Category Archives: Life

primary reason.

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today i’ll be working at the polls for our primary

please make sure to vote

with your heart and your mind

if you haven’t already

it can make all the difference

primaries matter.

‘nobody will ever deprive the american people of the right to vote except the american people themselves

and the only way they could do that is by not voting.’

-franklin d. roosevelt

 

 

art credit: shepard fairey

 

to look forward and not back, to look out and not in, and to lend a hand. -edward e. hale

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wi,

this past weekend i took part in a ‘shop with a cop’ event

sponsored by

mott children’s hospital,

the  county sheriff department, local police departments, state troopers,

u.s. marines, and the university of michigan police department

everyone volunteered their time

to take underserved children and their families

 back to school shopping at a local meijer store.

it was beautifully organized

we all met in the morning at the stadium

set up food, games, drinks, tables

met our law enforcement partners for the day

families arrived

we shared a meal with our family and created our shopping team

loaded up on university busses

accompanied by motorcycle cops with lights flashing

the kids were really excited.

when we arrived

we descended upon the store

 masses of uniformed officers and children

must have caused some shoppers to wonder

but everyone got right to work

helping the kids find the things on their lists

along with lots of  extras

at checkout everything was covered

headed back to the stadium

for kona ice, more food, build-a-bear projects, face-painting

checking out the team locker room and playing on the field

by the end of the day

we had shared our stories with each other

learned so much

everyone had bonded

no matter their age, rank, or status.

people were tired and smiling

as they walked out the door

ready for school

headed for home

happy to know

people in the community support them

as a volunteer

this day

was also a gift to me from my community.

“there isn’t anyone you couldn’t love once you’ve heard their story.”

-mary lou kownacki

 

 

 

 

(Luck I.)

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this very moving page popped up on my screen recently

proof once again

that one person’s simple act

can have a huge impact on another

often without  them ever knowing.

profound and quiet kindness

yes.

 

source credit: Luck (I), by Joy Sullivan

Joy lives in Portland, Oregon and is a poet and educator. She has a masters degree in poetry and served as the poet-in-residence for the Wexner Center for the Arts. She also leads live transformative writing workshops for individuals who have experienced trauma and has guest-lectured in classrooms from Stanford to Florida State University.

Joy’s work is a part of The San Marcos Writing Project and is one of over 200 writing project sites in the country devoted to developing teacher leaders that improve the writing and learning of all students.

csusm.edu/education/outreach/smwp.html

climbing out of the rabbit hole.

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follow-up and resolution to yesterday’s post-

after a long spiral down the rabbit hole

in a journey to procure

a throw pillow and a rug

purely on a whim

that i didn’t really need

i went to sleep.

when i woke to a new day

i headed over to pick up my goods

determined to make it work

when i arrived at the store

 shared why i was there

we, as a group

the only three employees and i

discovered that:

my pillow order had been cancelled and refunded

as they were never able to locate it in the store

next up:

they seemed genuinely stumped

when i showed them

the ‘your rug is ready for pickup’  e-mail

sent to me by their company

they each asked my name

looked at my confirmation

typed the order number in their computers

muttered some stuff

looked at each other quizically

and off they all went on the hunt

each in a different direction

when they returned

it was determined that

no one could find it

they discussed it again

one finally looked up and said-

‘oh, i remember finding it last night and putting in the pickup area!’

who knew?

i was not going to leave that store without my rug

so i actively began helping them find it

(do they only carry one of each item?)

they were all looking for a rolled up rug

but i found it folded on shelf instead

in –

‘the pickup area!’

so lucky i am a hobby detective

(even though i have a strong startle response)

with my refund for the pillow they never found

and the discount i battled with ai online to get

my rug ended up extremely well priced

making it even more of a treasure

 last night

i laid on my new rug

without a new festive throw pillow nearby

proud of my crack detective work

exhausted and amused by the crazy process

tomorrow –

who knows what will happen

when i go to the post office and the movies?!!

 

“the only way out of a hole is to climb out.”

-cherly strayed, american author, wild

 

 

 

 

 

image credit: psyschology today

soft landing.

