Category Archives: Life

have a heart.

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“Dear Sidewalk People.”

That’s how 9-year-old Dahlia started her handwritten note placed under a rock along a city sidewalk hoping to get the attention of Ann Arbor’s crews slated to replace the slab she holds dear due to a distinctive feature.

This sidewalk has a heart.

“There is a heart in this block, and as me and my mom were walking home from school, we saw that there was an ‘R’ on the block that the heart is on,” reads the girl’s note, placed next to where she made a heart-shaped chalk outline around a small cavity in the slab the city has marked with an R to replace.

“You see, the heart is not just a heart,” wrote Dahlia, “Ever since I was little, I said hi to the heart. Don’t you see how much it means to me? Every time I pass the heart, I say hi and it brings me joy.”

Her father confirmed his daughter indeed says “hi, heart” every time she passes it. When she heard the city was going to replace the slab with the heart, Dahlia said she was devastated and cried.

“So can you please leave it or at least cut around the heart, for me to pick up on my way to school,” she wrote, ending her note by thanking the city’s repair crews for their work to keep sidewalks safe and encouraging them to give her note an extra read so it makes sense.

A spokesperson for the city’s public services unit did not have an immediate response on whether the sidewalk slab could be saved or whether the heart-shaped part could be salvaged for Dahlia to take.

While Dahlia really wanted to keep the heart sidewalk, her father said the family understands the need to fix it so people don’t trip and has talked with her about it.

“We compared it to the Halloween pumpkin she really loved and wanted to keep,” he said. “We told her we could keep it, but we could watch how when a pumpkin dies it helps nature by becoming part of something new.”

In that case, they put the pumpkin in their garden and Dahlia visited it every day and watched it decay, and in the spring she watched as flowers sprung up. She got to see her pumpkin again in the form of flowers.

As for her well-crafted sidewalk note, her father said while only 9, Dahlia is an amazing writer and gives him and his wife daily gems of wisdom worthy of the wisest, aged writers.

“sometimes the people who walk softly make the deepest impressions…” 

-nitya prakash

 

source credit: ryan stanton, mlive, ann arbor

do not forget alphabets.

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for the second time

we tried to surprise

a dear friend

to celebrate her milestone birthday

and round two came very close to not happening

when life circumstances intervened

just a few hours before.

 we quickly began planning

what our third attempt would look like

when she turned the tables

and surprised all of us

by showing up

at the appointed hour.

“new friends may be poems but old friends are alphabets.

do not forget alphabets, because you will need them to read the poems.”

*author: not shakespeare

*this is another one of those quotes that seems to have come up someplace and wandered around a bit until someone put “shakespeare once said…” in front of it and it stuck.  

reflection.

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looking into the river on a bright day in may

 

“time and reflection change the sight little by little ’till we come to understand.”

-paul cezanne

 

 

 

argo park, huron river, ann arbor, michigan, usa – 2023

 

today.

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another beautiful outdoor adventure day shared with the kinder

“there is such a difference between asking,

“what did you do today?”

vs. 

“what do you want to remember about today?”

-t. kearby

fantastical.

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one of the best parts of spending my days teaching

is hearing all the fantastical tales

that spring from the kinder

with their open eyes and open hearts. 

 

image credit: nicolette sowder, wilderchild

left turns.

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do i follow the go left turn sign on the left or the do not go left turn sign on the right?

 

“do i turn left, when nothing is right or do i turn right, when nothing is left?”

-author unknown

 

spring chickens.

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the kinder, who are spring chickens, check out the other spring chickens

and the other spring chickens check out the kinder. 

“the sun’s not yellow, it’s chicken!”

-bob dylan

be the guy with the bic.

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pandora cued up a classic ccr song for me on the way home

windows down sun shining warm spring air

 thinking of this quote that i just love:

“We were ready to rock out and we waited and waited and finally it was our turn … there were a half million people asleep. These people were out. It was sort of like a painting of a Dante scene, just bodies from hell, all intertwined and asleep, covered with mud. And this is the moment I will never forget as long as I live: A quarter mile away in the darkness, on the other edge of this bowl, there was some guy flicking his Bic, and in the night I hear, “Don’t worry about it, John. We’re with you.” I played the rest of the show for that guy.

—John Fogerty recalling Creedence Clearwater Revival’s 3:30 a.m. start time at Woodstock.” 

-hank bordowitz, bad moon rising: the unofficial history of credence clearwater revival

 

bread.

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the kinder work together to bake loaves of sweet lemon bread

to sell to their older learning partners

 practicing for the big bakery the next day

when there will be many different breads 

 their families will be the customers

everything will cost 1 cent

 if someone is hungry and doesn’t have any money

they will give them a penny and a piece of bread for free.

everyone eats bread.

“cooking with kids is not just about ingredients, recipes, and cooking.

it’s about harnessing, imagination, environment, and creativity.”

-guy fieri

completely pointless.

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(painting of a talented model who is not me,

but could be a close match

if i only knew how to play the piano, read music, and was cheeky monkey.)

sunday is my very favorite day for doing something pointless or absolutely nothing.

“weekends don’t count unless you spend them doing something completely pointless.”
— bill watterson

 

art credit: litus gallery