Category Archives: Life

ride along.

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stopping for an oil change

on my way home from school

 the tech went to open my hood

pausing to tell me

i had a ‘little friend’ traveling along with me

 a praying mantis

who had hunkered down and hung on just below my windshield

he very carefully opened the hood

the mantis hopped up on the windshield wiper

 hung out while my oil was changed

just taking it all in

other people came over to check him out

still he held his ground

the tech carefully closed the hood when finished

trying to very gently coax the mantis to go back to his safe spot

before i drove off

but the mantis would not be deterred

 hung on as i drove to the book store

 then i drove toward home

with my very special hood ornament

my ride along

even still hanging on 

gone when i got home

perhaps he hopped off

stopping to visit a town along the way

i hope it was the adventure of a lifetime.

“the truth is

you don’t know what’s going to happen tomorrow.

life is a crazy ride,

and nothing is guaranteed.”

-eminem

shared.

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each arriving in their own time

 all ending up in the same place

the house on the beautiful lake

missing those not able to come

we played board games

 cooked, hiked, lounged, laughed, read, were loud, were quiet, shared stories and pictures,

and tried to remember to leave nothing but memories behind

ending a great weekend up north with a final family dinner hangout

at the infamous art’s tavern

on an early fall evening

in glen arbor, michigan.

“one of the things that binds us as a family is a shared sense of humor.”

-ralph fiennes

the names.

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“The Names,” for the victims of September 11th and their survivors.

Yesterday, I lay awake in the palm of the night.

A soft rain stole in, unhelped by any breeze,

And when I saw the silver glaze on the windows,

I started with A, with Ackerman, as it happened,

Then Baxter and Calabro,

Davis and Eberling, names falling into place

As droplets fell through the dark.

Names printed on the ceiling of the night.

Names slipping around a watery bend.

Twenty-six willows on the banks of a stream.

In the morning, I walked out barefoot

Among thousands of flowers

Heavy with dew like the eyes of tears,

And each had a name —

Fiori inscribed on a yellow petal

Then Gonzalez and Han, Ishikawa and Jenkins.

Names written in the air

And stitched into the cloth of the day.

A name under a photograph taped to a mailbox.

Monogram on a torn shirt,

I see you spelled out on storefront windows

And on the bright unfurled awnings of this city.

I say the syllables as I turn a corner —

Kelly and Lee,

Medina, Nardella, and O’Connor.

When I peer into the woods,

I see a thick tangle where letters are hidden

As in a puzzle concocted for children.

Parker and Quigley in the twigs of an ash,

Rizzo, Schubert, Torres, and Upton,

Secrets in the boughs of an ancient maple.

Names written in the pale sky.

Names rising in the updraft amid buildings.

Names silent in stone

Or cried out behind a door.

Names blown over the earth and out to sea.

In the evening — weakening light, the last swallows.

A boy on a lake lifts his oars.

A woman by a window puts a match to a candle,

And the names are outlined on the rose clouds —

Vanacore and Wallace,

(let X stand, if it can, for the ones unfound)

Then Young and Ziminsky, the final jolt of Z.

Names etched on the head of a pin.

One name spanning a bridge, another undergoing a tunnel.

A blue name needled into the skin.

Names of citizens, workers, mothers and fathers,

The bright-eyed daughter, the quick son.

Alphabet of names in a green field.

Names in the small tracks of birds.

Names lifted from a hat

Or balanced on the tip of the tongue.

Names wheeled into the dim warehouse of memory.

So many names, there is barely room on the walls of the heart.

*billy collins

*Billy Collins was the U.S. poet laureate at the time of the 9/11 attacks. A year later, he wrote “The Names” in honor of the victims. He read the poem before a special joint session of Congress held in New York City in 2002.,

 

source credit: pbs television -news hour

ghost forest.

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another try at hiking on the sleeping bear dunes point trail
this time not the long forced dune march like in the spring
instead
some dune, beautiful views,  waving grass, soft forest paths
and a real trail.
and then
the ghost forest.
“the ultimate luxury in life remains nature. “
-robert rabensteiner
a “Ghost Forest” in Sleeping Bear Dunes National Lakeshore.
These forests were covered and uncovered by the shifting sands of Lake Michigan’s dunes,
leaving behind these ghostly trees.
glen arbor, michigan, usa, summer 2023

i need to go now.

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she remembered off and on

throughout the afternoon

why she needed to leave school and go home

she tried calling on the old wood phone

told us she did not need to be here

told us her mom misses her

gave us so many, many reasons

and finally

she came up with my favorite:

“i need to go home…….to fix my hair!”

well, why didn’t you say so in the first place?

of course you do

we reminded her that mom would be back pretty soon

and in the meantime

we marched around like big dinosaurs

laughing and playing

ate applesauce and ran around outside

on a cool almost fall day

hair flying in the wind.

“home is where somebody notices when you are no longer there.”

-aleksandar hemon, the lazarus project

seeing magic.

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and, the magic has begun.

the kinder find an extended family of roly-poly’s in the trunk of a tree

everyone runs over to see them. 

 

 

 

“children can see magic because they look for it.”

-christopher moore

september days.

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“by all these lovely tokens,

september days are here. 

with summer’s best of weather,

and autumn’s best of cheer.”

-helen hunt jackson

 

art credit: debi hubbs, folk art painting

long weekend.

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on the long weekend

some of everything

sharing a spaghetti dinner with family

relaxing with friends at the lake

by the fire

 waking up to a morning moon

a visit to the renaissance festival

cavorting with royalty, vikings, faerie folk, gnomes, jesters, magicians, musicians, artisans, knights, peasants, horses, dogs, dancers, warriors, barbarians, huns, lords and ladies…


and on the third day, she rested.

“on a long weekend, the possibilities are endless,

and we have the freedom to do as much or as little as we please.”

– unknown

 

labor.

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honoring all workers on labor day in america

 

“the supreme accomplishment is to blur the lines between work and play.”

-arnold j. toynbee

 

 

 

image credit: next nature nework

 

 

what to do with the time.

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yes, i know it’s not cheese, but something about this sauce is like liquid gold to me

A Florida woman filed a class action lawsuit against Kraft Heinz … claiming its Velveeta Shells & Cheese prep time is not actually “ready in 3 1/2” minutes, as advertised.

She states that the 3.5 minutes is only the amount of time the food has to go in the microwave and claims it takes more time to actually prepare the meal — don’t forget you’ve got to pour water into the cup and stir in the cheese sauce.

She doesn’t say how long it takes her, but claims the 4 steps listed in the directions — remove the lid and cheese sauce pouch, add water to the fill line and stir, microwave for 3 1/2 minutes, and then stir in the cheese sauce — don’t equate to the mac actually being READY to eat in that time frame.

She’s also looking to put together a class of customers who might also be upset about the prep time and says the damages will exceed $5 million.

“We are aware of this frivolous lawsuit and will strongly defend against the allegations in the complaint,” the company reportedly told USA Today.

 

*editorial opinion: what if she was to devote all of the time and energy and money it is taking her to create, publicize, rally people, and carryout this lawsuit, and instead, use it as the ‘extra unplanned prep time’ she feels she is wasting and it requires, when making her shells and cheese? or, make it from scratch and compare the prep time needed. just a thought… (beth)

“all we can do is decide what to do with the time that is given us”

-j.r. tolkein