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About beth

Ann Arbor-ite writes about enjoying life with all of its ironies and surprises.

christmas is coming! christmas is coming!

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and there’s no stopping it now,

so get on board or stand back!

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why?

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     now you might reasonably say to me: “why put yourself through all this? why go up to the loft when you know the decorations won’t be there? why untangle the lights when you know they haven’t a chance of working?” and my answer to you is that this is part of the ritual. christmas wouldn’t be christmas without it.’  bill bryson – ‘notes from a big country’

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ego is to the true self what a flashlight is to a spotlight. – john bradshaw

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when i got this box

and quickly

glanced at it

something

told my imagination

that the amazon guy

who never saw

or met me

or had any idea

or cared in the least

who i am

was

paying me

a bizarre compliment

then i realized

it

was just

a bit

of

dyslexic trickery

and

ego speak.

easy like a sunday morning.

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after a  night spent

with mayhem

and mischief

and fun

in

peaches’ cottage

while mom and dad have a date

and

ending up

on

the longest night ever

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tucked into the loft

nestled with

 nacho the cat

and

babies j and b

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then

we wake up to another day

the shortest day

and

find our zen.

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happy winter solstice.

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“And so the Shortest Day came and the year died
And everywhere down the centuries of the snow-white world
Came people singing, dancing,
To drive the dark away.
They lighted candles in the winter trees;
They hung their homes with evergreen;
They burned beseeching fires all night long
To keep the year alive.
And when the new year’s sunshine blazed awake
They shouted, revelling.
Through all the frosty ages you can hear them
Echoing behind us – listen!
All the long echoes, sing the same delight,
This Shortest Day,
As promise wakens in the sleeping land:
They carol, feast, give thanks,
And dearly love their friends,
And hope for peace.
And now so do we, here, now,
This year and every year.”

― Susan Cooper ( children’s author and first woman to edit oxford university’s paper)

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only 1 hour and 40 minutes until our winter holiday break begins.

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happy-animals-12and i

am feeling

quite celebratory

though apparently

not everyone

will have a holiday

beginning

in the same time frame

and some

may be feeling

a bit

differently.

and so it grows.

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nice to finally have a name for my dancing style.

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i believe i am qualified to teach a master class in this.

who’s in?

anyone who isn’t confused really doesn’t understand the situation. – edward r. murrow

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m: ‘i’m finished with class and just working, so let me know when you’re ready to go.’

me: ‘come now!!!! )))’

m: ‘coming out now.’

(i shut down my computer, pack up, walk upstairs, chit chat with colleagues, look out the door for m – my loyal carpool partner. who works in our high school, while i work in our kindergarten. we coordinate schedules each day. our buildings are one minute away from each other. we share a campus. we share rides to and from school. we share a friendship and a level of understanding each other, developed over hours spent together in a car, as willing captive audience members. i mill around. chit chat some more. visit two classrooms. look out window. more time passes. i check my phone to see if she got waylaid along the way.)

i look down and see this:

m: ‘you drove. right?’

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oh.

yes, yes i did.

i head to my car,

(without further milling or chatting or texting),

it’s waiting in my parking lot,

right where i left it this morning,

to pick up m.

we make eye contact.

m gets in the car.

we realize that each of us was waiting to be picked up by the other.

it could have been a very long wait.

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one drove.

one did not.

we leave. we wind down from the day. we laugh.

one of us got confused today.

we don’t name names.

“christmas waves a magic wand over this world, and behold, everything is softer and more beautiful. ” ― norman vincent peale

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that moment when baby j feels the magic.

christmas isn’t a season. it’s a feeling.

– edna ferber