May15
May14
adventure vacation memories.
May13
3d or not 3d? that is the question.
when my girls were young
we went on a matinee date
to see a dollar movie in 3d
everyone was so excited
then came
the popcorn and sweet treats
the movie started
the cardboard 3d glasses
got bent
kept coming off
i finally used their barrettes
to attach them
right to their hair
greasy popcorn hands
made smears all over the lenses
sticky candy stuff
got on their hair
it got tangled
there were spills
the movie was bad
at least one started crying
no one could see
out of their magic glasses
there was
a lot of
loud whispering
it was not
exactly
what we expected
but we had
our own
very exciting
real life
3d action adventure
right in our little row
none the less
and that’s
a heck of a lot of entertainment
for just a buck.
—
a mind that is stretched by a new experience
can never go back to its old dimensions.
– oliver wendell holmes, jr.
—
image credit: google images
May12
“we are a very, very unusual species.” – richard dawkins
May10
the most remarkable thing about my mother is that for thirty years she served the family nothing but leftovers. the original meal has never been found. – calvin trillin
there was a time
years ago
when there was not much money
but lots of imagination
and my three growing daughters
and so
the special casseroles were born
along with their legends
jewel of the sea
(tuna, old noodles, mushroom soup, peas and crushed potato chips on top)
‘it’s what the mermaids eat.’
cluck-a-doodle-doo
(same as the recipe above, just sub in chicken in a can for the tuna)
‘the crunchy bits on top (stale potato chips), are the special part of this secret recipe. it’s what the farmers eat.’
cowboy roundup
(cut up leftover hot dogs, beans, cheese, ketchup, mustard)
‘it’s what the cowboys eat on the trail, during the big roundup.’
just mix everything together
make something new out of them
turn them into a collage of food
give it all a name
create a story
bake it for a while
until it bubbles
scoop it out
eat until full.
‘yes, you can mix green beans, onion soup and ketchup,
it’s one of the most popular casseroles in the world.
not everyone gets the chance to eat this’
and we ate
and we were full
though there was
a bit of rebellion
and some questions
and organized sentinel duty
at times
‘let’s take turns standing by mom when she makes the chili.
make sure she doesn’t put anything weird in it.
don’t leave her side for a minute.
you’re the youngest, you go first.’
yet we all lived to tell.

happy mother’s day
to my three daughters
who are all now mothers themselves
and wonderful cooks
and to all of the
other mothers out there
and those who now have
or have had mothers
and mother figures
in their lives
may you always find a way to feed your brood
with creativity
with whatever food you have
and
with much love.
——
images: googleimages, pinterest.com
May9
never be afraid to sit a while and think. – lorraine hansberry
May8
no news is good news.
May7
my odyssey with the iliad.
with the absence of my carpool mate
due to the arrival of her newest bambino
i attempted to fill my commute time
with my personal repertoire
of all things musical
every known
genre and format
then
sports rants
in-car karaoke singing
thoughtful npr shows
science
politics
mindless morning shows
when
i remembered
audio books
the iliad
seemed
the perfect candidate
a story
i read under duress
long ago
yet remembered
nothing of
i decided
to give it
a second chance
it was an incredible odyssey for me
filled
with drama
and matched wits
and dialogue
long forgotten
“you are a bitch, unparalleled.”
“i will offer you 3 fine horses and a chariot or a woman who will sleep with you.”
“my wife, the goddess, defies me out of habit.”
not unlike reality tv shows
but much better written
with humor
and grace
and honor
and ego
and pride
and emotion
and death
and rituals
and flashy armor
and sumptuous meals
and lusty sex
and days off from fighting
for celebrations
and memorials
and just for rest
and always
the behind the scenes manipulations
with gods
and mortals
mixing it up
all trying
to find their way
figure out life
win their battles
much like the rest of us
and
i grew to love the story
all fourteen discs of it
through
rain
dark
sunrises
traffic jams
accidents
highway miles
sunsets
high winds
i looked forward to it
every day
as i began to understand
who all the
‘son of, maker of, and those whose names all ended with the letter s’
characters were
how they were connected
when it all ended
i was left wanting more
and
if only
homer had
written another
epic poem
he could have called it
“the odyssey”
oh, he did.
and
i can’t wait.
the journey has been incredible from its beginning.
– sidney poitier
May5
the formula ‘two and two make five’ is not without its attractions. – fyodor dostoevsky
May4