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you know how you start out doing one thing

and it leads to another

and another

and yet another

soon you realize you’ve tumbled right down

into the rabbit hole?

that was me yesterday

i’ll try to recount the steps in the order they fell –

sitting on my couch drinking a cup of morning coffee 

reading and responding to blogs

i looked over at a pillow on my couch

i remembered buying it, loved it’s design

now it looked faded

thought i’d try washing the cover to see if it had any hope

checked online to see if there were any similar that i could purchase 

went onto a site for a store that has designs i love

scrolled through all of the pillows and found a few i liked

finally chose one

when i went to order it

a note popped up

saying members only ‘20% off today  – last day,’

i went to officially sign in, it refused my password, saying it had expired

went through the new password process, they sent and email authorization to me

went back in and took a couple of tries to change and save my password

went back in again, now as a ‘member’ , found the pillow, put it in my cart

went to order it and it asked for the code for the discount

went back a few steps, found the code

found the pillow again and put it in my cart again

said it needed me to update my address, as my zip code didn’t match, different since i’ve moved

changed the address info

said discount only applied if ordered online and picked up in store

fine by me, the store is close by

changed the shipping method

finally ordered and said they’d email me when ready for pickup.

went out and did errands and stopped by store to pickup.

manager told me it wasn’t ready yet, but i was welcome to try to find it in the store,

buy it, and then they would cancel my online order

i searched the whole store and found many, many pillows, except for the one i ordered.

she told me they’d let me know when it was found and ready.

on my way out, i saw a rug that i loved, another item i’ve been wanting to replace.

ordered it online from my car in their parking lot to get the ‘member deal’ and drove home.

an hour later, i got the email that my rug was ready for pickup, but no word on the earlier order of the pilow.

decided to climb out of the rabbit hole for the day and wait until i hear that they are both ready to be picked up.

my how it so easy to fall in –

today is a new day

hoping for a soft landing on my pillow on my rug.

“all too often, the rabbit hole is as deep as you have dug it.”

-gary hopkins, author

 

 

 

image credit: publishers weekly

 

does costco know something?

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 costco’s readywise emergency kit has people worried 

While there’s plenty to love at Costco, like the salad kits, sheet cakes, and mini oreo cheesecakes, it has also been prone to some food controversy in the past, including the massive chocolate chunk cookies that were hurting people’s stomachs. Now Costco is stirring up emotions again with its new monster dinner kits that have customers worried the retailer is warning us the apocalypse may be coming.

Costco recently released the Readywise Emergency Food Supply Bucket, which features 150 servings of various food choices. Costco’s website lists the servings as “80 servings of hearty entrées & sides, 30 servings for nourishing breakfasts, and an additional 40 drink servings.”

For $80, this massive meal kit includes 12 servings each of pasta Alfredo, cheesy macaroni, brown sugar and maple multi-grain, apple cinnamon cereal, and 10 servings of white rice. You’ll also find 6 servings each of teriyaki rice, creamy pasta and vegetables, potato pot pie, tomato basil soup with pasta, chicken noodle soup, and crunchy granola. There are also 16 servings of vanilla pudding and orange drink mix, plus 24 servings of whey milk alternative.

The bucket has a 25-year shelf life thanks to being made with freeze-dried and dehydrated foods. You also only need to add water to eat or drink the items. Costco’s website explains that ease of preparation “isn’t just about simplicity; it’s about maintaining a sense of normalcy when the world around you might feel anything but normal.” Naturally, many wondered what this warehouse retailer was trying to get at.

One Instagram user posted about this latest Costco find, calling it the “Costco Apocalypse Dinner Kit, commenters quickly added their thoughts. One commenter asked, “Does Costco know something?” Someone else added, “If the apocalypse comes, where are you getting fresh water to prepare these dried meals?”

‘in ‘Shaun of the Dead,’ it’s not shaun’s fault that there’s a zombie apocalypse – he just has to get through the day.’ -edgar wright

 

 

source credits: costco, all recipes, carissa chesanek

re-solution.

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 dreamed that i was working on a jigsaw puzzle

happily sorting it out, putting the pieces into place

i love solving puzzles

what a peaceful enterprise

then a section appeared

all white pieces

not sure exactly where to begin with it

 a new challenge

so curious to see how i would solve it

but i woke up too soon.

i looked up dream analysis

about jigsaw puzzles

and the color white

 it made such sense.

solving jigsaws represents

putting the pieces of your life back together,

reorganizing,

perhaps in new ways, after a life change

white represents blank pages, waiting to be written.

what a perfect solution to my retirement puzzle.

‘the solution often turns out more beautiful than the puzzle.’

-richard dawkins

the lights go down.

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at the verrry cool

elk rapids cinema

old, but mighty good

something magical about an old movie house.

 

‘what’s a bigger mystery box than a movie theater?

you go to the theater, you’re just so excited to see anything –

the moment the lights go down is often the best part.’

j.j. abrams

mischief maker.

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perfect branding.

what could possibly go wrong?

“the opportunity for doing mischief is found a hundred times a day, and of doing good once in a year.”

-voltaire

 

 

stoney cabin toyshop, elk rapids, mi, usa

to the lake.

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night slowly arrives 

warmly wraps around the lake

color fades away.

“of all the paths you take in life make some lead to the lake.”
– unknown

 

 

on glen lake, empire, michigan, usa – summer 2024