a powerful symbol on indigenous peoples’ day.

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In Navajo (Diné) culture, laughter is considered a powerful symbol of connection. The moment a baby laughs for the first time, it is believed they are choosing to join the human community. Until then, the baby is viewed as still being in transition between the spiritual and physical worlds.

This tradition, known as the A’wee Chi’deedloh ceremony, is typically observed around three months of age. Family members pay close attention during this period, eager to be the one who makes the child laugh. Whoever succeeds earns the honor of hosting the celebration, often preparing a meal of salted food and gifts to mark the occasion.
The ceremony not only celebrates the baby’s first expression of joy, but also emphasizes generosity and community. Salt is symbolically offered to guests to encourage the child to grow up to be generous and kind. It’s one of the earliest social teachings given to a Navajo child, using joy as a path toward belonging and humanity.
Indigenous Peoples’ Day is an official city and state holiday in various localities in the United States that celebrates and honors Indigenous American peoples and commemorates their histories and cultures. It is celebrated on the second Monday in October.

source credits: unity, navajo traditions

‘good enough never is.’ – debbi fields

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good harbor grill

good help wanted

‘whatever you are, be a good one.’

-william makepeace thackeray

glen arbor, michigan, usa, October 20

rain on the lake.

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up north

not quite so far

lower peninsula 

the weather changes its mood

deciding to rain on the lake

‘for after all, the best thing one can do when it is raining is to let it rain.’

-henry wadsworth longfellow

glen lake, empire, Michigan, usa, October 2025

‘creativity takes courage.’ – henri matisse

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a colorful marble orb spider, not unlike this one, came down on its web

(and not on anyone’s hand, the spider above is a model/actor)

appearing as we were having a glass of wine outside before dinner

it lowered itself down checking us out

with excited and mixed reviews from the group

not long after

we moved inside

while some of us

were in the kitchen finishing up dinner preparation 

the rest of us were left to our own devices

 in the living room

with more beverages

and a tray of appetizers 

i thought it would be a great idea

to fashion 

a marbled orb spider hanging from its web

out of leftover pieces from the tray

everyone pitched in

when it was finished

it seemed a challenge

to decide which was more lovely 

the outside real spider

or 

the inside interpretive spider

art and beauty

are very personal choices

as we all know

‘life is like art. it’s all interpretive.’ 

-robert holden

I’m with the banned.

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read.

 don’t stop reading

read every book

in spite of banned books week 

read every week. 

‘write what should not be forgotten.’

-Isabel Allende, Chilean-American author

 

Interesting note:

“When the Viennese government compiled a Catalogue of Forbidden Books in 1765, so many Austrians used it as a reading guide that the Hapsburg censors were forced to include the Catalogue itself as a forbidden book.”
Craig Nelson,Thomas Paine: Enlightenment, Revolution, and the Birth of Modern Nations

art credit: Alicia Martin, Spain-based artist’s sculptural installation at Casa de America, Madrid 

it’s official.

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yep.

my shirt has arrived

i am now officially part of the team

must be all the research

i did on my recent visit to the UP

the team knows i’m all in.

‘if we knew what it was we were doing, it would not be called research, would it?’

-albert einstein

her place.

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she had found her place at long last
confirmed by the thumbs up
(happened upon in the streets of Ann Arbor)
‘she could not then know that, even for the squarest peg,
the right hole may ultimately be found’
-henry handel richardson, the getting of wisdom

‘it is what we know already that often prevents us from learning.’- claude bernard 

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i’m always fascinated

by how we continue to learn new things every day

it’s a part of what keeps life so interesting in my opinion

while all of us know people

who believe they already ‘know it all’

I learned a long time ago it’s just not true

I also learned that for all of the many things I learn

there are also things that I forget

so hopefully I learn more than I forget

should I just call it even then?

or odd?

 

“if we remembered everything,

we should on most occasions be as ill off as if we remembered nothing” 

-Aaron S. Benjamin, Successful Remembering and Successful Forgetting

image credit: Harvard Medical School, Daydreaming Brain

if you sell it, they will sleep.

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‘for sale – text ‘bed’

when out walking

I came across this unusual setup 

a bed for sale under an open tent 

in someone’s yard

an outdoor showroom of sorts

makes it easy to see

 no potential customers

have to trod through your house 

maybe a winning strategy

hopefully no sideways rain

or sleet or snow

fingers crossed

this will be 

a quick sale

a perfect fit

just what someone is looking for

will they want to sleep out there one night?

see if it is comfortable?

will they want to jump on it? 

‘we are not saving lives.we are selling dreams.’

-marco bizzarri

*Marco Bizzarri is an Italian businessman, and was president and CEO of Gucci 2015 – 2023. He previously was president and CEO of Stella McCartney and Bottega Veneta.

we have the choice.

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in honor of the passing of Jane Goodall and National Poetry Day

stand on the bridge
hem of heaven
holding beauty, awe, reverence, wonder
daily decisions to engage, bother, contribute, care, participate, listen, be alive
actions more than words but they both count, add up or diminish
be kind, offer a smile, a warm embrace, enthusiasm, delight, empathy, connection
gift of life
open daily.

“we have the choice to use the gift of our life to make the world a better place

-or not to bother”

-Jane Goodall

 

gallup park, ann arbor, michigan, usa – october