there was a time

years ago

when there was not much money

but lots of imagination

and my three growing daughters

and so

the special casseroles were born

along with their legends

jewel of the sea

(tuna, old noodles, mushroom soup, peas and crushed potato chips on top)

‘it’s what the mermaids eat.’

cluck-a-doodle-doo

(same as the recipe above, just sub in chicken in a can for the tuna)

‘the crunchy bits on top (stale potato chips), are the special part of this secret recipe. it’s what the farmers eat.’

cowboy roundup 

(cut up leftover hot dogs, beans, cheese, ketchup, mustard)

‘it’s what the cowboys eat on the trail, during the big roundup.’

just mix everything together

make something new out of them

turn them into a collage of food

give it all a name

create a story

bake it for a while

until it bubbles

scoop it out

eat until full.

‘yes, you can mix green beans, onion soup and ketchup,

it’s one of the most popular casseroles in the world.

not everyone gets the chance to eat this’

and we ate

and we were full

though there was

a bit of rebellion

and some questions

and organized sentinel duty

at times

‘let’s take turns standing by mom when she makes the chili.

 make sure she doesn’t put anything weird in it. 

don’t leave her side for a minute. 

you’re the youngest, you go first.’

yet we all lived to tell.

happy mother’s day

to my three daughters

who are all now mothers themselves

and wonderful cooks

and to all of the

other mothers out there

and those who now have

or have had mothers

and mother figures

in their lives

may you always find a way to feed your brood

with creativity

with whatever food you have

and

with much love.

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images: googleimages, pinterest.com

you’ll do all of that and more

when you read ‘chasing kites’

by tom nardone

of word press fame  – (iamtomnardone)

—

tom grew up dealing with undiagnosed adhd, suffering through bullies, schools, adults and family who didn’t understand him, and surviving many incredibly tough situations.

in this, his debut book, tom shares his stories, with unapologetic humor and honesty, as he learned over many years, how to overcome and live with these obstacles.

at last, with his take no prisoners approach to life, he has finally come into his own, with a loving and hilarious wife and stepson who accept him as he is, with all of his challenges and strengths. and he has found his voice, and his calling, in his blog and podcasts that let him reach out to others who may be struggling and who can use his stories to understand there is light at the end of the tunnel.

never give up and accept who you are.

a great read and a great message for everyone.

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http://tomnardone.net/2015/04/15/chasing-kites-by-tom-nardone-is-available-right-now/