doing virtual early childhood parent-teacher conferences online
did not feel natural
but i give parents so much credit
some went to elaborate lengths
to find a space and time
where their child wouldn’t find them
so we could openly talk
and share stories
about how their child
touched our hearts this year
we talked to parents
in a closet, in a basement, up in an attic room,
and those who sent their child off on an errand
some waited until their child was asleep at night
but one thing was the same
this was a wonderful group of supportive, think-on-their-feet parents
who kept our connection with their children going
even from a distance
as we all navigated our way through this uncharted territory
and we were so lucky to have them as our teaching and learning partners this year.
—
“in a world where the great technologies enable us to record, replay, cut and paste, zoom in, and delete –
listening is the crucial commitment to keep the heart touchable.”
-mark nepo
—
photo credit: bored panda
I loved this one, Beth; I was a teacher in my former life, though being secondary, we only got to see the parents on parent-teacher nights but that was still valuable. And yes, beyond the technology, matters of the heart are paramount; I hope our senior public service ackowledge this
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thanks so much, John. every one who has ever taught, at any level understands the need for the connection
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That’s a lovely tribute, Beth. You did well too, to accommodate all those different needs.
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thanks, Norah. it was an ongoing moving target and balancing act )
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You’re doing well. Such a long time to be away from your little ones, and they from you.
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A wonderful versed style and an entertaining subject. It is interesting to see how much things have changed since the pandemic, and how many things, though different in the how’s, still hold onto all the original why’s. Great post, Beth! (And, I am not sure why, but I can’t look at that picture and not laugh)
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thanks, brad. I don’t know if my style would ever fit into any sort of form, but somehow it spills on to a page. ) I loved the pic too, it really showed the challenge of hiding in plain sight with limited options –
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Love this, there’s a new kind of sacred in this uncharted territory.
🙏🏻❤
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it is all new and uncertain with every step, but doable for now –
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The parents–and the teachers–did so much to help their children during this time.
And that photo made me laugh, too. ❤️
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it had to be a team effort to make it work, and the pic kind of summed up hiding in place )
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Of course Beth I’m too old to be one of those parents, but tonight I was lucky enough to at my friends house, Who have experiencing their home teaching duties…..and our conversation was all positive about how this current situation has brought more understanding and appreciation into their family circle…
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I have seen this throughout my classes, a new level of connection between families, a positive
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Yes indeed…
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I love how you included all sides of the screen + life in your post! As a psychology professor, I am now responsible for teaching 500+ college and university students online right now. A struggle AND an opportunity for growth. For all members of the audience. Thank you again for this post Beth. Once again, you shed light and love. Wishing you a wonderful day! Andrea ❤
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it truly is a group effort, and some positive things have come from it. best of luck to you Andrea as you try to find your balance in teaching at the university level. other side of the coin, but same precarious balance.
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💓💓💓
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And I am sure the parents feel grateful for having someone as kind and caring as you as their kid’s teacher. And I admire how parents seemed to have adapted so well to such a drastic change in routine.
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thanks, jim. I think we all tried to do our best to make it work and it truly takes all to find the balance.
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Cheers to all the teachers, parents and students who championed on so well during this crisis, Beth. Well done.
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to all! ❤
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Those parents are worth their weight in gold.
Delightful you have managed despite the complications, too.
Cheers for all of you!
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They are ! And it truly took the group )
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What an adorable image. This is wonderful that you can connect with parents and students while being miles away. This is the positive aspect of technology
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Somehow connections transcend things
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Yes, they do.
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I loved this, the parents’ determination to speak with you about their children and the quote. Just lovely.
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Thank you so much
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Terrific.
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Thank you
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I remember the journey through Smallchildrenland. Parenting never ends, but my chapeau is doffed to the parents, teachers, and students of these extraordinary times.
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🎩
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Lovely, Beth. I can’t say I am sad my kids are way past that age. I wonder where I would have found the patience…
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I’m sure it was a huge challenge
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So beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
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thank you, patrice
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Beautiful, Beth. I’m thankful for technology. My daughter has Zoom activities from her teachers for my granddaughter! ❤
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great!
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Lovely… Making connections and supporting our children. Kudos to caring parents and teachers! ❤
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Here’s to the teachers, who make it work somehow and to the parents who are trying to keep things as normal as possible. I love the Nepo quote, Beth. To learn, we first have to be good listeners.
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Terrific! It’s an “upside down” world right now, but in a strange way, even with the economic and health crisis around us, it has helped re-connect us. I just wish it wasn’t due to such a devastating virus.
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yes, to all of that, John –
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How wonderful, Beth. I am glad that you and your children’s parents have made it all work.
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I’m happy too
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Kudos to “ALL” the parents holding the fort down through all of this!!!
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Yes!
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Oh yeah, lotta work, but it’ll pay off!
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LISTENING does really matter! absolutely!!!!! totally believe in LISTENING!
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i’m a big fan
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from my heart to yours, beth — thank you for this beautifully heart-felt post
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❤
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And gratitude to the teachers who whispered to not wake sleeping children, or laughed when the meeting didn’t go as planned, or stayed up late to accommodate parents working or putting children to bed, and went to certain measures to help the parents help their children through this chaotic time. ❤
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Lovely, Beth! It is unnatural and hard for all teachers, and parents, and especially the children. We are planning a big visit with each child in a few weeks, delivering their year-end portfolios, reading, singing, and just ‘being’- at a distance, of course. I’ll have a permanent lump in my throat, for sure.
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Wonderful
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How funny!
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it’s a challenge )
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Hilarious photo.
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it was so funny that they were hiding in plain sight all over their houses so we could chat )
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The lengths parents will go to… the ends of the earth.
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Absolutely
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