fits 

some things never change just appear in a different form.

 

 

“foolishness, radicalism, morbidity are marks of promising youth, the obvious signs of inward ferment. the melancholy pose, the affectation of pessimism and cynicism, the sentimentality, the conviction of genius, that many of us deplore or deride in certain young people, may be as natural to their age and disposition as the sense of immortality of which Hazlitt writes so feelingly in one of his essays. we should rejoice to find them. they are among the indications of spiritual growth.”

~Robert M. Gay, “As I Laye A-Thynkynge,” The Atlantic Monthly, January 1917